Why do you choose to see or repeat with one girl over another?
Her performance?Her look?
Her attitude?
How engaged she is?
How good she makes you feel? Emotionally and/or physically?
etc. Cami's performance scores made me think people don't like her. I was afraid that she may think she is too good for me. And then I was very pleasantly surprised that she was exactly who I was looking for. Her face was more attractive and cuter than I thought. I really like her attitude and performance too.
I usually choose based on what or who I'm craving on that particular day, subject to availability. Sometimes I choose primarily based on location as certain places are more convenient for me than others.
The experience you described is a good example of why I like to study reviews before meeting someone for the first time. I am better able to manage my expectations and make a more informed booking that matches what I'm looking for that day. We all know this stuff is ymmv, but when I do my homework it usually pays off.
Sigh, this guy usually does not the most sensible thing. I crave only the ONE thing, my dog playing with her kitty. So when I am free, my dog is yapping at me to let him out. Damn dog won't leave me alone to do research. I have only enough time to browse the ads and see which pretty pictures I like more.
When a girl is around long enough, the TER fairies may whisper to me about her reputation. Later on when I see her picture, it may trigger a green light or yellow light, but never red. I have no red light. I would blaze a trail to her come hell or high water.
No doubt TER reviews are very useful, even for someone like me who is often racing on the road...
but I was most attracted by her stunning DDG looks. And yes, I was very impressed, definitely many happy returns. Her attitude is great.
Confession: I don't read or write reviews, thus a bit of hit & miss. My only guidance: scores and body stats. So far it works well.
writing reviews. Some guys just don't have a knack for it because their language skills are not good, but you seem reasonably intelligent, so I don't get why you wouldn't want to write reviews to help out the girls you are seeing that you like. If you get a clunker once in awhile, you don't have to review her. Reviews drive the business for Kgirls. Any booker will tell you that. Its YOUR way of showing your appreciation for a good session. I do it anonymously because no one knows I'm CDL, so I'm not looking for "favors" or to barter anything with the girl for my review like some unscrupulous types. Just another way to thank them for a good time.
As far as not READING reviews, it just increases the odds you are going to see more girls that you won't like, because you're essentially TOFTT on every appointment. If you have deep pockets, then it probably doesn't matter, but most of us that have set a monthly budget like to minimize our chances of seeing a girl that is not a good fit for our own style. We do that by reading reviews and giving more weight to reviews from guys we know are honest and have similar tastes as ourselves.
I would eat instant noodle and ride the bus if it means I can see them. Only reason I don't read more reviews is because I can't spare the time and the mental processing. My circuit is already blown as I browse the pretty pictures and try to decide who to see.
You always make so much sense to me. Either we think alike or I have been influenced by you. You are like Obi-wan Kenobi to this Slywalker. I recognize my betters and want to learn from them.
Are you on the Reviewers Only board? I thought about joining to learn how to write review better. I would love reviewing if I know more English words to describe the girl and things. I know urban dictionary only. I don't know how you can be so detailed without the girl being able to ID you, if they read them.
TOFTT with my first escort and became used to it. I think I was and still am a crazy fool.
Got an urge to see a Korean girl, a quick google found an ad, texted her my first name and requested to see her whenever available. Heaven did not conspire to prevent this fool errand so her booker immediately texted back with a time and when I was OK, she gave me a place. She did not ask me anything else and I was not even suspicious. I was gung ho looking for fucking trouble.
When I got to her door, I thought as soon as I got in and whip out my donation that the door would slam open and they would throw me onto the floor. "Bad boy, bad boy, whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do, when they come for me?"
Then a young beautiful Kgirl opened the magic door. I got hooked ever since. Most Kgirl ads in LA would have my attention. Other info such as scores, physical stats, bits and pieces in reviews and posts only help to prioritize who to see sooner. Kgirls are not so bad that I need to change strategy.
I noticed Cami on her first day here. But I spent many a day staring at her pics and wondered what DDG means. Then some cats mentioned her name in the wind and I could not hold my horse any longer. I knew of her performance reputation but wanted to recon to see the commotion. And yes, I got myself drunk. I was NOT that confidence.
Then a young DDG Kgirl opened the magic door. I did a 180 in my head because, damn, I wanted to marry that face. I thought I needed glasses because she looked nothing like I remembered. Even better, I felt like I was with a hot girlfriend. Recon done, dick contemplated, questions arose...
Her performance?
Her look?
Her attitude?
How engaged she is?
How good she makes you feel? Emotionally and/or physically?
etc.
So, that leaves the performance effort. There are distinct menu items that I look for. Further, if she makes me feel like "king" for the hour--smiles, enjoys kissing, likes it when I compliment her, etc., then I consider repeating. Especially if she can sell it that I'm the best guy to show up at the door in a while.
Reading the reviews gives me a VERY good idea of whether any particular girl will be a good match for me. I've never had a bad K-date. And I've reviewed every single one. Only once have I had a less than good experience, and that was with a Thai girl who was probably just having an off day and whom I did not review.
You hit the nail on the head -- GFE-ness. That's what we seek.
