K-girls

Tipping
Sawtelllestar 34 Reviews 1914 reads
posted
1 / 23

I’m a couple years into this hobby and  it dawned on me that I don’t know what is expected of me for tipping.  
On a normal visit my envelope usually will have an extra 20 in it but unless they’ve really put out so to speak I never tipped.  
Over the last few months though I had MistressX really fuck the hell out of me, ended up BBFS with anal and 2 pops and at the end I was wrecked. I dropped an extra 120 at the end. Same with Ari, she really went all out to get me off 2xs I gave her an extra 100 and she was super appreciative walking me out.  
So what is protocol? Have I been pissing girls off that didn’t get a tip at the end just the standard aggressive price?

Oh and buy the way Merry Christmas you bunch of horn dogs!

GaGambler 158 reads
posted
2 / 23

Like you I am somewhere in between. I don't always tip and I almost never tip for "average" service, even though average service is still pretty good in the K-Girl world.

 
When I do tip, it's usually in the $50-100 range, although I do often round up to the nearest hundred if the donation is in the $250-280 range. Most of the agencies in DFW are charging $260 and if I have hundred dollar bills it seems kind of cheap and a lot of work to try to get change before a session so I will simply give her $300

 
Personally, I won't argue with your way of doing things, real tips should be reserved for those girls who go above and beyond the call of duty.

sunnyday1 170 Reviews 141 reads
posted
3 / 23

If I was super rich I would tip most visits. As it stands, I need that money more than the girls do. 300 a week adds up quick and I think the amount paid is fair.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 164 reads
posted
4 / 23

Outside of the pay for play world, a tip is pretty clear.   You get a service like a cab ride.  You know that tipping is considered proper if you got decent service, so you tip.  It the driver does anything above and beyond the call of duty like helping you with bags, etc., you tip more.

 
Now, let's go to the pay for play world.   You select a gal and she has a website and/or reviews, and you pay her and get the services that were expected.   You may decide to tip her because you feel she put extra effort in and/or she was particularly effusive towards you, and you want to make an impression on her that you hope will continue the good service for future visits.

 
But what if you are visiting a gal at say, an MP, and you don't know what exactly to expect.   Here, the "tip" could be an inducement towards more services such as oral or FS, rather than just letting her know you were happy with her services.   Of course in most of these cases, the "tip" is agreed to (and usually paid) during negotiations that ensue after the flip, so there is that to consider also.

 
To judge by your experience, it appears to be some of each.   Bottom line:   You never quite know for sure.   Maybe that's part of the charm.

 
Merry Christmas back at ya.

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 102 reads
posted
5 / 23

I never tip; I put it in all the way, balls deep!

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 147 reads
posted
6 / 23

I agree with you about tipping cabbies, Uber drivers, waiters, etc. Those folks earn a low hourly wage and depend on tips for their real income. Same with masseuses who charge $80 - $100 per hour and who aren't escorts or who don't offer "extras" for a tip. But, when I'm seeing an escort I'm often paying $300 and up per hour. That rate more closely resembles the hourly rate I pay to the professionals in my life, such as my lawyers, accountants, medical professionals, stock brokers, etc.  And I would never think of tipping them (and as an aside I've been a lawyer for nearly 40 years and never received a tip from a client; a XMAS gift occasionally, yes; but a monetary tip or bonus, no).  So my practice has never been to tip except in the rare situation where a lady absolutely knocks my socks off, and then I have left a little extra. And like GaG mentioned above, when seeing providers who charge $260 or $280 I'll generally leave $300 rather than asking for change.

trimix123 55 Reviews 120 reads
posted
7 / 23

I use to round up to 280 but now I go to 300.  Bet there are a few who will ask if the provider got a 10 in her purse. LOL

Silkstalkings 341 Reviews 125 reads
posted
8 / 23

every 6 months I tip the booker and it has helped for me.

trimix123 55 Reviews 122 reads
posted
9 / 23

Use to give a Xmas gift card to my #1 booker of nearly 10 years but she said its not necessary/

sunnyday1 170 Reviews 116 reads
posted
10 / 23

How do you tip the booker just curious

trimix123 55 Reviews 136 reads
posted
11 / 23

Just give the tip to the kgirl and she will pass it on.  I usually let the booker know that its on its way.

Subydude02 16 Reviews 110 reads
posted
12 / 23

How much do you generally til the Booker/PO?

36363jensen 4 Reviews 115 reads
posted
13 / 23

I don't see any real reason to tip in this setting. A few reasons. First, as others have pointed out, the rates here are not those for where tipping is the primary source of income as with wait staff, valet services and other low wage, service related jobs.

 
Also, Korea is not really a tipping culture as I hear. If you tip there it's just as likely the person will feel insulted as feel endeared to you for the extra I've been told. While I don't think any K-girl would react that way I do think that explains why they don't really expect it (I'm sure some have been "trained" for the USA market though).

 
I don't consider rounding up rather than asking for change to really be tipping.  

 
When I do give more it is more about a gift than tipping. It is more a case of cash being a much better gift in this case than some other item. I don't really expect to actually know the person, as much as the working persona, so non-monetary gifts will generally be very poorly selected.  

