As other helpful punters have pointed out, upping your hygiene games is a must when sessioning with K-gals ..

They are without question, the most squeaky clean demographic I've ever met .. the pre-shower routine isn't just fun and games.

I didn't realize that Western-style ear wax was such a buzz kill to K-gals .. I now rigorously clean my ears.
Same way with scrubbing your feet, even though it's a fall hazard.
I also keep my junk slathered with anti-fungal and anti-bacterial salve to keep it fresh.

But, I can't help but think that there's something I'm missing .. such as I rub their feet, then touch their hands .. even worse, I forget myself and touch their face/necks.

So, two questions:

1) I usually pre-shower at home, skip the offered pre-session shower, as some ladies drag it out too long, cutting into session time.  Is this a bad mark?

2) Is there a guide to do's and don't?  I don't go to the extreme of Korean-style anal retentiveness of bringing indoor slippers, as that's a bridge too far for me.  I probably should keep my socks on between the bed and bath, just like the ladies do, but then you're carrying socks..  

Thanks in advance . . and please, no snarky comments about the Preferred Shareholder Experience (P*S*E) or rimming.

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Pre-showering at home is good but I would rather have the shower with the lady anyhow and if you think it's taking too long just excuse yourself and head to the bed and she will get the message. Leave it to you to decide on how best to make that transition as it will depend on the person you're seeing. While I agree that Korean's are typically very health conscious and clean I still want to be sure the lady has the time to get squeaky clean between sessions. As the shower is such a standard part of the routine I stick with it.

 
Nose hair is also a big turn off so if you've not been trimming or checking, if you have visible nose hair address that before going. Actually I think for many Asians excessive body hair of any type is a bit of a turn off.

 
Here,  I find it's a mixed bag regarding what is on the feet heading into the shower. As many seem to be barefoot as those wearing something. Also, every one of them has taken my socks off before the shower, unless they are not helping undress me, so I don't think they really care about that. I think as long as your feet and hands are clearly clean, you have fresh breath, clean shaven and otherwise well groomed you're not causing any issue for the session experience and quality.

To maximize my time in bed, I used to shower prior seeing providers. Over time, i realized that K-Girls didn't like that I skipped the shower routine. One K-Girl I was pretty close with told me that K-Girls feel more comfortable and relaxed knowing that their client is freshly clean. They're able to perform better in bed with the ease in mind.

Some Kgirls (including a lot of top tier girls) are very vocal in STRONGLY suggesting they would prefer you take a shower, while other girls are more passive and just cut back on the quality of the service to compensate for what they consider to be the unknown factors created by the customer not showering.  There are two reasons they want you to shower.  The first is that they would like every part of your body that they may be putting their mouth on to be freshly washed with soap AT THE INCALL.  A well-known girl put it succinctly when she said, " . . . .they say they just showered at home, but then I KNOW they stopped somewhere and peed because they didn't ask ME to use the bathroom when they got here."  Even if you didn't stop and pee, them thinking it is going to put a damper on their enthusiasm for a lot of Kgirls.  The second reason they want you to shower with them is to give them the chance to do a close inspection of your junk for any evidence of disease or sores before they put your dick in their mouth.  

 
There is a work-around to save time if you tell her she doesn't have to join you in the shower, but you would appreciate her staying and talking to you while you quickly shower, and then help you dry off.  Then YOU control how long it takes and she still gets to go to her knees and have a close inspection while drying you off.  I used to do this with a Viet girl who liked to take her time.  I cut her 12-15 minute shower down to 3 or 4 minutes as she watched me clean all of the places where I wanted her mouth with soap and water.  

 
Here's how I look at . . . . What do you think her reaction would be if she handed you the mouthwash, you poured it down the drain and told her you already did that at home?  Do you think the DFK would be any good?  You should think of the shower doing the same thing for your dick as the mouthwash does for your mouth, because that's the way THEY look at it. I have PM'd with a lot of guys in the past, especially those that book 30 minutes, who didn't want to take the shower, but then always complained they were not getting the service they read about in her reviews. I told them to try the shower a few times, even if they have to book an hour, and see if the service gets better.  They always reported back that the service was better after the co-ed shower. I don't believe I said anything snarky, but if I did, it was unintentional.

I ALWAYS shower before I go to the incall and I am never more then 20/25 mins away!  
I am in a very good location for WLA, MW and Ktown.

 

I'm pretty sure they can tell I'm fresh and ready to go, but when asked about a shower, I ask, "to wash or play?", and that almost always leads to a playful shower.

 

IMO, it's a great ice breaker and it's just more wet and soapy foreplay that adds to the session!

I have said many times in the past and in my reviews that the co-ed shower is the greatest ice-breaker there is for your first session with a new girl you haven't seen before.  It's an egalitarian act that benefits both of you in overcoming any hesitation or shyness.  

Agree with all of the above.  I will add, that if you have a mustache, make sure there is a clear, shaved line of demarcation between the top of the stache & your nostrils, and that no hair touches your upper lip.

same kind of mustache I do.  Learned years ago that most ladies will tolerate a mustache better if they can't feel it during DATY.  It took me two months to learn how to create a straight line above my lip with the trimmer.  Lol

Definitely take the table shower or even a stand-up shower, especially if it's mutual.  In addition to make sure that every square inch of you is clean,  and experienced provider will use the shower for teasing and foreplay.

I always trim the package a day or two before a visit.  Two days out is good because, if you nick yourself, you have an extra day to heal.

two-day stubble in your public area, you are likely to cause an irritation or even a temporary rash during sex, but if you are just getting a blow job, your suggestion is good.  She can mitigate it a little by slathering lube over your stubble, but two days is right at the irritation point for them.  

I love to throw it in the shower! Let her turn around and throw it back with some soapy PSP, then grab her by the hips and ram it in! It really throws them off their routine and let's you take charge of the session. Good, clean fun!