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As I said in the context of another thread . . . .
useyrhead 4 Reviews 7797 reads
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YMMV - Improving mileage by managing your physical impression

YMMV

We use it all the time. Usually to say that our “mileage” in the session we are describing with the kgirl to whom we are referring, that our mileage was pretty good.  

I believe that we can have a significant positive or negative impact on our mileage. That there are things we can do that will increase our likelihood of getting great mileage with any kgirl. Some of the things are universal. Some of them will be specific in some degree to kgirls.

Here are a few of the things I have found that improve my ability to get that high mileage I prefer. Everybody is different though. What I consider to be desirable high mileage, others may be indifferent to. Or simply not worth any effort on their part.

Some people drink wine for the full spectrum of the sensual experience good, or even great wine offers. Others just drink it for the buzz, as long as the taste meets a certain threshold. Anything more than that, to them, is a waste of money and effort.

Here are a few things to think about.

Cleanliness - Korean girls are raised in one of the most Confucian cultures in Asia. Thus there is a strong emphasis on physical cleanliness. For example, in Korea, folks carry a toothbrush everywhere they go. Sometimes it will even be up their sleeve. Yes. Actually up their sleeve.

Grooming - Actually just a subset of cleanliness.  Whether you know it or not, your teeth, fingernails, toenails, haircut, body hair are evaluated almost instantly by every kgirl you meet.
The good news is that there are some real pros that can hide their discomfort or disgust better than others. And there is even a (small) percentage of girls that are bothered less by poor grooming than others.
But we’re talking about improving our mileage with every kgirl we meet. Not just the pros. Not just the rare kgirl that likes hairy guys.

Additional grooming note:  
Ears - guys, pay attention to ear hair and earwax. Asians aren’t used to our smelly, waxy earwax. Ours is yellow and odiferous. Theirs hardly smells, they make less and its actually more like a dry powder than wax. Western earwax is a challenge for kgirls.
And many of us have way too much hair growing out of our ears. There are ways to manage that. Choose one that works for you. Just make sure it actually works.
I’ve known even western women to respond very negatively to ear hair.

I’ve heard multiple kgirls complain somewhat bitterly to me about all of the above in their other customers. So I know these are things we need to work on.

There are others. Things like game and managing your attitude, which deserves its own thread.  

Are there any other things related to physical appearance, cleanliness, grooming, etc that you believe help you get better mileage?

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Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 161 reads
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Keeping It Real

Great discussion topic Userbro!!!

 

I'm with you on good hygiene.  Kgirls are fastidious about monger hygiene.  

 

 
My pearl for elevating your monger game is good manners.  Kgirls really appreciate good manners and I also find most Asian RA's do.

 

I have my own first time greet routine where I introduce my true self, bow respectfully and then hand the RA the requisite donation amount.  I also ask permission for kisses and touching and general debauchery.  Most kgirls find me amusing.

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The bow

That bow makes more difference than most might believe.

 
I spent many years traveling to Asia to work and lead various strategic projects. My first Asian country was Japan.  

 
As I went from meeting execs to salarymen to running into them in hotels, restaurants or on the street I found one thing initiated and even determined the civility over every single interpersonal exchange. Even among friends. There was always some version of a bow. The Asian bow includes a quick head not. It might even be quite subtle if those involved are close.  

 
When picking up an Asian girl, that head bow and it’s degree and timing is quite important. I remember not getting it right with one particular Korean girl I met at a club. Had to walk away from that one and chalk it up to experience.  

 
Getting the degree of the bow right was initially tricky for me. But a little practice and it’s like a dance step where you figure out how to interact with your partner or partners as you go. But you do have to remember both social status and the Asian concept of face at all times as that will tell you which and how much of a bow is appropriate.  

 
I first started to practice this on the streets and out shopping in Tokyo. I was amazed at the difference in the way people interacted with me, I could even get pretty Japanese girls to smile at me and, if I had time and the desire to do so to go have a hot beverage or even a drink with me. And so on.

 
There are some differences in bowing etiquette depending on which particular Asian culture you are interacting with. I remember the Thai version being the most different of the places I traveled and worked. But it wasn’t difficult. Thailand really is the nation of smiles. It’s easier to pick up a civvie girl anywhere you go in Thailand than any country I’ve ever traveled anywhere ub the world,  I highly recommend Thailand non- pros for both friendship and fun. Same in Brazil.  Though in a quite different way.  

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36363jensen 4 Reviews 139 reads
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Nothing really to add but YEMV would be a better term

The "mileage" metaphor is just too stretched and also carries something of a negative connotation -- "high mileage".

 
But good post in general.

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Your Experience May Vary would be better

But I didn’t think of it. ;)

 
It is an excellent suggestion. Let’s you and I try using it for a while and see if it gets any traction.

 
What has long puzzled me is, for some reason, there are some people who think sex workers are not, in many - if not most - respects like other providers in other service industries. The way I see them, they are very much like personal trainers, coaches and sparring partners. Each brings their own care, skill and judgement (and even, in many cases their physical appearance) to each session. And we quite reasonably expect that, if we don’t bring our own best to those sessions we can only blame ourselves, not the trainer, coach or sparring partner, for poor results.

 
What I’m proposing here is that the Experience in Your Experience May Vary, is highly dependent on us and what we bring to that session. And I’m asking, if that’s the case, as I believe it is, what can we do to improve every experience?

 
In this thread, I’m trying to talk about the physical things. The monger’s grooming, cleanliness, clothes, scent, fitness level etc. And what impact we have found that those things have on our (the k-monger) experience of the session.

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Nose hair - inside and out

It is helpful to remember that, for the vast majority of us, kgirls are significantly shorter than we are. So, when they look up at us they have no choice but to be given a great view of the underside of our nose. Important note: Hair on the nose or bushy hair spilling out of the nose is a nearly universal turn-off for every woman. Especially kgirls.  

 
If you want to make it easier for them to project and maintain the illusion we all love, “keep your nose clean, buddy”. In this case we are talking in the literal sense. Pluck any hairs on the outside of your nose. Trim those inside of your nose. Pick your favorite method. Just make sure it works. As far as picking your nose goes? Well, I know a few kgirls that do it, too. Just be discreet.

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RA's Are Like Other Service Provider$?

Ring True??!!

 
You can take the whore out of the whorehouse.
But can you take the whorehouse out of the whore??!!

 

YEMV

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Re: RA's Are Like Other Service Provider$?

This is one major subject upon which you and I completely disagree.  

 
I do not believe that their job must define who they are. Any more than our jobs and our pasts must define us. Do I believe that many will suffer PTSD in some degree for quite some time after they leave this job and possibly for the rest of their lives? Yes.  

 
I have friends who have left the “whorehouse” as you call it. And anyone who doesn’t know their backstory would never believe they had been a sex worker.  

 
No one is defined by their past. History is rife with many examples of people who have risen above many worse experiences than these girls deal with.  

 
You might want to read a bit about Viktor Frankl.

