First and foremost I will say that every agency/booker I've worked with is solid. Zero complaints. Although there have been a few "kind of" disappointments (overly photoshopped, girls who don't do generally expected services), I don't hold any sort of bad blood. Due to well...life, not just COVID, I find myself booking less often. When I do book, it's typically with the same agency. For those who are curious, my review history is indicative of the agency I frequent the most.
Assuming you're in good standing with said booker, does anyone have experience ending your relationship with agencies you've virtually stopped using? By this I mean asking to remove your phone number from whichever list, database, ledger, or however they keep record of you. Not just the phone number but also the personal information they used for their initial screening. I'll likely keep a single agency or two, but my lack of usage makes me consider reducing my visibility/presence. I've done the same for other sites and plan to keep my TER. Any advice or experience is welcome as I've never made this request.It’s one of the rules I try to keep in mind with mongering, and many other things.
I generally think it’ s best to not burn bridges. You never know when you might change your mind.
Still, I’m not you and I don’t know your situation. Only you can really decide what will work for you.
Yeah I guess my intention isn't to burn bridges but more like unsubscribe with the possibility of resubscribing later. My biggest worry is having my personal info out there. Otherwise, I would just stop contacting them. I don't think I'm quite ready to leave mongering, but my visits have basically become just frequent enough to keep my VIP status on TER.
Thanks for the reply.
If they say they would delete it after it’s already been handed over, how would you know? Asking because I had one tell me they would delete it after sending my info, but I opted to go the slower HX route to get approved to avoid worrying about deleting it or not.
Just like another poster said, they might say you're "unsubscribed" but you still may be on their books.
But I dont know, Im not a super-high volume guy. I don't get any unsolicited texts or calls from bookers, so if you did before, I could understand that you'd want them to stop.
I’ve never had a booker reach out to directly solicit either - but I’m also not one of the high-volume players. However - they have my number and so do some of the girls and I’ve had girls text out of the blue and later told me the booker told them to reach out to me and tell me they missed me to get me to come back. Not sure if it’s true - if it was the booker or the girl - but it’s closest I’ve experienced to a solicit tactic.
routinely shoot me a text every time a new girl comes on their roster. Its not really annoying when its not incessant. But when I have a girlfriend, I will use that as an excuse to buy time, because she takes up one of my hobby days and that affects my ability to see more girls. I also have a LOT of Kgirls who have my number that will directly send the direct solicitation "I miss you" text once every six to eight weeks if I haven't been to see them lately. If they catch me with a unfilled hobby day that week, it often pays off for them.
I tried to change phone number and some bookers still kept my old number. I ended up keeping my old number because I don't want them to confuse me with someone else. I still get unsolicited texts from bookers I haven't used in years.
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It may not be of any comfort to you but don't worry about having your personal info out there. Just remember next time don't give info to booker or girl that may worry you later and use burner phone.
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It doesn't hurt to ask bookers to remove your number and personal info. The good bookers may actually do that. That doesn't mean their affiliates will remove it too.
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There are ways to somewhat confirm if your info is really removed.
What was are available?
I imagine one of the wahs to confirm is to try booking a session with that number, after several weeks, and see if they ask for screening info.
What kind of personal info are you giving to bookers? All they have for me is my hobby phone number and a first name. If they want to keep that forever, who cares?
I agree with others. 1) IMO, Asking a booker to delete you will just get a chuckle from most of them. They'll say "sure" but won't bother. 2) If you do succeed in getting deleted, and all of a sudden retired legends like Lohan or Suri comes back to work with that booker, are you prepared to spend a few months as a Newbie tying to get approved to see them?
I will add that if you just quit going to some orgs, they will purge you from their files anyway after a few years. This has happened to me a few times in other cities that I had not been to in over a year, like Portland.
I started this hobby less than a year ago, so I had to give verification info to several bookers for screening purposes. Once I had a few bookers verify me, I tried using them as references unsuccessfully for another. They don't seem to answer their calls/texts when that is the subject matter.
In response to your other comments:
1. Good to know.
2. There's 1 provider who may draw my attention in this scenario, and she said she was leaving back to Korea for good. I haven't been in the game long enough to know any other legends. For the sake of discussion, I'll indulge the scenario. My experience has been pretty easy getting verified, more like a 20-30 min endeavor, not months. If it's legitimately that difficult to get approved, I'll kick myself for a minute then move on and miss out on said legend.
If your last comment is true then it's probably a best case scenario for me. If see a provider I like and I'm still on their records then great. If not, I'll say thanks for your time and move on.
I gave up on trying to monger in Portland. Though I might have been willing to keep it up if I’d been able to find any Asian girls at all, much less k-girls.
Portland is mostly skanky tattoo girls and butterfaces, unfortunately. Although some of the more interesting dates I have had were with girls from Portland. One girl really, and I mean really, liked to be spanked. She offered to pick me up from the airport next time I was in town and go directly to her place. Keep it weird Portland.
Sounds kinky.
I've had some solid success with civvies in the northwest. Portland, Seattle and Vancouver. Mongering, not so much, but I haven't really tried.
Seattle is pretty damn great for casual asian pussy. I know there are kgirl agencies, but since I've been wary of the Bellevue busts, I've foregone them and tbh it wasnt a bad call at all. Compared to the bay it isn't a complete bro sausagefest, and compared to LA or Vegas, girls are way less gps-y. And to top it off, good Asian population.
I'd say if you have some game, aren't super old or out of shape/unattractive, you can get some decent quality Asian girl ass in Seattle. Obviously requires time and some money for drinks etc, but easier than in many places. Not as easy as NYC, but NYC is its own animal. Lol.
Anyway, sorry for offtopic.
Yeah, the girls in NYC can be shall we say, a bit aggressive. What happens when there are more women than men. Girls need to blow off steam, too. Also, why pay-to-play. They can be a bit 'stalkerish' shall I say. Where I learned the term "tree boxing".
Yeah I didn't do a lot of p4p n NYC. BUT.
Because pussy is so easy to get, the quality of p4p is (or was) sky high. Gfe all stars was amazing aamp that made you feel like a king. Their brothels are like resort clubs. And even parlors have great quality. One of my atfs, who now runs her parlor in midtown, delivers great rimming, great table shower, great FS and looked like a bonafide Asian porn star back in the day (she's older now of course, but still good). And it's her body on the ads!
i swapped irl numbers with a girl once, she lost it and asked the PO for my burner number. i was happy that she got in contact just to keep in touch, but initially freaked me out when i received the text
I actually try to stay on their lists because it's pretty easy to get kicked-off. Then you have to go through screening again. In today's world, screening is a LOT tougher than it was a few years ago.I haven't asked to be removed, but I doubt they would do it. Should anything go wrong, they want your information. I tested out an agency and they keep very detailed information. They know who I've seen, and they know what I like. I learned this when I tried to book a girl, and they responded that I may not like her because she is a very big girl. I was thankful for the tip and didn't see her. But I was also weirded out a bit that they know my habits that well.