in the Kgirl scene, but prior to a few years ago, it was mostly kept UTR. My own stats over the past 12 years with hundreds of Kgirls were that 20% will do it with everybody, 20% will do it with nobody, and the other 60% were YMMV. But even the ones that would do it was everybody were not openly discussed on public boards. Lately, the number of girls who offer it to everybody has increased as a percentage off the whole.
About 3 years ago, openly advertising BBFS started in the bay area. It spread to SoCal about two years ago, after CityVibe and TER both went dark within a month of each other, there was chaos in the market and girls were desperate for business. Advertising BBFS in Vegas started about 18 months ago while TER was dark in the US. I'm not aware of BBFS being openly advertised in other parts of the country.
With that said, we each have our own level of risk tolerance, and how much danger was can accept and still enjoy ourselves. A lot of finding a comfort level depends on our personal situation. Guys with wives or in long-term relationships may be wise to think long and hard about whether to take a dip in the BBFS pool. Those that are single are usually a little more cavalier about the risks. As you mentioned, most bacterial infections can put you out of action for a few weeks until the meds run their course, and are at worst, an inconvenience. These are quite common in the BBFS scene. The ones that are life-changing are the viral STD's, HSV2 and HIV, which have no cure. Even though I'm single, these are the ones that concern me. I don't want to catch one of these and have it be a dealbreaker for some woman if I decide someday to marry again.
While I will admit that I have enjoyed BBFS with YMMV girls in the past, I just can't bring myself to see girls that are advertising BBFS openly. Its one thing to be one of a half dozen regulars with a girl that is giving each of us BBFS, its quite another to see a girl who is advertising openly who is doing BBFS with every swinging dick who walks through the door. The average BBFS girl may see, on average 120-150 unique customers a month, and each of those customer may see an average of 4-6 girls a month, so its easy to start crunching the numbers to see that, even with a low infection rate, the longer you are doing BBFS, the more likely you will get some STD's. I have had two several years ago, both times gonorrhea, easily cured with antibiotics within two weeks. I have also known several guys that got HSV2 from a Kgirl. In each case, they had to quit hobbying. There is always the concern that some guys would take the attitude that they've already got it, so now they have nothing to lose, and keep on going BB, even though they know they have it. I have not heard of anyone getting HIV from a Kgirl.
I have now gone back to GFE CFS. I'm dating a Kgirl outside as her real life boyfriend and she is the only one I do BBFS with. I feel safe with her because she is strictly covered service at the incall. I got a little miffed at her in the beginning because after we started dating, she told me I would have to use a condom if I saw her at work, because its disrespectful to her customers for me to CIP, so I only see her on weekends when she is off and some nights when she comes home from the incall early if its slow. I feel completely safe limiting my BBFS activities to just her. But like I said, each of us have to find our own level of risk tolerance, so while you can be a little scared, you should be able to decide for yourself if your personal situation is one that can include indulgence in BBFS and whether you can accept the risks that come with it.
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