 
I enjoy your stories. And I think you have good intentions. But I do not endorse bigotry in any form. Kgirls deserve the same respect as any other person in your life with whom you interact. Period.

 
Now I know that you are sensitive about anyone who disagrees with you about anything. Last time I mentioned that you might find you could have better experiences if you changed your approach you went completely off topic and snipped at me about going and getting waxed.

 
 As I have told you before, disagreement is just disagreement. There is no judgement inherent to it. Even when I am diametrically opposed to someone’s beliefs it has no impact on my belief in their value as a person.  

 
You are free to believe as you wish. I simply  and wholeheartedly disagree.

 
Now go and find your favorite kgirl(s) and have fun. You’ll still get no judgement from me.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 138 reads
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This is a very good reminder . . . .

of how to get "Maximum Mileage" out of your Kgirl Experience.  I can corroborate your statement about carrying a toothbrush around.  I had a recent outside Kgirlfriend who carried a rechargeable electric toothbrush in her purse.  It was in a plastic case that held two brush heads, one for her and one for me. She was training me to keep my mouth as clean as hers was.  Lol

 
Same with your grooming points.  A weekly professional manicure will get you FIV with girls that don't have it on their normal menu, but you should ask your manicurist to make them as short as possible, as the usual length, aesthetically speaking, still leaves enough length in the nail to do some damage.  As far as body hair, the general rule is that you don't want hair anyplace that you might like her mouth or tongue to be.  If you're a fan of the catbath routine (which I'm NOT), then you might want to consider shaving your whole body.  Again, there are two different standards when it comes to chest hair.  They prefer their customers NOT to have it, but many prefer that their boyfriends do, so there is a conundrum on how to approach this depending on what your long-term goals are.  

 
Earwax buildup can undo all of other grooming efforts.  I clean mine out every morning as part of my morning hygiene whether I'm seeing a Kgirl that day or not.  Ear hair is another one that should be addressed at least every other day.  The problem is when its at an unmanageable length.  Either you should completely remove it, or else let it grow to a couple of inches, then blow dry it and style it into a complementary look to your haircut.  (Okay, I might be fucking with you guys on these last two sentences.  Lol).

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If you are saying . . . .

that you can date a Kgirl outside the incall OTC, but that she will not lose the Kgirl mentality, there is a certain amount of truth to that unless she genuinely falls in love with you.  Then its a completely different attitude.

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Re: If you are saying . . . .

If he meant the former and not the latter then I misread and I owe him an apology.

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Bowing is a little tricky . . . .

I don't use it socially, only in a business context, but usually, the person of the lower status or grade, or who wants something (for instance, to make a sale, get financing, etc.) bows first.  I have never bowed to a Kgirl unless they bow to me first. I am the customer and they are the salesman.  For me to bow first would acknowledge that I might be undeserving of being with them, and that is the opposite of the impression I want to give.

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Re: Bowing is a little tricky . . . .

It depends on the bow.

 
There is the simple “acknowledgement” bow. Even people of high status do it. It’s the barest of head nods. You might even call it a subtle twitch. But, yes, they usually don’t do it first.  

 
But even people of high status will do it first to acknowledge that they recognize someone and it is OK to approach or speak, for example.  

 
I recommend to everyone who interacts frequently with Asians to learn that acknowledgement bow or head nod. That is the one I learned how to use in order to pick up non-pro Asian girls. If you’re dealing with proud, hot tempered Korean non-pros, it helps a lot.

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GaGambler 131 reads
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Ear hair is like all "old man hair" .

I don't care if it's coming out of your ears or your nose or anywhere but where hair is supposed to grow it's not just K-Girls that will find it disgusting.  

 
As for chest hair. That kind of depends if your K-Girl is one who prefers Asian or Western men. If she likes Western men, your chest hair most likely will be something she likes, if she prefers Asian men, it's unlikely that she will care for a lot of chest hair. As a half breed, I have "some" chest hair, more than your typical Asian, but  whole lot less than your typical Dago.

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Re: Ear hair is like all "old man hair" .

Agreed.  

 
But I’ve never met an Asian girl that can stand back hair!

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You are absolutely right about that . . . .

Even on a boyfriend, they find back hair disgusting.  I was at a Palm Springs resort with a former Kgirlfriend, and we went down to the pool, and there was a guy laying in the sun with black hair all over the front and back of his torso.  She looked at him and said, "Ewww, that's so disgusting."  I said, "Don't worry, babe.  At a place like this they won't let you go in the pool with a sweater on."  She started laughing hysterically.  

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If you’ve got a “carpet”..

If it’s (body hair) as thick as a carpet, even asian girls who like western men will not be happy, in my experience. Some hair is OK. If it’s thick, you have to make the decision to thin the forest a bit. Or deal with the fact that some kgirls will just not deal with it as well as others.  

 
It just doesn’t make sense to them that anyone would let their body hair grow that thick. They start saying things like “I wonder what’s underneath that stuff?” And that cute little nose wrinkles in disgust (note: Asians can’t make their nose skin wrinkle as much as we can - but when you see the expression you’ll recognize it).  

 
Still, every man has to decide what he’s willing and not willing to do to have more and better experiences with kgirls.

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Re: Bowing is a little tricky . . . .

I was taught that all people are equal; although some are more gifted than others.  I was taught to bow respectfully as a gesture of kindness and dignity.

 

YEMV

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coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 187 reads
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I have to agree . . . .

when it comes to your "head twitch".  I have used that, too.  You can acknowledge a less-important person in a business setting without making a cultural faux pas.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 153 reads
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Brother Twoon, you were . . . .

"taught" correctly in order to be successful in the US, but try taking that position with the head of Toyota or Sony in Tokyo and let me know how it worked out for you.  Lol

 
My only concern with always bowing is that an Asian might misconstrue that you are mocking their culture.  You're probably not going to get blowback from a Kgirl.  They're just going to think you're a little eccentric, but in a business setting, you have to be more careful about cultural differences.  Perceptions are often very subtle.   Just my opinion from my own past experiences dealing with Asian CEO's in the business world.

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For Asia, this is correct

Power in Asia is almost immovably entrenched (on those rare occasions power shifts it is best for foreigners to anticipate it and avoid being impacted by the fallout) and highly stratified. You have to be aware of position and power at all times and in all situations. If you aren’t, you can find things suddenly not going well for you with nothing you can do about it.  

 
Acknowledging power and position, your own and that of others around you, is a lot of what the bow is all about in business and politics. In social situations, it is also used to acknowledge perceived value.  

 
The more you see of Asian culture, as rich and wonderful as it can be, the better you also understand why so many Asians love it here.

 
Still, this interpretation is based on my experience of a few decades working with Asians and Asian companies here and abroad. Every person is free to develop their own understanding of these things.

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Managing your scent and taste

Every kgirl I’ve ever known has carefully managed her own scent and taste.

 
They don’t expect you to work at it as hard as they do. But they do expect you to respect how hard they work at it. And to avoid doing anything that makes them have to work harder at managing both.

