There's nothing worse than feeling unwanted during a session.  
I get that providers are in this for the money and might have resorted to sex work as a last resort.  
Showing enthusiasm and care matters a lot more than physical beauty for me nowadays.

But regardless of how attractive, or even how skilled, she might be if her eyes are dead I don't really enjoy the sessions. Give me a woman whose eyes shine like stars, hint at some mischievous personality and a general love of life (even if working for money with her body) and I'll find her more attractive than if, everything else is the same, but that light is absent. While that doesn't change my assessment of the services it will affect my interest and enjoyment of receiving them.

A long, sloppy, teasing BBBJ with some DT ability will almost certainly bring me back! I can’t count the amount of 6, 7, or 8’s, milfs or massage girls I’ve visited and repeated for that! Think MHBHJ good! In fact, if a few of them knew how to cook, I would have married them!  

Second would be natural spinners where I can keep myself busy for the better part of an hour with my tongue and lips!

Both can be extreme turn ons.

And those type of girls are usually instantly in the "REPEAT" category.

Finally found a girl who hits most of my prefs: pretty GND face, tall & slender upper body, cute natural B-cups, sweet attitude, solid mid-tier performance.
Session started strong: heavy DFK from the door, classic shower BBBJ preview, then bed for more BBBJ, DATY, P2P, her CG, K9, then missionary (my go-to finisher).
I’m going at it, really trying to get there… and nothing. Couldn’t finish.
The issue? Waist-down she’s just normal-girl thickness—not fat, not even thicc, just regular hips/thighs that don’t match the super-slender top half. That little proportion mismatch killed the vibe for me. Brain went “nope” and that was it.
Thanked her for the effort,  and left with full balls. 😩
Guess I’m cursed: need the whole package head-to-toe slim & perfect or the equipment just refuses to cooperate. Visual guy problems.
Anyone else this picky or am I alone in the struggle?