Me: Married in early 30’s. Couple of kids.  Life good except wife decided not to stay nice looking or very nice to me. Kids grow up. I split scene and big D. Luckily not in CA. She gets everything except my pension.  I feel lucky.  If I was California resident it would have been much much worse. 10 years later I am back on my feet in California living large with 15 years of KGirling to fill void.  

My good friend of same age lost his wife to cancer. Kids all grown and gone. He decides to “date”. Date.com.  Finds a milf match. Within a month Date moves  in.  She’s 45 yo with kids who live out of state. Date Swaps out all his kitchen stuff China crystal and furniture for $160k of stuff she likes.   He sells all his classic stuff for $20k.  Date grinds on his dick a dozen times. Runs up $100k on credit card. He’s unhappy. He pays her $50K to leave after 6 months of playing house.  

In the same 6 months I fuck at least 20 different KGirls at least twice a week for a total of $25K + several overnight/weekend dates with a KGirl (several times over past few months) for another $20K (plus airfare hotel food clothes which was probably another $15k).  

So my friend is very sad.  Heart broken 70 year old but wealthy. So what.  He was used. Trashed. Had sex about 10x by his estimate. He is out at least $250K.  

Me?  Happy. Sex twice a week. Overnights and weekend trysts at least every 6-8 weeks. Sex by hot KGirls 1/2 my age. Total expense?  Maybe $60K.  

My friend now KGirls.  I think at least 5 times a week.  He is in much need to heal. He loves this life.  We have dined together with Kgirl double dates. Twice.  It’s fun. The Kgirls dress up and talk Korean while we wear blue blazers and smile ear to ear because we know the best of life is in front of us.  

Do you blame him?  Do you blame me? I don’t.