 
I remember having my first session (and one of her first as well) with a girl who became moderately famous and ended up going on a very long tour with much higher rates (she started charging 400 to 600 per hour as her reputation grew) than she had here.

 
She was one of the sweetest smelling and tasting kgirls I’ve ever met. And I’ve found kgirls, in general (there are always exceptions), to be very sweet smelling and tasting as I mentioned above.

 
I remember whispering to her during the session that she tasted wonderful. As I said, I’ve never met anyone who managed scent and taste better.  

 
Before we showered at the end of the session I remember she stood up very close to me with her hand on my chest. Then she gave me a demure little head bow and said “Thank you. You smell and taste sweet to me.”

 
Some tips I’ve found that help a lot in managing your scent and taste. Keep in mind that everyone is different. The actual alcohol thresholds, for example, vary quite a bit among individuals.

 
At least 3 days prior to a session:

 * Avoid beets and asparagus. They almost always make your semen and even your pre-cum taste unpleasant. If you don’t care about blowjobs you can ignore this. Eating pineapples or drinking pineapple juice for a few days can cover a lot though.
 * Avoid eating lots of garlic or curry or cumin. It’s not just your breath that is impacted. If you’re eating a lot of these things the odors begin to secrete with your sweat.
 * Use body lotion and hand lotion after getting out of your shower
 * Drink plenty of water.  
 * Avoid alcohol or at least avoid overindulging  
 * Don’t wear clothes you’ve worn while smoking unless you are really good at keeping smoke off of them

 
Some of you guys who have a problem with diet related or other particularly strong body odors will find yourself black listed for no reason that makes any sense to you.  But the girl has had to spend 15 minutes or more just getting your smell off of her and out of her room before she sees her next client. And that’s an automatic kgirl black list now matter how well you behaved.

 
Again, you have no obligation to do anything to manage your scent or taste. This is important only if you want to maximize your chances of having a great experience with any particular kgirl. Because I can promise you that almost every kgirl you see is taking pains to make herself smell and taste sweet for you. And some of them are less adept than others at managing strong odors and unpleasant tastes.

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Does your butt have a beard?

I was with a kgirl and she was trying to tell me why she liked it when customers trimmed, shaved or waxed their body hair. She kept making this pulling down gesture while she was talking about a particular customer’s hairy butt. So I said: “You mean that his butt had a beard?”  

She laughed hysterically. Then she got her roommate and had me say that to her. They both apparently related to the idea.  

Apparently, some guys have so much butt hair that a kgirl has to grab it in their fists to pull it out of the way.

Just guessing. But I think if you have that much butt hair, the very least you should do is acquaint yourself with the use of electric clippers. Wahl makes good ones.

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The only problem with your . . . .

"3-days before" list, is that for many of us that hobby three or four times a week, there is never a "three-days-before."  Are you telling me I should skip girls just so my semen tastes better?  Its going to be in their mouths, not mine, so I don't see the point of missing out on Kgirl pussy so that the LESSER NUMBER of remaining girls will swallow instead of spit.  Once the little swimmers leave my dick, I could care less how they die. . . . . . a tissue or stomach acid makes no difference to me at the end of the day.   Lol

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Re: The only problem with your . . . .

Like I said, you are under no obligation to do anything.

 
I also referred to the category of foods that mask objectionable tastes. I mentioned pineapple. Maca is another.  

 
I only worry about these when seeing a new girl. But mostly I’ve found that, because I take maca pretty frequently, that girls who know me well tell me that the taste is always quite good. So, if I want to see a new girl I just take maca the day before and the day of. No big deal. It boosts my energy as well as the semen volume so it ends up being a win for me and for the girl(s) I see.  

 
I’m writing this list for guys who have issues with not getting the experience they hope for. Or maybe they just want to see if there are things they can do to improve the experiences they are already enjoying. Experimenting is fun.  

 
When you find something that gets an extra positive response from the girl(s) you are with that is fun all by itself.  When I first started using maca to improve my recovery time I had a girl tell me: “Oh, your cum tastes good.” That was fun. When I started waxing to minimize chafing on long rides I also started having girls get a little silly and even rather hot and heavy rubbing themselves on my body. And when I noticed how much more feeling I had when having sex that was even more fun.

 
These are all optional for most of us. But for some guys it’ll mean the difference between an 80 to 90 percent happy session rate and 95% or better. And for some it will mean the difference between walking out feeling satisfied and walking out feeling absofuckingly amazing. For some it will mean that their ability to pop that second time is easier because they’re being stimulated more. And so on.  

 
Nobody will know unless they give it a try.

 
Everybody just has to figure that out for themselves.  

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Re: Does your butt have a beard?

I definitely don't have THAT much hair down there, but one time a girl looked at my ass before going rimming, playfully exclaimed "hairy monstah", and then proceeded to go to town on my asshole.

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Re: Managing your scent and taste

Omg. I sometimes eat kimchi midsession. (And that is not some double entendre some of you all pass off as humor.)

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useyrhead 4 Reviews 150 reads
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Re: Managing your scent and taste

Somehow I doubt that a Korean girl would think of that as a problem.

GaGambler 119 reads
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I doubt I am going to "try" anything that requires several days of abstinence

My "happy session rate" is just fine TYVM. and going a minimum of three days in between having sex is just NOT going to happen until I get a lot older than I am now.  

 
I am sure your advice is very valid for guys who "have issues" and are already having sex rather infrequently, but I am sure for myself,  CDL and anyone else who is used to getting laid at least a few times a week, this kind of advice simply is not an option for us.

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Re: I doubt I am going to "try" anything that requires several days of abstinence

None of it actually requires abstinence.  

 
That three days you mentioned is simply how long it takes for things like maca to start having a significantly positive impact. You can have sex as many times a day those three days as you want. I was doing so when I started using it. Because I didn’t start using it for its sexual benefits. I wanted that improved recovery time. The sexual benefits were icing on the cake. A more substantial icing than I expected. But still just a nice side benefit.  

 
Using a pair of electric clippers (though from what you’ve said I’m sure you don’t need it) is a matter of minutes. No abstinence required. Drinking more water? Again, no abstinence required.  

 
And laying off of the curry, cumin, etc is not something most people need to worry about. There are some people, and we’ve all met some of them IRL, for whom the smells of curry, cumin, etc seep out of their pores. And I know that they tend to get blacklisted by kgirls.  

 
As I’ve said, each person needs to figure out what works for themselves.

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It takes a LOT of cumin to make you smell bad

Curry is probably the worst and too much garlic will make you stink too. ESPECIALLY the way many Koreans eat it, which is raw. I had a Korean friend who you could smell from halfway across the room. lol

 
I reread your post and I concede what you recommend does NOT require you to abstain from sex. Although I am hardly a health nut, I will concede that most of your recommendations do make sense, but of course you lost me with any suggestion that I cut back on alcohol.  I will confess that I have quit drinking a full bottle of tequila during a session. I now limit myself to about a half a bottle. Baby steps, right? lol

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Re: It takes a LOT of cumin to make you smell bad

Just a side note, Indians do make up a fairly significant portion of bay area kgirl clientele ;)  

 
Sometimes a girl would tell me she'd have a day full of only Indian guys.

