Sounds like a plateau, did you consider different approaches that break from the script?
...and I was bored out of my mind. Scripted, predictable. She touched all the bases, but the slide into home was simply not exciting. I think I have hit some sort of plateau where I just cannot get turned on by the script.
I am going to abstain from the KGIRLS for a while.
We will see how long that resolution lasts....
Captain "Bored" Renault
Sounds like a plateau, did you consider different approaches that break from the script?
If they're scripted, I just go with it, get off and leave....
I absolutely refuse to be put on a script, unless its my own. Most will go with the flow if you come off as skillful and confident, which I know you are. I have only had one that was determined to get through it HER way regardless of whether I had a good time or not. The score would have been so low I didn't bother to review her. Predictably, she's long gone.
Ha, I had the same experience with one who is still here (and rated very highly). Fortunately for me, a thread here linked her new name to her previous name. That saved me a trip and some cash. Otherwise, I would have walked as soon as she opened the door and I saw who it was.
She was pretty and sexy and sexual, but the predictability was such that I just was only 75% there. It was only partly her fault - I'm just burned out on the sameness of it all in the KGirl world.... time to go Thai or C Girl.....
but if it's not a routine that you have seen over and over, it doesn't appear so much to be a routine to you.
I think your idea of changing things up by seeing Thai girls or anything else but K-Girls until you start to miss the K-Girls is a VERY good one.
In NY, I've noticed that the more experienced K-girls are more amenable to deviating from the SOP. Maybe the newer ones just aren't comfortable enough yet or maybe an overbearing mamasan yelled at her for going off script with a complaining customer.
I have no problem with the SOP when it's done well.
I love the K-girls.
higher rate has anything to do with them trying harder to be more competitive? Some NY Kgirls go upwards of $400 which is about where some of the decent indies start. Your local perspective?
You asked about "trying harder." Call me stupid but I don't think I ever got the feeling that anyone, from non-GFE AMP to $5 indy, was "trying harder" in a competitive sense. 'Pepsi does 'this' so I'm going to do 'that'!'? I never got that feeling from anyone. Almost everyone (too many, I've lost count!) had me convinced that she was doing her own thing at her comfort level and that includes the non-GFE "No" girls: Can I touch your hair? NO! touch your face? NO! cuddle? NO! FIV? NO! Outside? No! COF? No! COB? No! The "No" girls (don't worry - not so many and they don't last, either) surely aren't competing with the "Yes" girls.
At the high end, some things might be off limits to some girls (I'm vanilla, so I don't go too far off track) but the occasional polite, soft-spoken "No" is skillfully redirected to very pleasurable Yeses that make me forget whatever I was asking about.
Rating my personal pleasure from the experiences, I have had many 10+ at the non-GFE AMP end and many 10+ at the high end.
I love the K-girls
i know how you feel. Try some Thai, go to the OC for some Viet company....
their scripts don't match the kgirl's.
I am going to abstain from the KGIRLS for a while.
We will see how long that resolution lasts....
Captain "Bored" Renault
Plateau? More like Desensitization. It's like when regular porn just doesn't cut it anymore. Maybe you should go see some PSE provider. Many hot girls suck in performance.
or perhaps go see a white girl with a lesser menu, which might rekindle the desire to cum back to Kgirls
But one man's 9 is another man's 6 in performance. I like gnd v. pse, frankly, although pse is great, too.....
I think attitude is most important, on both, you have to go in feeling up and she has to pick up on that lift you higher.
More than half the time I see them I'm changing their script in various ways and never had a serious problem with the attempts -- one of two were a little confused at first but managed to change gears and go with things.
As I think about the session, it is the script, in part, but more.... The girl was cute/hot and active.... But it was all so obvious and superficial...like a real date that is going nowhere and you both know it....
I am finding lately that the AMP girls are less predictable and more fun. GOD HELP ME! LOLOL
The top rated K-girls find ways to make it subtle and authentic.
I am finding lately that the AMP girls are less predictable and more fun. GOD HELP ME! LOLOL
Same as yours, girl was really hot, but the connection wasn't there as the acting was too fake. Some girls are better at it.
NEXT!
Well if it's working for you it can't be too wrong, right?
I can't decide if it's more your or them -- given you're saying it's a general trend I suspect it's mostly you. Basically it's like you've been dating them for while and are too comfortable with the situation so it's routine and a rut. Otherwise I'd think it would be maybe just a bad session and the next K-Girl you see right back where you wanted to be.
In any case, change is good and if APM or C/T/V/F...-Girl puts the spark back in I'd just say thank god for different type of women in the world!
...Go see a streetwalker/crack ho. That should liven things up for you. All ad-lib, no script. And the best part? Your survival - both short term and long term - will be in doubt.
For every guy who's bored of K-girls, there are 100 other guys on the outside looking in, trying to break the booker barrier.