 
I'll include the booker in with any Christmas/Holiday present I might give. Depending on the situation I may or may not tell the booker to expect something -- really depends on if the girl is a touring one or local. Touring girls have more incentive not to share I suspect.

taquitoguy 265 Reviews 139 reads
posted
14 / 23

“Korea is not really a tipping culture”... I found out.
Went out with one of the girls recently (outside dining) and after we got our food I left a tip and she gave me a look like “why tip?” I usually tip 20-50 bucks depending on the service. If the service was meh, I won’t leave anything. But I have a regular rotation and I get great service and leave the same tip. And they always seemed surprised (or great acting like when they fake the orgasms :-)).

GaGambler 128 reads
posted
15 / 23

I have "tipped" many professionals for a "job well done" including an attorney. He did a particularly good job for me and after I settled up with him I gave him an extra $500 and told him to take his wife out to dinner "on me" He certainly didn't expect it, but he didn't turn it down and he was one lawyer who ALWAYS returned my call afterwards. lol  

 
In my professional life I often "Tip" or I guess you can call it giving a bonus to both employees and contractors/sub contractors as a token of my appreciation. I guess it's just the way I am. I will also "chew ass" and fire someone on the spot when I am particularly displeased so no one gets the idea that I am a "soft touch" who can be taken advantage of. Speaking of attorneys I once fired an attorney in open court, much to the dismay of the judge and opposing counsel who thought we had a deal because the attorney took liberties in making a deal that I specifically told him NOT to make. When I refused the deal after my attorney acted unilaterally in making a deal behind my back that the attorney KNEW I wouldn't accept the judge asked me if I needed time to consult with my attorney, I told her, "no, your honor, this man no longer represents me" and I turned to him and in my best Donald Trump impersonation told him "You're FIRED" lol

sunnyday1 170 Reviews 138 reads
posted
16 / 23

HOLY SHIT that is badass GaG, can you give us any more details? What type of case was this? Divorce? Business? Criminal?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 132 reads
posted
17 / 23
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 166 reads
posted
18 / 23

who always tip.  Here's why . . . . If a Kgirl rate is $280 (average in SoCal right now), the girl gets $180 and the house gets $100.  (Booker is paid out of the "house" portion).  So I'm getting an hour's service out of a girl who is getting only $180 for arguably better service than I have gotten from my indies who work from their residence and charge $4-500 for an hour, and they keep  all of the it because there is no "house" fee to the agency.  I feel that a 20-33% tip is in line with what I pay for other personal services.  In the BA, at the long-standing rate of $220, the split is usually $150/$70.  That's why so many BA girls are touring to SoCal these days.  They make an average of $30 an hour more than they do in the BA.  BA mongers who want to keep the top girls they have should be tipping to make up the difference for these girls so they don't leave.  

 
There are, of course, times when I felt that the service was not good enough to warrant the tip I gave, but my response to that is to NOT REPEAT.  I want the booker to know I'm a tipper, and the girls usually share that  info with the booker.  When the booker knows you're a tipper, there are often perks that are extended, like getting to see the top girls when you want to.  Top tier girls appreciate a booker who sends them customers who tips, so its a win for me, a win for the booker,  and a win for the girl.  

badger48 153 Reviews 125 reads
posted
19 / 23

Hey CDL, do the bookers get $100 per session or $100 per hour, if it's multiple hours? Kind of wondered about the breakdown.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 103 reads
posted
20 / 23

again.  The $100 is the "house" fee, not the booker fee.  The house pays the booker from these proceeds.  The booker's cut varies by different geographic areas of the country.  

 
Top tier girls will also tip their bookers periodically for sending them higher end customers, i.e., guys who will book more than one hour and/or are good tippers.  Bookers love two-hour customers as much as the girls do, because its the same amount of work, but he/she makes twice whatever they get for one hour.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 116 reads
posted
21 / 23

Bringing up things like “bookers love two-hour customers” is going to get those org conspiracy theorists raving about the mythical VIP monger!

 
In the very next breath, though, they’ll start saying that there is no significant or measurable benefit to the two hour session.  I suspect they think those of us who prefer the two hour sessions are saying that a one hour session is a watered down version of a k-girls services compared to a two hour session. When really, one hour sessions are just great. I schedule them occasionally when there’s a time crunch or I’m uncertain about a new girl. Two hour sessions *can* be better for specific types of people and being known as someone who books two hour sessions can end up giving you better scheduling priority, among other things. But there ain’t nothin’ wrong with a one hour session.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 118 reads
posted
22 / 23

For someone who claims you want to ignore me, you sure think of me a lot, beloved.

 
For the record, I never said anything even remotely bad about two-hour sessions. Some mongers love them, great. I myself do like two-hour sessions with my ATFs. But in general, I prefer one-hour ones. And never have I implied those who prefer two-hour sessions think of one hour sessions as watered down.

This is really a case of preference and each monger being different in terms of what they want. Twoon for example, thinks two-hour sessions are a waste of time for him. You think two-hour sessions are the best for you. Nether of you are right nor wrong.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 132 reads
posted
23 / 23

Most countries in the world don't have a tipping culture. Tipping in most places is considered a sign of an "above and beyond" exceptional service.

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