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I've heard that directly from Kgirls . . .

I've seen in the BA, too, along with stories of how these contract workers who are here on a work visa come to the end of their contract and ask the Kgirls to marry them and come with them back to India or Pakistan.  They are shocked when the Kgirl turns them down.  India's a shit hole unless you're wealthy, and Kgirls know that.

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Re: I've heard that directly from Kgirls . . .

I'm not sure how to put it lightly, but kgirls aren't very fond of that demographic in general.

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Apparently it is very common

Every kgirl Ive gotten to know has told me multiple stories of this happening. With pretty much the same disgusted/annoyed look on their faces. They seem to feel like these guys must think they are idiots.  

 
Actually, this shouldn’t surprise anyone that the kgirls feel this way. The attitudes towards India in Korea are more like: it’s an exotic place to visit. But you have to bring your own water and food. OK, that’s slightly exaggerated. But not much.  

 
As I think I’ve said before, there’s a strong streak of xenophobia amongst Koreans. They might be willing to make donations to the poor in India. But most Koreans would not want to live there.

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Are you really that scared of coming across as a racist?

Jeez, if you are going to make a statement, fucking own it. This is a fuck board, you don't need to say things "lightly" SOMEONE is likely to take offense at this kind of statement no matter how "lightly" you try to say it.

 
It's not just K-Girls that have a problem with that "demographic" MOST American providers avoid Indian/Pakis et al  clients as well, and for the very same reason/s. It's not exactly a fucking secret.

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Re: Are you really that scared of coming across as a racist?

Eh I'm not a racist, so I have nothing to be scared of... Im in tech, remember? I work with these guys a lot.  

....but many providers are. And I didn't want to open that can of worms here really. But here we go I guess.

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Have you been living under a rock?

You don't have to BE a racist to be accused of it.

 
And what does working a lot with people of another race have to do with being accused of being a racist.?I grew up on the East side of San Jose, even drove my 64 Chevy Impala down around Alum Rock park with all the vatos. But if I were to use the word "beaner" around a bunch of woke white people you can bet your culo they'd all be calling me a racist even if none of them knew a single Mexican, or even a Chicano beyond maybe the guy who cuts their lawn. jaja  

 
As for that "can of worms" too late, you already opened it.

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You've probably heard me . . . .

say this before, but I roomed with a black guy in college, and we became close friends.  That was in the late 70's, so a lot of white people weren't used to seeing blacks and whites hanging together.  So just for the shock value, in public, he called me cracker and I called him mudbone.  Sometimes we would escalate the slur's (peckerwood for me, tar baby for him, and more - Lol)  if we weren't seeing enough outrage.  You should have seen the shocked looks on their faces.  Women would put their hands over their kids' ears.   It cracks me up when the woke dipshits here call me racist.  If they only knew some of the shit my black brother and I pulled back then to fuck with narrow-minded people.  Those were a great four years.  

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Its a more casual lifestyle . . . .

You don't have to wipe your feet before entering a house because the floors are made of dirt, too, just like the outside, so its okay to track a little dirt inside to go with the dirt that's already there.  Lol

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 154 reads
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Re: Have you been living under a rock?

I just don't see why would I be accused of being a racist when I'm describing hookers not liking a certain contingent? I'm just the messenger here lol

 
And it's not like it's a secret that Koreans, and especially Japanese have fairly xenophobic cultures.  

Hell, rednecks ain't got nothing on those inland, country Japanese dudes.

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 111 reads
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Re: Its a more casual lifestyle . . . .

Come on, man.

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 113 reads
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Re: You've probably heard me . . . .

I'm not calling you racist, but I think it's rich that you think that one relationship with a person of color would excuse you from being racist. I'm not saying that your interactions with POC have been limited to this experience, but I think it interesting that you chose to illustrate it with this one. This way of thinking isn't limited to you, of course. Unfortunately, it's pretty common in this country.

kyungjean 6 Reviews 138 reads
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Re: Managing your scent and taste

Really? That seems contrary to the premise of your entire post.

kyungjean 6 Reviews 96 reads
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Re: Its a more casual lifestyle . . . .

It is ok. He had an Indian friend back in the 60s, too.

GaGambler 133 reads
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You really are clueless, aren't you?

You live in one of the most "woke" places in the world yet you don't see a thing.  Are you related to Sgt Schultz?

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 197 reads
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Re: You really are clueless, aren't you?

Sounds like p&r material, sorry.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 146 reads
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Re: You really are clueless, aren't you?

I’ve tried telling him off, pointing out his logical flaws, making fun of him even. Nothing works.

 
It seems he doesn’t really care what you say back to him as long as you reply.

 
But I think you’re having fun. So, enjoy.

GaGambler 183 reads
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Well YOU are the one who opened the "can of worms"

and you even admitted you were doing so when you did it by saying "I don't know how to say this lightly"  

 
If that isn't a tacit admission that "someone" might take it as a racist statement, then I don't know what is.

 
AND for the record, I agree that pointing out racism is hardly racism in itself. but it's you that lives in the "Woke Capital" of the world. I live in redneck Texas and it's rare that anyone here tries to twist my words about race out of context. I find it hugely ironic that the Texas rednecks are actually LESS racist than the woke liberals in California.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 130 reads
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Careful about challenging me . . . .

until you've spent some time in India like I have.  You get outside of the center of town in large cities and its a real shithole.  Trust me. I've got the photos to prove it.  

 
Or was your comment meant to say I'm racist against Indians.  (Software Indians, not Casino indians.)    Before you go all woke, check and see if I said anything derogatory about the people.  I just said the country is a shithole (three times now).   Save the sensitivity stuff for the real racists who are pretending they're not.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 185 reads
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Ah, the junior troll is back . . . .

I have noticed that NOTHING in your entire history of posting on this board offers any informational substance based on your own Kgirl experience.  You either wisecrack other posters or say, "Me, too", to someone else's substantive post.  You are just an empty vessel when it comes to Kgirl knowledge.  Just because you're Korean doesn't mean you know anything about the Kgirl scene, and its apparent you don't because you have shared zero personal knowledge  on this board.  So do you just like being the court jester, wisecracking your way through life, or is there anything at all that you know about the Kgirl scene that you can share here to make your presence worthwhile so you're not just deadweight.  Please enlighten us on why you are more than a common troll.  

kyungjean 6 Reviews 133 reads
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Re: Careful about challenging me . . . .

My god, you are a tired old prune.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 162 reads
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Congrats, . . . . .

You still don't have a single post on this board with anything substantive to do with Kgirls.   You really don't have any experience do you?  Its becoming more apparent each time you post.  Do you just read the reviews while you rub one out each night, or what? Its okay to be an idiot, but a least be a useful idiot.    Bwahahahaha

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 105 reads
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I think we have another troll . . . .

that needs to be on ignore.   Unless he shows he can contribute some Kgirl knowledge, I'm about done with this one.  

kyungjean 6 Reviews 194 reads
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Two-for-one

For your sake you should put me on ignore.

