but never first time. only after we have some relationship.
most expenive was one time i brought a bottle of sake for $160. had some drinks and dried squid.
but ive seen guys bring flowers the most...
Some extra MONEY for heaven's sake. What's she going to do with a pile of dead flowers at the end of the day? $20 will buy a lot of kimchi back home.
I've given wine a few times.
Actually my ATF gets a bottle or 2 of Cabernet every 3 or 4 visits, her favorite drink.
A plant has been received well, a Money tree is nice for a girl that is permanent like my Non-FS ATF
Mostly, extra tip is appreciated the most by all and usually you receive rewards.
Also, like others, never on the first visit.
Only after 2 or 3 unless the first was phenomenal which has happened.
my ATFs who is rather popular would hand me a shopping bag full of fancy chocolates, candy , cookies , cheese , wines , liquor etc. that clients have given her and she does not wait. You can't believe the about of chocolates she and other KD get around Valentines or the unwanted gifts they get in the holiday season. Some are regifted while others end up in the garbage or eBay .
So unless you have a special relationship with an ATF and know what she likes or can afford a Hermes, LV , Chanel or Prada handbag make intelligent choices . I also hope she is giving you reciprocating .
The best gifts is repeat visits , $$$ tips ($50 per hour is very generous) and treating with respect and dignity.
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I am hearing mixed stuff on this...I am yet to see a girl who would not appreciate a thoughtful gift.
But carry large flowers, candies etc. are generally frowned upon and the guy is toasted on the forums.
I have recently started to carry Starbucks coffee, and even a couple of cold stone ice-cream to a few of my favorites. But it is generally after the first visit and I had a chance to get to now if they like coffee, ice cream. Starbucks seems to be a well appreciated during late evening sessions...
I have my method to carry them discreetly and not look like a bloody monger....
Just would like to know what kinds of gifts you guys carry to both first timers and your ATFs?
hey all,
I actually always tip more and bring food, ie lunch or dinner usually sushi bowl, salmon, tuna, halibut & yellowtail, whether first time or other with eto tea and a second order if there is roommate. Cannot have her eating alone lol.
If I like the kgirl and we have chemistry, then I will gift other things, not very smart since they are not gf but I have gifts phones, tablets, handbags/wallets/sunglasses and computers, but only cause their current one is busted up.
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Every now and then I feel like giving a gift, but it's rare.
I met someone new earlier this year and we had developed a rapport via email before our first meeting. She's a fan of an 80s band. I happened to have an unopened vinyl copy of one of their albums. So, I brought that for her.
A while back, I did feel the urge to give one of my K-favorites a little gift that I considered thoughtful and related to one of her interests. Something she couldn't give to a client. Ha ha!
Both seemed to appreciate the gifts.
Repeat visits is great way to show appreciation
