I don't know anything. I never ask if she O'd or not because I just feel my way to the finish line like a blind man. Sometimes I can't get to the finish line because I don't know where it is.
Then there are times when the girls complain gently that I made them come and they didn't want to come because it made them tired. OTOH, a legend once told me she didn't come all day so she looked very eager when I decided to DATY. I didn't believe her so she explained everyone just boom boom go. I figured it was her own fault for making people too excited.
So do they want to come or not? Sigh. I do wonder if they can come all day, especially when some people can make them come five times an hour. My record was probably three but I can't count either.
That a popular LA Kgirl is now offering her customers the FC2 female condom as an option. This will allow her to compete with the BBFS girls without the risk of STD's. FC2's, when used properly, feel like BBFS. I hope this is a developing trend and will be interested to see if other girls get on board. Most indies I see use female condoms and its one of the attractions for me. I love the sensation of BBFS just like everyone else, but I hate the risk that goes with it. I would ask other LA hobbyists to encourage our Kgirls to go to female condoms instead of BBFS. If you blindfold yourself, and she installs the FC correctly, you usually won't be able to tell the difference in the "feel."
Has anyone taken the plunge and tried the female condom with a Kgirl who's offering it? One last thing, they are more expensive than regular condoms, so if you get to use one and you're not already tipping, you should help her offset the cost by giving her a little something extra on the donation. I'm going to start bringing it up to every Kgirl I see.
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any woman would be able to just ask and get a prescription. Kgirls see their GYN more often than most providers, so just a hiccup for them. The real challenge is getting their use to catch on with Kgirls, but I think if they see it as a worthwhile alternative to push back on the BBFS pressure while still giving the customer a better "feel" it will gain in popularity among this group of providers.
Its probably only going to be a problem for closet gays who use them for ass-fucking. They might be embarrassed to ask the doc for them.
Now I have to figure out how to get the female condoms. Anyone knows alternative to FC2?
It looks hard to use and unsightly or I would have brought them to try on K-girls.
But CDL got me thinking of asking the K-girls about it now.
they take a little practice to insert quickly and correctly. The best way is to have the girl insert it before you start, then push the outer ring slightly inside so that it doesn't interfere with DATY, then re-seat the ring back to the outside just before entry. This cuts down a time-delay where some guys may lose wood while they're waiting for her to get it set up. I could be wrong, but I think BigP only said prescription using is on the horizon, but that its not here yet. You can try to order on Amazon and see what happens. However, if you're going to be the one to introduce them to a girl, I would give her one in advance of the session you want to try it out on, and let her practice getting it set in correctly. There are several youtube videos online she can watch to see how to do it right.
Tried it with one non-pay-for-play partner 2x, and once with another non-sexworker partner. Both reported significantly decreased sensation. This is a small sampling, but if this is generally the case with these, what will all those guys who love to talk about all the O's they gave the K-girl do?
I guess they will go from 5 O's to 3 per hour in their reviews. It is a tough sacrifice but safety is worth it.
Welcome to the forum BTW.
That most can't really tell when its real and when she's faking It, they will continue to talk about all the O's they think the girls are having. I could write a short dissertation on DATY O's among Kgirls, but the facts would destroy too many ego's here. Some hobbyists live in fantasyland, and others are just clueless. Guys my age that have had tons of civvie relationships know a real O from a fake. Younger guys with limited civvie experience have a harder time figuring it out. You can't trust a provider to be honest about whether she O'd or not when you ask. You have to know what to look for.
That most can't really tell when its real and when she's faking It, they will continue to talk about all the O's they think the girls are having. I could write a short dissertation on DATY O's among Kgirls, but the facts would destroy too many ego's here. ... You have to know what to look for.
1. Those of us who think we know might learn a few new things.
2. Those of us who know we don't know would learn a lot.
3. Providers would learn how to fake it better and give better performances and please more men.
The would would be a better place for it.
Ah, idealism! Yet I hope to see your mini-monograph. Maybe in General rather than K-girl forum?
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I don't know anything. I never ask if she O'd or not because I just feel my way to the finish line like a blind man. Sometimes I can't get to the finish line because I don't know where it is.
Then there are times when the girls complain gently that I made them come and they didn't want to come because it made them tired. OTOH, a legend once told me she didn't come all day so she looked very eager when I decided to DATY. I didn't believe her so she explained everyone just boom boom go. I figured it was her own fault for making people too excited.
So do they want to come or not? Sigh. I do wonder if they can come all day, especially when some people can make them come five times an hour. My record was probably three but I can't count either.
No need to make them sound unaffordable. They're only a couple bucks at most per condom.
3x or 4x the price of a male condom in bulk, but still peanuts relative to the donation you're giving.
This is something that shouldn't be tipped for, and should be built into the cost of the donation. Consider it a 1% tax.
Had a recent session with a provider. Initially didn't quite feel she was that into it (plus she had a bad case of halitosis)... which resulted in me losing the initial stiffy I got from the BBBJ. As a result, she seemed quite confused and went back to BBBJ, plus she added some baby oil for the HJ. When it was finally ok to reinsert, the hat went back on top of my lubed Johnson and the feeling was SOooo much better than earlier. I was thinking like, crap, is this what the FC is like? Cause it felt pretty much like BB....
Now I know latex condoms react poorly to certain types of lubricants, so maybe there needs to me some....uh.... scientific experiments to see if these results can be replicated 😝.. but if so, it would be nice, safer, and cheaper alternative...just sayin'.
manufacturer suggests that the FC be lubed both inside and outside for the best "feel." You are also right about oil-based lubricants. Only water-based lubes like the K-Y brand should be used.
While your suggestion that its a cheaper alternative is also correct, lubing the inside of a regular condom increases the likelihood that I will slip off during the act without either of you knowing it. The FC is held in place with a flexible ring and doesn't come out during use.
That's what I do when I feel like cranking it up a notch. If FC feels even better then I am sold. Anyway, I was able to get some FCs but kept forgetting to bring it. Did anyone have any luck with trying FC on a K-gal yet?
Just recently I asked an experienced pretty gal and she had no clue about FC then commented I am too experienced to know that LOL. So I asked for condom, twice. She made non-committal sound the first time then finally laughed and said it is hiding. This is why people want to try BB the K-girls even though I know she is not the type to do that with just anyone.
I for sure did not need FC with her when a lubed johnson with condom felt like wearing nothing. Everything she did contributed to my final explosion. She always said nice things to me so I got comfortable. Then I could feel her heat which blew me away and she wouldn't let me pull out right after, squeezing me inside with some throbbing actions as we rested.
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