There are some of us, I would venture to say, who prefer the company of a fine looking Korean courtesan on a weekly/biweekly basis. We are like connoisseurs of fine food and wine but instead enjoy spending our discretionary time and money seeking out the pleasures of fine KGirls, using tech platforms like TER or websites as guides like foodies use high end websites and foodie bloggers/influencers.  

We probably work in relatively high paying jobs, self employed or retired very successfully.  We had our time as fathers and husbands but we are now empty nesters with an uninteresting non-engaging nagging significant other and/or a well supported ex.  

We probably don’t engage in anything that takes up much of our discretionary time except hobbying but you perhaps belong to a golf club so you can have hours of excused time out of the house.  

You probably like sex. A lot.  Which is normal throughout life upon adolescence. Until illness, prison or celibacy hits you hard.  Very hard.  Ugh.  

Unless you cannot guess, that person could be me.  A lot like me. Not the celibacy part but the like sex a lot part. Lol

 
Am I addicted to Kgirls?  I don’t think so but I have no way of judging.  I just self-assess and look for examples of obviously sex addicted guys.  I’m definitely not Anthony Weiner or Eliot Spitzer.  They spiraled out of control and publicly crashed and burned.  Or Robert Kraft who forever will be labeled a sex fiend for being indiscreet in a cheap AMP.  

No, I’m not like that.  I still work. Not much but enough and well enough to have adequate discretionary income to help my kids, afford two homes, drive expensive cars and see nice Kgirls at least weekly.  

So am I addicted?    

My cell phone usage might be a clue?  I don’t use social media or read WSJ online.  Nor do I use cell phone to research things or buy things.  I do use it, not my PC, for hobbying   My iPhone is super protected from hacking or phishing. PC is not and I avoid any hobbying on it.  My cellphone screen time averages 8 hours a week. Yeah, probably most of that time is used on TER and Kgirl websites.  Shoot me. I like to look at hot Kgirls and read reviews.  I find it more relaxing than Fox News or social media bullshit.  

I think if I was on TER and Kgirl websites more than 4 hours a day, using those sites during work, or not sleeping because I needed to be on those sites, then yes, I could be considered addicted.  

If I had to give up something in my lifestyle, then yes, I could be addicted.  

If I couldn’t be discreet and hobby sensibly, then I could be addicted.  

If I was young enough to get civilian pussy at bars, dance clubs or churches, but instead obsessively look for Miss Korea on TER, then I could be addicted.  

If I became mean nasty and highly unstable on my online Kgirl posts or reviews, then yes I could be considered Kgirl addicted. This could also probably be a sign of frustration because I could no longer afford the hobby???  Yes?????   Cannot release Kgirl tension in a healthy way, therefore, I troll TER and post unforgivably, narcissist posts which reflects poor self esteem, mental instability and questionable attitudes, beliefs and values of other human beings???

Do I rant and rave about bookers, websites, pictures or “service” promised and not delivered?   Fees too high?   She acted uninterested?  Well, to some extent those can be legitimate gripes but they shouldn’t be your center of the universe.  If things always don’t go well for you, perhaps  the Kgirl, the Booker or whatever isn’t the problem.  Perhaps the hobby isn’t for you.  Try puzzles, feeding hummingbirds, coin or stamp collection.  Try to control your compulsion to lash out, ridicule or trash Kgirls, bookers or fellow hobbyists.  Cool it.  Smoke some weed.  Get medicated. Find online some fat girlfriend and fuck her.  They are very available. Just feed them a lot and fuck them. In other words, Find another outlet for your frustrations.  

Well, I don’t think I am Kgirl addicted.  Nor do I think most of us who post on forums and reviews are Kgirl addicted. Most of us are happy, well adjusted and hobby for the sake of hobbying.  It’s healthy to want sex.  When sex at the home front isn’t available or appealing,  Kgirling is a lot more fun and cheaper than a divorce or dating online for us older guys.  

What say you? How can you tell if and when you are Kgirl addicted?  What would you do if you become addicted?  Would you tell us or would we have to guess by your words online?

I figure it out.  I'm still in denial about being addicted.   I'm not comfortable admitting I'm addicted until they turn off my electricity because I spent all the money on Kgirls and have to sit and watch television in the dark.  

You and I are quite the opposite. I am young (not 30 yet), never had a wife or house or kids, am single, barely just starting my career, don't have a high paying job, and don't have much money saved.  In fact, I spend about half of the money I earn on this hobby. But we have one thing in common: we love Kgirls!