I clearly have struck a nerve in your dried-out prune of a body!

Bwahahahahaha!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 219 reads
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Are you BLPOS.? . . . .

Changed your username to start over?  That would explain why you don't really know shit about Kgirls, AND why BLPOS has not posted here the last few weeks because TER will suspend you for posting under two  names on the same thread.  You put up three generic reviews for cover but its pretty clear they contain nothing new to what was posted by others.  Some of the comments you have made are straight out of Piece of Shit's playbook.  Now you will pretend to be Korean without knowing anything about the Kgirl scene?  Your Kimchi comment gave you away that you're not a real monger, just a board troll.  If you were a real Kgirl monger you would know that nobody eats Kimchi at a Kgirl incall, not even the Kgirls themselves.  You have exposed yourself as a complete fraud whether you are BLPOS or some other troll.  Good luck with reinventing yourself.  Bwahahahaha

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 180 reads
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Re: Are you BLPOS.? . . . .

He's not.

kyungjean 6 Reviews 200 reads
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There you go again

There you go again demonstrating how small you are.

"The universe is wider than our views of it.”

You are such a know-nothing, say-everything prune.

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 173 reads
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Re: Are you BLPOS.? . . . .

I know only one guy that's done it but it was in Philly and as we know, things run a bit differently there. Also, she was a touring girl, so there was nowhere else to eat it but the incall.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 105 reads
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And you still haven't posted . . . .

anything worth reading about Kgirl hobbying.   Always bashing and deflecting, but who is that knows NOTHING about the Kgirl scene?  Bwahahahahaha

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 119 reads
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Don't tell me you are joining . . . . .

Rocket's hearsay club?   The reason you only HEARD about one instance is because most Kgirl mongers know its a bullshit story.  If  you had been doing this longer, you would know that ten+ years ago, Kgirls used to cook and eat some very aromatic dishes at the incall, the smell of which, put some  people off.  Guys would walk into the incall, and walk right  back out again because the smell was too strong for  their senses.  I know, because I was one of them.   If the smell in the air is so strong that I can't smelll freshly washed pussy from 3 inches away, I'm not staying.  Lol

 
On the other hand, if you ever get invited to sample Kgirl Legend Glow's pumpkin soup, do it.  The smell is not strong, but the taste is to die for.  You won't be sorry.  

-- Modified on 3/14/2021 4:33:21 PM

kyungjean 6 Reviews 117 reads
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Re: And you still haven't posted . . . .

You show off your 70 WPM typing skills day-in and day-out but don't type anything worth reading, either.

Guess I get to know the women a bit better than you.

First time I ate kimchi at an incall a lovely young women made me a dish of kimchi bokkeum that we shared hot off the skillet.

And that, my friendly prune, is not hearsay!

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 151 reads
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Re: Don't tell me you are joining . . . . .

I don't see where I "HEARD" this happening. I said that I knew it happened because I know the guy. If you're saying that I can't trust "hearsay", then why should anyone trust any monger? You don't even know who this guy is, much less the conditions of their encounter (time of day, type of incall, type of provider, etc.). That being said, it doesn't refute your point, it's just an anecdotal asterisk to what you said.

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 120 reads
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Re: And you still haven't posted . . . .

I just don't understand the mentality of having infallible experiences. Just because an experience challenges your own, it doesn't invalidate the one you believe to generally hold true.

GaGambler 221 reads
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Most Indians don't want to live there either. lol

I've got a long time buddy who is Indian, we've been friends for some 20+ years and every couple of years he is dragged "back home" against his will. lol He absolutely dreads having to go back to India and he claims he is sick for a good two weeks after each trip.

 
I know a lot of people from many different countries and most of them remember their home countries with a great degree of fondness, even people who are here from war torn countries like Vietnam, but I can't think of any of my Indian friends who wax poetic when talking about, or when planning to return to the place that they grew up.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 187 reads
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I will say this . . . .

If she had intended that you be the last customer of the day, then maybe you did have this experience you claim, but it was with the dumbest fucking Kgirl on the planet, but probably a perfect match for you.

KlientDMV 168 reads
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eating during session...

:)
one time one of the local kgirl prepared  Jajangmyeon before my arrival since told her during previous visit that never taste Korean version of Jajangmyeon but often saw people eating from drama. What a lovely girl!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 191 reads
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Hearsay means . . . .

you weren't there.   Was this a MFM double?  

 
There are always outliers.  Too many posters here try to make outliers sound like the norm, and its a reckless practice.  That's why I may sometimes react negatively when guys are making spurious claims that are contrary to conventional wisdom.  There are many mongers here who will take such comments seriously and show up at an incall in the middle of the day with kimchi and expect the Kgirl to eat it with them when she still has more customers coming who are probably NOT Korean.  

 
When you have guys here where EVERYTHING they do is a one-off it stretches the limits of believability, even for some of us that have seen just about everything there is to see in Kgirl-land.  You seem to be  demonstrating lately that you have some Kgirl credible experience, and even though you and I got off to a rocky start, I have been trying to give you the respect that legitimate mongers deserve,  but white knighting for Kumjean does you no favors.  He has yet to prove that he's not a total fraud.  All he does is attack other posters, say, "me, too" to other posts,and make wisecracks like other trolls that have been here who had no actual experience with Kgirls.  He has yet to post anything based on personal experience other than this kimchi claim, which is not useful information for anyone else here.  He creates an intellectual vacuum every time he posts.   "When you lie down with dogs you get up with fleas."   (---Ben Franklin)

kyungjean 6 Reviews 195 reads
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blood pressure

Like I said, for your sake you should put me on ignore.

At your age you want to keep your blood pressure down!!  

And your last "bwahahaha" seemed really listless and low energy. What's wrong?

kyungjean 6 Reviews 318 reads
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Re: eating during session...

Love a good bowl of jajangmyeon!

I once cooked a big serving of spaghetti all'amatriciana at an incall (this was about 6pm so there were definitely customers after me.)

Shared it with my friend, her roommate, and the owner.

The smell of half a head of sauteed garlic, browning, crispy guanciale, and simmering tomato is delicious.

But it certainly is not mild and would make the sensitive snout of our piggish prune turn up!!!

This is not hearsay either. Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahah!!! (Now there's a laugh hahahahahaha!)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 118 reads
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I haven't tried that, so I don't . . . .

know how aromatic it is.  Don't get me wrong.  I'm not saying no one eats at an incall.  I'm just saying the girls that have been in the game awhile know not to cook something that western customers might find offensive if the smell permeates the incall unless they are the last appointment of the day.   I have been asked by many Kgirls to come at the end of the day and bring food, but I don't book after 7:00 because a girl with a full schedule is getting tired by then.  There are many posts here from the past where guys have confessed to bringing pizza's, hamburgers, and other things to eat AT THE REQUEST of the Kgirl.  I even mentioned having had Glow's pumpkin soup at the incall in the middle of the day, but it smells like Christmas, so its not as pungent.  So I am the last one that would argue that girls don't ever eat at the incall with mongers.  I only called bullshit on Kimchi unless he was the last customer of the day.  As I said above, if it was a girl too stupid to consider the effect a Kimchi smell might have on later customers, which I have no doubt is the kind of girl that would find him attractive to hang out with, then I concede its possible.  He made it sound like its a regular thing, and I still call bullshit.  Even a dumb girl is going to notice a drop off in business as soon as some guy writes a review about the distracting smell.  

