Outside of the pay for play world, a tip is pretty clear. You get a service like a cab ride. You know that tipping is considered proper if you got decent service, so you tip. It the driver does anything above and beyond the call of duty like helping you with bags, etc., you tip more.
Now, let's go to the pay for play world. You select a gal and she has a website and/or reviews, and you pay her and get the services that were expected. You may decide to tip her because you feel she put extra effort in and/or she was particularly effusive towards you, and you want to make an impression on her that you hope will continue the good service for future visits.
But what if you are visiting a gal at say, an MP, and you don't know what exactly to expect. Here, the "tip" could be an inducement towards more services such as oral or FS, rather than just letting her know you were happy with her services. Of course in most of these cases, the "tip" is agreed to (and usually paid) during negotiations that ensue after the flip, so there is that to consider also.
To judge by your experience, it appears to be some of each. Bottom line: You never quite know for sure. Maybe that's part of the charm.
Merry Christmas back at ya.