Is the TV on a battery or are you using your phone?

"...troll TER and post unforgivably, narcissist posts which reflects poor self esteem, mental instability and questionable attitudes, beliefs and values of other human beings."

 
And you also point out those who "...rant and rave about bookers, websites, pictures or 'service' promised and not delivered" and whose gripes seem to be the "center of the universe."

 
However it's too bad that those types you described will probably not recognize themselves and will carry on with the same behavior.  And even if they do recognize themselves, instead of acknowledging their behavior they'll try and deflect with their lame jokes.

Lol!   I was leaving a Kgirl in WLA the other day and I saw a homeless tent.  Blue erect clean. I mean it was well maintained.  And I thought, hmmm, this guy could be a master hobbyist.   Perhaps he went all in.  Sold all his belongings home cars for a carefree lifestyle, cooking on a hibachi everyday, using El Pollo Loco restrooms for 25 cents to cleanup, drink coffee and charge his iPhone 14 at Starbucks and then jump on a Kgirl once a day, getting showered, bunghole cleaned and trimmed all at the same time.  

So let’s say Newsom gives the guy a $3000/month debit card for living on the street.  His tent is close to freeway exit so he could pick up another $5000/month panhandling, easily. Additionally, good doers probably look into his situation to offer Amazon Fresh food, biblical care, toothbrushes, clean underwear and lip balm.  Say when he left Society to live on the streets he managed to stuff $1M in a bank CD earning 3.5%.  

This guy has it made!   And he is addicted but he successfully entered the Kgirl world full time.  $350/day to fund Kgirls is $130,000 a year if he tips a little. If he’s getting $8,000/month thru Newsom and panhandling  with $1M in the bank he is fully self sufficient and probably a lot happier than most guys.  

That entered my lizard brain as a default mode if and when my electricity ever gets turned off.  Perhaps at a primitive level I am Kgirl addicted as well.

...so it's moved to the front of the P4P options that are available. So I'd say that yeah, right now kgirl's are an obsession for me. But once my add kicks back in I will probably head back to AMPs and stripclubs to diversify once again

So my issue is I believe I am addicted to one KGirl and have visited her exclusively- no other KGirls (although there are many I would love to visit) and non K-Girls seem to be able to break into my schedule.

It's a dilemma and not sure how to break it (or want to) although I have thought about a 3some with her and another girl.

See a previous thread I started a while back titled 'Chasing The Sex Dragon'.

Perhaps I can get an assist from one of my brothers with the link?

YEMV

Never underestimate the power of the Kgirl network.  They trade info about their customers.  Along the same lines, I think it's important to never let a Kgirl think you are only seeing her, even if you are, because invariably, another legend will come along that you will want to sample, and if the girl that thinks she owns you finds out, all hell breaks loose.  Just my opinion based on personal experience.  

1.    I will run out of money and my dick still works, or

 
2.   My dick stops working and I still have money.  

 
It's hard to plan for either of these eventualities, but I'm trying to time it just right.  Lol

Unfortunately, CDL forgot to include his usual "lol" which is the only way we can tell he's trying to be funny.  It's like the 'laugh track' they used to use for TV in the 1950's so people knew when to laugh.

 
Also, CDL has admitted many times that he is tech-challenged so he probably doesn't know that he can watch TV on his cell phone.  He thinks "streaming" is what you do when you stand at a urinal.

I guess I should have included my LOL!

withdrawal symptoms when you either stay away or have to stay away, for whatever reason, from having Kgirl sessions?  
IMO, that would show you that you really have an addiction!

but here is one from SEVEN years ago that got eight "likes" because I was saying it about another poster and included myself as being in the same boat AT THAT TIME, . . . . . S-E-V-E-N years ago.  Are you getting desperate for "gotcha's".  LOL

 
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/he-probably-a-little----861428?page=

 
You have been called out so much for taking things out of context you have stopped including links.  I get it.  Damage control in advance.  Lol     A better idea is to don't say it in the first place.  Make actual contributions of info here, even if it's shit you only read somewhere and didn't experience, and you might get a little respect.  

Alright, so this will be a wall of text on how I see things

 
Am I addicted to sex? Absolutely.
Am I addicted to p4p? More yes than no
Am I addicted to kgirls? I wouldn't say that, but will say kgirls in terms of service (pretty much the #1 thing I'm looking for) are by far the best value, though rapid price increase might have bridged the gap a little bit.