I think it comes down to finding the right K-girl, I felt burn out at some point and then met a new favorite.
Go to that web site that we can't mention right now and find a hottie and take your chances. Maybe it will be an LE sting. Just think of the excitement and anticipation of not knowing. Or if that doesn't happen, there could be the thrill of that "young firm bodied coed" turning out to be heavy and flabby with a pimp lurking around if you decide you want to walk. Have you ever heard that old saying that "the grass is always greener...etc." LOL!
Let's all just stick to K-girls
What a Brilliant Idea. That would be a real change of pace!
Haha I thought you might mention something LLPeter
I kinda thought I was being led on. You sly devil. It is a great experience for open minded hobbyist like myself (horny devil), I was on cloud nine. Worth the journey.
Some were awkward, some were amazing, some were funny....
Provider doubles have been ok, but I look for lots of girl on girl action, which is often lacking....
I think the answer is to find another 25 y.o. FOB C Girl with no gag reflex who is multiorgasmic and bisexual.... Oh, and she was gratis!
CR
I dont get why nonkorean speaking guys like banging chicks they cant even communicate with. It has to be mediocre talking to the girl like some dog and using hang signals etc
I don't even like to talk much with girls who can speak english.
I'm there to stare deep into their eyes and soul as my warm hardness fills them below.
I have been with Japanese girls in Japan (and I speak a VERY little Japanese), who have told me more with a touch, a glance, a smile and a slow kiss than American girls fluent in our native tongue (is there a native tongue in America?)....
I have had civvie evenings with a Pakistani gal who spoke ZERO English (my Pashto is zip) that would make your head spin...
I have seen K Girls fluent in English who bored me to tears, and some with almost not a word who thrilled me to my toes.... A Vietnamese 20 yo who spoke no English at all won my heart (and dick) decades ago....
The point is, well, fuck, I forget what the point is, but Dance, you are a dick sometimes (me, too, but that is a different story) -- and I never talk to a girl like she was a dog. I am not Donald Trump.
Donald Trump? Then I shall have to cross another name off of my list of who Captain Renault might really be.
banged a few chinese and viet chicks and god the lack of language barrier was horrible. it was like talking to a dog...ie...waving my hands up and left and right while she responds like "yes ok sucky sucky?" or with fake sex talk "..oh honey...yes baby...oh you make good suck pussy.." wtf??
just killed the mood.
Haven't run into this with the kgirls but you made me literally lol as I remembered some experiences several years ago.
its like "oh how thou sweet beauty enchants my fluttering heart as my dick fucks your wet pussy!"..
starts like all nice and then goes down hill...haha
Well I'll give you credit for that -- I don't think many could go downhill from that start ![]()
You must be a great talker when your getting it on. You have smooth way of expression. Masterful and if it any consolation K-girls are not the only working girls in this town! Damn good but not the only.
they portray to all the nonkorean speaking customers
All I know is they provide the best service and I enjoy every visit, some better than others. There is a nice connection and I've never been told don't comeback. One of my joys in life. I treat them well and they treat me well. I am an admire'r. I actually go there for language lesson and always end up eating the teacher. LOL
I'm sure you definitely have more in-depth conversations than I do, but I haven't really felt like any of the girls were putting on an innocent or cute act either. Most of the time for me it's just basic stuff that you would cover meeting someone for the first time under "regular" circumstances. A few have told me some interesting things or went into a surprising level of detail, especially on repeat visits. I suppose just like everything else there is a ymmv component involved.
I will say that a high percentage ask me if I am married, which I find interesting since I don't meet a lot of the criteria outlined in an earlier discussion.
And they LOVE the money they get from us Caucasian guys. It's a perfect symbiosis.
I don't speak Korean but I have always managed to have at least a small chat with every girl. I could be wrong, but it seems to me that the ones with limited English appreciate a little bit of practice. I appreciate what they do for me so it doesn't bother me at all, and I like learning more about them anyway. Also, someone already mentioned that non-verbal communication goes a long way and I definitely agree.
My experience is that many K-girls try to stick to the script with a new customer, but if you become a repeat and develop some chemistry, the script fades away. My first visit with my no. 1 ATF was perfectly scripted and routine, but I was too attracted to her not to go back and see if things could change. I am glad I established myself with her, it was a great year until she left. Of course, sometimes I have completely whiffed on a girl. For me, getting maximum return out of the K-girl hobby seems to require lots of time and money for multiple visits with multiple girls until I find one or more who are, over time, ATF material.
is that chemistry matters to me way more than I expected. Maybe I've been lucky, but basically all of the girls I've met provided good to great service. That said, I have only felt that "spark" with a handful and those are the ones that I see again. Have you been visiting a bunch of girls for the first time lately? If so, perhaps you should go visit a reliable favorite next time where you already have a great connection.
Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for.