KlientDMV 185 reads
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Re: eating during session...

i always bring foods/drinks for favorite girls, w/ some ATFs I was allowed to stopby to dine w/ girls, typically i'd bring something easier/fast for their short  lunch break, as pizza/pasta/sushi rolls/pho.....
one of the occasions, i know both girls very well, one of them is ATF, i brought the whole treats for the girls from shrimp cocktail, crabcake appetizer, steak, pasta and dessert etc. as soon as i stepped out their door heading back, got a kakaotalk call from ATF screaming "NOT ENOUGH of steak", they are fighting for the foods. :)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 163 reads
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I knew you would have no . . . .

comeback on your bullshit claim.  When you've got nothing, go for the ad hominem attach.  (Like its going to suddenly make you credible?).   When are you going to post something substantive besides the fact that you eat Kimchi?  As important as that has become to you, I don't think it does much for the rest of us.  Who was the Kgirl you saw this week?  Are you going to write a review?  How about building some cred for yourself?  Right now, you're a total zero.  

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 142 reads
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Re: I knew you would have no . . . .

If anything you have not experienced personally is "hearsay", what is the value of building "cred" on this board? It's my general practice anyway to take everything that's posted here at face value as I don't trust any of you degenerates!! Lol

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 138 reads
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Re: I knew you would have no . . . .

Exactly, I see this "hearsay" thing as an excuse to be able to discredit some people via cherry picking.

 

When someone says something on the internet or even outside of internet, you either choose to trust them or not trust them. If you trust them, and they say they've got a reliable source, you trust them and their source. And if you don't trust them, what difference does it make if they say they got a source or its their own experience? You still don't trust them.

 

I've got some mongers I keep on touch with who deliver me very reliable and correct info about girls,that I am able to verify. So when they bring a rumor along or tell me they've heard something, I will trust it to the degree they themselves trust it.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 136 reads
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Re: I knew you would have no . . . .

Not to get into the ongoing board arguments (trying to leave them of bad memories to be soon forgotten) but one personal listening to someone they find credible and taking what they say as truthfully provided "fact" that other person directly experienced is not hearsay. But if you then take that and make the claim it is true and other's should believe it you are relying on hearsay -- you heard it said and are not just saying "X said y" but claiming y is true without having yourself actually seeing/experiencing it.

 
We've been getting a lot of that on the board recently.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 207 reads
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FH, only SOME of us . . . .

are degenerates, and it took a lot of hard work, a lot of money and a LOT of Kgirls to make us that way.  If I tried to tell you I'm NOT a degenerate, then its YOUR turn to call Bullshit.  LOL

kyungjean 6 Reviews 154 reads
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Re: I knew you would have no . . . .

When are you going to get a life?

(Besides your fantasy world and this board).

PS - For every week that you stay off this board, I will post a review and dedicate it to you, Old Prune. Do we have a deal?

-- Modified on 3/18/2021 4:13:11 AM

kyungjean 6 Reviews 146 reads
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Re: I haven't tried that, so I don't . . . .

Every time you show off your 70 WPM typing skills, you prove to me how stupid you are.

I wrote in my post "sometimes".

Only an Old Prune like you whose brain is a little dried out would take that to mean "a regular thing".

Bwahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahaha!!!!!!

luvmtiter 111 Reviews 146 reads
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Re: Have you been living under a rock?

Oh jeez, here we go. Right on the money- Halfway the thread it becomes a bitchfest between a couple of High School girls.  
Can't you guys pause for ONCE??!   This was an interesting thread; but not anymore. Bye

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 177 reads
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I'm going to give you an . . . .

opportunity to show off your Kgirl credentials.  You allegedly saw and then reviewed Snowflake in San Jose.  I take it you don't live there, so I'm curious that, with all the talent there is in the BA with review scores of 8+, why did you pick a girl with a TER average of 6.9?   I occasionally have to see girls with scores in the high 7's because I have seen all of the 8's in my area.  You went to the bay area, and CHOSE a girl with a low average above all the rest.  I'm just wondering what your thoughts were in doing that as opposed to picking one of the top-tier girls in the BA.  Serious question, so lets see if you can put up a serious answer without a snarky personal attack?  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 149 reads
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Re: I'm going to give you an . . . .

May I interject with my guess here?

 
You probably don't know it, bit snowflake is a rebrand from Asako, a name used in BA DC and in Philly (I think)  

With well over 100 reviews to her previous names:

 

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/asako---chris-new-2675631205-281659

 

So here's my guess. The guy who you're replying to is likely from DC and knows Snowflake aka Asako from there.

-- Modified on 3/18/2021 5:17:59 PM

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 145 reads
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Re: I'm going to give you an . . . .

Another girl he reviewed, Jane, was also in NOVA, however, I don't recall her being here in November. I think she was here in May/June, but I could be mistaken.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 131 reads
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Thank you for answering . . . .

FOR him.  Is there a reason you didn't want to hear HIS answer.   Now I'm sure it will be the same as yours. Clearly, YOU didn't think he should be given a chance to show his OWN Kgirl credentials.  One has to wonder why.  

 
You remind me of the scene in "My cousin Vinny" when Joe Pesci questions the old lady witness with the thick glasses about how many fingers hes holding up and the judge says, "Let the  record show that counsel is holding up three fingers."   Lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 124 reads
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I have said before that . . . .

reviews should be posted in the city she is currently in, but that should not  be used to circumvent TER's policy of allowing only a three month clawback for writing reviews.  As I learn four or five times every year, if a girl I saw leaves my town, and I don't know where is, the 90-day review window closes before I can get it approved by TER because I  don't have a valid current link, and in most cases I'm too lazy to sort through new names to try to find them.  If he reviewed her in November when she was in OC, its a valid review review if he saw her in NOVA going back to August, but not if it was May/June.  He wouldn't be the first guy to scam TER for VIP days this way.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 101 reads
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I have a question for you . . . .

If you knew these were the same girl, why didn't you ask TER to combine the two profiles, something you have criticized others here for NOT doing?  Seems a little hypocritical to me.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 119 reads
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Re: I have a question for you . . . .

Because the several times I've reported that profiles should be combined, nothing came out of it?

They were even more obvious instances, with same pics and very similar names, and TER still did nothing. So why should I waste my time reporting these issues if they get ignored?

 
Maybe someone else has to report them in order for them to be merged. I just need to know who. Then I can just relay it to that person.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 129 reads
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Re: Thank you for answering . . . .