 
But as is, hobbying is definitely a hobby.  Now, in every hobby of mine that involves consumerism - no matter to what degree or frequency - I have certain standards. And I'm not talking about quality of product (service is a product to me so if you don't like it - too bad) standards necessarily. I'm talking about the ethics of buyer not misleading or lying to make money.

 
In pretty much every hobby out there pointing out of bad product, bad business practices, anti-consumer behavior, power trips of buyers, etc is welcome to discussion and overwhelming majority of fellow consumers condemn all of this behavior. Many times this will cause mass boycotts or awareness issues for the producers (I will now refer to buyers sellers as to producers and consumers)  

 
Take crypto/nft craze, for example. Me and others have warned a lot that it's all a giant ponzi scheme and until there are heavy regulations and real consequences for fucking your investors, it will continue to be a ponzi scheme. Well shit, turned out many of these crypto firms turned out to be insolvent. Who would have guessed that money out of thin air is a scаm?

All I heard back is the same garbage and accusations "you're just hating bro" "you're bashing us because you didn't get in early".

In reality, that was all bs. A ponzi scheme is fraudulent and it doesn't matter if you can make money if you get in early. It's anti-connsumer, deserves to be called out and "bigger fools" or rather, Joe's need to be made aware they're participating in a ponzi scheme.

 
Hell, even in non-consumerism or non-hobbying. My sales department lied about product to customers to get a phat contract and get a nice commision. But when it came to implementing the actual feature, my department needs to work crunch time to put some feature sales promised not knowing architecture, etc of a product. So guess what I did? I called thee sales team a bunxh of fucking liars. And I gave em hell. Guess what, they never did that shit again,at least to my department. I refused to implement the feature even if it meant breaching a contract with a customer. And the main sales guy who made the deal got axed for that. All becausw leadership knew no one could do this feature in a short time if I get fired anyway

 

 
If you lie, mislead and withhold information all to make your pockets a little fatter you're anti-consumer. Period.

 
Now, let's get back to kgirl hobbying. We are on a website that is about valid, honest reviews. Bad reviews are honest reviews too. And btw, if you walk - you cannot produce a review.

If you think that a bad review is equal to "bashing" you're just like those crypto bros. You shouldn't be on this website if only thing you can say is positive things. Or you should at least be in the advertisement section and never show your head in the REVIEW section.

 
Can you imagine a company repackaging a shitty product that bombed reviews as another product with another name and presenting it as brand new? The amount of backlash they'd get on the internet will be staggering.  

Yet korgs and kgirls who don't receive good reviews do it all the fucking time. All to make more money.  

 
Sorry, in all my hobbies I believe that entities and producers who deceive, mislead and lie to make more money should be ostracized for their anti-consumer behavior.  
If you can't make much profit without lying, deceiving or misleading.... choose another profession, seems you aren't as good at yours.  

Dixi

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For me, I see the hobby as entertainment along the lines of a strip club where girls take you private booths and work you over.  But less risky because it isn’t a commercial business.  It’s a BCD private transaction.  The only mystery in Kgirl world is who is behind the door and how is she going to treat me.  

CDL has some great points. Showering is one of them. Managing expectations is another.  One of my thrills is to ask Booker to set me up on a certain day/time but don’t tell me who the Kgirl will be.  Let me be surprised. Lol.  I love those dates because it evens the playing ground.  

I like hobbying because it is playful, not serious and not harmful.  

Thanks!

There is a big difference between strip club girls you can take in for a lаpdance.  

You fully and completely see the person in front of you BEFORE you buy. But even then, a girl can give a shitty lapdаnce. And if you're letting others know about her lapdance skills in private, an honest review would state that the lapdance was shitty and say why.  

 

As far as showering, the onus is on you to prove the аnus of those reviewers were stinking. You offered no prоof and have shown that you're willing to attаck mongers without any evidence, in order to make a kgirl seem better than she really was. It really shows where your priorities are.  

 
Your priorities lie with shitting on fellow mongers so rudimentary girls can earn their biz.
My priorities lie with standing up from fellow mongers right to write honest reviews, even if they arenegative and even if they might mean that the girl gets less biz. I care about fellow hobbyists in my hobbies. You have shown how you care about them by making baseless accusаtions against them.  

One fo my biggest involvements in all hobbies is to make sure fellow hobbyists aren't misled or aren't takenadvantage of and that entities that sell products don't lie about them in order to maximize profits. Such entities will be relentlessly exposed. I view it as my duty to any hobbting community out there.

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