Sorry, I don't believe in things such as "kgirl credentials".

 
I did not answer the question you posed, really. I merely gave you some info that may nudge you in the direction of who this poster is. Since you were saying that he's bigpapasan.  

 
And I don't think his answer would be the same at all, I don't think he cares about giving you an answer.  
A

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 151 reads
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Since even BLPOS, who has . . . .

never seen a Kgirl can get Kgirl profiles merged, I wonder why he would have more cred than you with  TER, when you have Kgirl reviews?  That doesn't make sense, but nice deflection anyway.

Floorhump422 25 Reviews 178 reads
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Re: Since even BLPOS, who has . . . .

It has less to do with "cred" and more to do with how the TER staff are feeling that day. I recently had trouble merging some profiles through a Problem Report, and it wasn't until I escalated it to a Feedback that it was actually addressed. The same evidence was provided both times.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 180 reads
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You have discovered . . . .

that if you start with "Feedback",  you are farther up the hierarchy at TER to begin with and more likely to get action rather than some canned response, or worse, no response at all.  It has always appeared to me that the review mods are the busiest, and they give priority to getting the reviews that have been submitted read and approved.

 
Your own experience proves my point.  Rocket did not stick with it like you did.  He gave up and now doesn't report them anymore by his own admission, while continuing to chastise others for not reporting them.    

 
There is also a "cred" factor when asking for a profile merge.   Granted, its a subjective call, but if you have seen a girl under both names she is using and reviewed her under both, its more likely you will have much  of a wait time to get them combined.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 150 reads
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Re: Since even BLPOS, who has . . . .

What was the deflection?

 
I know of dozens of kgirl profile rebrands and have mentioned many of them on this very board. Including Snowflake in this thread.

 
I've also submitted several profile request merges, and haven had any of those problem reports be resolved, and evidence of that is zero ter days received from those reports.

 
So why should I waste my time and submit dozens of them to ter when not a single one has been resolved? The rebrand info is vital during first week or two of rebrand,not later.  

 
I'd rather make a big rebrand thread on here and list them. Or maybe make my own website with an interactive map of kgirl rebrand migration patterns. Those problem reports are useless if they're not 1)resolved and 2)resolved in a timely manner.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 125 reads
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If you're not going to keep trying, . . . .

like Floorhump did until it WAS resolved, that is certainly your prerogative, but then I think you abdicate the right  to complain here about others not reporting rebrands.  Maybe they have tried once and given up like you have.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 103 reads
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Re: If you're not going to keep trying, . . . .

I will contact floorhump for him to give me some info about this
Yes, I agree with you here about abdicating the right. If it's so hard to get the porifles merged, I s a pointless exercise since some girls change names every couple of weeks.  

 

I still keep the right to complain when someone - who sees the girl and she's a rebrand - neglects to mention in the review that she's a rebrand, let alone what name she used before. That's pretty anti-monger if you ask me.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 160 reads
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As I said in the context of another thread . . . .

It doesn't become pointless for me, but whether I will merge a profile depends on the circumstances of the individual girl.  I'm all for transparency for mongers, with the lone exception being when its a safety issue for the girl, which was proven recently  when someone merged two profiles and the girl left the next day, a week before her contract in OC was finished, leaving a hole in the roster for a week.  Obviously, if I post that there are two names because there IS a safety issue, its the same as outing her and defeats the purpose of her trying to work in a particular city and stay UTR from her stalker.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 165 reads
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Holding off on a positive review or merge

Isn’t really harmful to any monger(s). But not holding off can actually be harmful to the girl.  

 
The logic, I think, is pretty simple for anyone to follow and agree with as long as they are thinking with the big head and not the little one.  

 
At this point in my mongering life, I always ask the girl if she wants a review before I write one. Not sure what I’d do anymore if I had a negative experience, though. It’s been years since I’ve had one of those. In the past, though, I wrote negative reviews relatively quickly to warn other mongers away.  

 
The rule of thumb I try to always follow is to do no harm. If there’s a risk of someone actually getting hurt, I don’t do it. And, yes, I do know that there are people for whom that approach would be anathema. For them the risk is a big part of the thrill. As long as it remains a risk and not a reality, that choice should be left to all consenting adults involved. If they’re all fully and enthusiastically consenting, that’s cool.

kyungjean 6 Reviews 191 reads
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Credentials? No, I want a deal first!

Dang, I was really hoping against hope you would take my deal!

But it is too obvious this board is all you have, Old Prune.

kyungjean 6 Reviews 178 reads
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History

Before she was (new) Chris she was just Chris!

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/chris-279290

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 147 reads
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You're right, I'm not kyungjean but...

one thing I do know for certain is that CDL is a liar and a moron.

sunnyday1 156 Reviews 134 reads
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100 / 122
Re: You're right, I'm not kyungjean but...

Well well well, look what crawled out from behind the toilet, if it ain't BLRPOS...

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 173 reads
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It was medical leave . . .

He was getting a cholesterol transfusion. LMAO

 
It’s funny that someone in the P & R board opined that he woukd make the rounds stalking me on the other boards, and here he is. So predictable. LOL

GaGambler 166 reads
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From "behind" the toilet???

Close but no cigar Sunny. lol

 
You wouldn't really expect to find a POS like BLRPOS "behind" the toilet, would you? It would kind of stink up the bathroom, just like he stinks up every board he posts on.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 231 reads
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I can see his point . . . .

"Behind the toilet" is where 20 years worth of stale and bacteria-infested urine oversplash accumulates in public restrooms where guys have been "missing" because no one ever gets on their knees to clean it out.  If someone asked me "who is BLPOS and what is he made of" I could see myself agreeing with Sunny on the second half of the question.  Lol

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 193 reads
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Re: I can see his point . . . .

I kind of envision the BPOS as the shit that goes swirling down the toilet, not what one would find behind it. 🤮🤮🤮

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 184 reads
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Do you think he . . . .

leaves a skid mark?  

useyrhead 4 Reviews 171 reads
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More like E. coli

So, generally harmless.

 
But some strains can make you sick and give you various digestive tract symptoms such as loss of appetite, vomiting or even diarrhea. Most will just pass through and the symptoms will dissipate.

 
However there are a few strains of E. coli which are significantly more virulent and can require medical treatment.

 
To me, PapSmear is just like that. Mostly harmless. But sometimes, he can spread infections which are capable of causing significant harm. So, it’s best to avoid handling his shit at all. But, if you do, make sure you are very careful and wash your hands thoroughly afterward.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 119 reads
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Exfoliation (no, not that kind)

Koreans, especially Korean women, frequently have a whole different level compared to the rest of the world when it comes to skin care. Check out the link I provided.

 
Body scrubbing is big in Korea.

 
What does this mean to us? The majority of our Korean girls can quickly tell by look and feel if you are not regularly exfoliating (getting rid of layers of dead skin). If you aren’t exfoliating sufficiently places like your back, the back of your arms, your buttocks and your upper thighs will have breakouts and or just be bumpy from long accumulation of dead skin in your pores.  

 
To many of them, the lack of even remedial skin care is a sign of poverty and poor health. Or just an appalling (to them) lack of awareness.  

 
Fortunately, it is easily remedied even without going and getting regular Korean body scrubs. Which are pretty cool. But not mandatory.

 
You can just use a Salux (or equivalent) bath scrubbing towel such as are readily available on Amazon for just a few dollars apiece every time you shower.

 
I can highly recommend it. Proper and regular exfoliation will make you actually feel better and you’ll notice that bumps and breakouts gradually decrease significantly.

 
Still, just like all grooming tips, the choice is up to you.
Related Link: https://youtu.be/MlcVD4JMO-k

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 128 reads
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This guy makes more money . . . .

off of dead skin than some guys on this board make at their own jobs.   LOL

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mrfisher 112 Reviews 106 reads
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Exfoliating gloves make it easy while you shower....

My tantrika turned me on to them years ago.   She always uses them during our bath ceremony.   You can find them in most bath and body shops, or just look for them on Amazon.   They're pretty inexpensive, and work great.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 126 reads
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Re: Exfoliation (no, not that kind)

I suppose I should feel blessed then as most have always commented on the quality of my skin -- silky and soft. One or two have even complained it's better than theirs. They really hate it when I tell them all I do is wash and occasionally use a lotion.

 
But if what's in my genes keeps them happy then I'm happy to help ;-)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 134 reads
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I'm not surprised in the least, . . . .

that you have a tantrika and  do bath ceremonies.  You've done everything else, including marrying a provider.  Is there ANYTHING left on your sexual bucket list?  Lol

mrfisher 112 Reviews 160 reads
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Let's see (flipping through my charts)....

Ah yes, item number 457:   Sex in a warm vat of chocolate pudding.

 
Any takers?

useyrhead 4 Reviews 140 reads
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Re: Exfoliating gloves make it easy while you shower....

I agree. But only to a certain extent.  

 
A key trick in exfoliating is to use a body wash with an exfoliating ingredient like glycolic acid. The glycolic acid is very weak. But it does a great job of softening and removing dead skin. The chemistry is simple. But I won’t bore you with it. Just note that it is far more effective at leaving behind clean skin and pores than those body washes with those abrasive granules. Though they are better than nothing.

 
I used gloves with an exfoliating body wash for years. Until someone turned me on to the exfoliation sheets I mentioned above. Unless you are extremely limber, it’s almost impossible to exfoliate your entire back properly with gloves.  

 
When I switched to using an exfoliation sheet and learned how to use it I found I never again had one of those days where my back got that uncontrollable itch that made me want to use the corner of the wall to scratch. Just for that reason alone, I’ll never go back to not exfoliating every day.

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mrfisher 112 Reviews 181 reads
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EZ peasy....

Just slip the exfoliating glove over a back brush, and you've got the back covered.

 
What products would have this glycolic acid you speak of?

 
I use Dr. Bonner's peppermint soap which is pretty strong stuff.  It uses something called castile oil.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 191 reads
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Re: EZ peasy....

My favorite so far is Tu El Green Clean. They derive it from peach extract. I’ve used it for years with no reaction (knock on wood). Yet even a single wash rinses off dead skin that is clogging pores and/or causing ingrown hairs better than anything else I’ve used at this point.  

 
You’ll see other products that get it from grapefruit extract such as Kiehl’s. But I think the chemists at Kiehl’s cut corners in order to maintain the high margins for which they are known. But they are always a good fallback when you can’t find anything else.

 
The Castile washes almost always use lye in the form of potassium (liquid) or sodium (solid) hydroxide. I am not a huge fan of using products based on strong alkalis. But they do work. I’d put them in the class of “get the job done” products. But some people are going to have negative reactions. Sadly, I’m one of those people and can’t use those products for an extended time. The reactions I get if I use them for more than a week or so are, let’s just say rather unpleasant.

 
Glytone and Murad make glycolic acid skin cleansers with a good reputation. I just haven’t tried them yet.  

 
Some manufacturers use formulations that contain citric acid instead of glycolic acid. I haven’t done much homework on these.  

 
I’ve tried the back brush approach. But I tend to get mild to significant rotator cuff injuries which make it very difficult to apply enough pressure with a back brush.  

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mrfisher 112 Reviews 185 reads
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Thanks for the tips...

As for the rotator cuff problem, do what I do:   Shower with a friend.   8o)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 175 reads
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This is a good one, Fish, so I will resist . . . .

making a comment predicated on the fact that the word "friend" is gender-neutral.  LOL

blueliner17 161 reads
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Facial Hair?

What about facial hair?  Any ideas what type may provide the best positive impact?  I've gotten the impression that some K-girls really like it and others really hate it.  Beard length over the years has ranged from stubble to very long.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 183 reads
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Re: Facial Hair?

The facial hair topic is interesting.  

 
But the answer is, as always, it depends. If your facial hair is part of your identity in your mind and you don’t care that some will like it and some won’t, then keep it and don’t worry about it.

 
If you want to maximize the number of positive reactions from kgirls, clean shaven will be the highest percentage shot to get you there. You can get close to that if you take good care of the skin and hair on your face and you keep that facial hair neatly trimmed and soft to the touch.

 
Most Asians can’t grow facial hair anywhere near as readily as we can. So the majority of kgirls are simply not used to it. And, in my experience, most aren’t fond of it. But, if you keep it well trimmed and properly groomed, most will still be fine with it. Though you might find some girls not loving DATY or even kissing so much.  

 
You’ll also find guys on here who say “I have a full beard and I’ve been fine.” With testimonials like that you have to take a grain of salt. All of our experiences, including mine, are colored by our own personal filters. A bit like the guy throwing peanuts off the bus to ward off the elephants. When told “But there aren’t any elephants.” He replies, “See? It’s working.”

 
I can tell you I’ve sat in offices, bars and restaurants in Korea with women I worked with as well as friends. The Korean woman’s general response to facial hair is not usually super positive.  

 
Do with this information however you wish. Conforming with the prejudices and opinions of others just to get laid might not be how you want to live. The choice is yours.

impposter 49 Reviews 216 reads
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Re: Facial Hair?

Try them both and see which she prefers!

Posted By: useyrhead
Re: Facial Hair?
The facial hair topic is interesting.  
   
 But the answer is, as always, it depends. If your facial hair is part of your identity in your mind and you don’t care that some will like it and some won’t, then keep it and don’t worry about it.

blueliner17 185 reads
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Re: Facial Hair?

Yeah I'm not going to change my beard in the hopes of making a better impression on a kgirl.  Being otherwise clean and well groomed is common sense of course.  I was just curious if the general consensus was positive or negative towards facial hair.  I tend to agree with you that it is generally negative.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 159 reads
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Re: Facial Hair?

Imo it depends on if you DATY much. I don't daty much, and for dfk and stuff in my experience it's fine unless your hair is super sharp.

 

With that said, they do prefer clean shaven.

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