I like your many phrases to jot down: "uggos", "rider chick", "king of the hour"...
Even when you had a bad experience with that Thai girl, you cut her slack. Mr. Magnanimous.
So, that leaves the performance effort. There are distinct menu items that I look for. Further, if she makes me feel like "king" for the hour--smiles, enjoys kissing, likes it when I compliment her, etc., then I consider repeating. Especially if she can sell it that I'm the best guy to show up at the door in a while.
Reading the reviews gives me a VERY good idea of whether any particular girl will be a good match for me. I've never had a bad K-date. And I've reviewed every single one. Only once have I had a less than good experience, and that was with a Thai girl who was probably just having an off day and whom I did not review.
Hope we can see more appreciative posts to promote positive ambience here. Previously, when some folks tried to show appreciation, some guy accused them of brown nose. I don't understand why some people can be so judgmental of others' intent.
fuck board for crying out loud. If you want a "positive ambience," go relax at a gay bath house and tell the guys how cute their names are and what a positive ambience it is to steam with a bunch of naked guys. Geez! Some of you are starting to make me think I took a wrong turn and walked into the girls bathroom by mistake!
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Now I understand why Mufftime labeled you as a case of NPD. (hint: N stands for Narciss...). A few years ago there was a guy K81944 who called out guys who craved attention with too much time on hand. He must be in the psych profession and diagnosed such guy's childhood trauma. If you need help, look up his post.
Get an education first, then play amateur shrink. Otherwise, you just sound stupid.
OK, I realize that I may be playing into the hands of a jerk craving attention, plus too much time on his hand. So, I won't give him more pleasure, and put him on ignore list.
Yourself on ignore. You're not funny, you're not smart, and you know nothing about the Kgirl world. So why are you here except to lurk and be a peeping tom?
Did someone talking about their feeling and shit?
Wait a minute. I think CIS was talking about "empathy", "caring", and shit. God damn it! I blame that dude on the LA Board who called me "gay". He made me came out of the closet.
Sorry CDL.
Thought I still had balls. I will chill and accumulate the ballsy stuffs again. Had a blast disturbing the peace around here, but I will go back to my home planet soon because my dick wants more blasts. Think I have been saying that often. Once again, I blame that dude for making me come out of my bridge.
I always enjoyed reading posts, especially when insults are flying. Nothing needs to change for me.
Love to see people talking about who they loved to fuck, how to fuck longer, better, harder and smarter.
if it triggers fragrant phrase like "equine flatulence", I'll drink to that. 
Doesn't matter if the bathroom is for guys, gals, pets, beasts or what.
You don't make any noise when you fart. That's typical of homos being on bottom getting their asses stretched. I imagine the farts just whoosh out silently. Always wondered who was the "bottom", you or Sloc.
Come on, L-K, you're making this too easy. I'm embarrassed for you. Lol
The two homos that talk about "board ambience" and compliment other men in their "cute" usernames. Does it get any more girly than that?
vivid details from his gay old days of 1st hand experience. It was meant to be colorful, but sorry I can't see from ignored person. (see no evil, hear no evil)
But one monger must have him in mind when talking about name calling:
Your comebacks just keep getting weaker. The snake-oil thing is pretty much warn out. Can't you come up with something new and original. It makes you look dense to keep repeating the same thing. Same for your butt-buddy, Sloc.
I gave you an opportunity to make a real contribution to the conversation above on this thread when I challenged you to justify your statement that you neither read nor write reviews. That would make sense only if you're NOT a real hobbyist. You kept silent. You have yet to provide a single Kgirl insight here in ANY of your posts from your personal experience that is not parroted from another member. Your sole purpose here seems to be to take up space.
So here's what you do to revitalize things: Have your buddy Sloc come over, bend over and let him give you your morning cup of jizz. If you push back and moan a little to make it good for him, he might give you a reach-around. Then sit down together (well, you might have to stand) and get out a thesaurus and come up with some new names to call me. Its not great, but its a start, and might make the two of you look just a little bit smarter. Maybe . . . . .
The discussion where you said you gave an opportunity is where the conversation should have continued.
I know at first I didn't care to write reviews, but like you mentioned, writing reviews has many benefits for the writer and the community.
I'd like to add a note about bath houses, for those who wish to to avoid a gay activity one in Ktown, I recommend reading reviews first.
ignore list. He kept answering my posts with hope of my response. No, I won't sink that low. See no evil, hear no evil.
When I was a kid, they had these clown-faced punching bags where you knocked it down and it sprung back up with the same stupid grin on its face. L-K is performing this service for me, although some would argue he's more of a piñata because when you whack him a good one, cheap, worthless stuff comes out of his mouth.
I'll speak no evil. Btw, did anyone tell him to speak no evil?
can't get thru that dense skull, so let's try this...
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So more than an hour after I did the post below telling you that if I was REALLY on ignore as you have maintained for several days, I would not have been able to PM you, you put up a screen shot showing that I am ignored at that time? And that's supposed to convince everyone you haven't been lying all along today? I don't think there's anyone here stupid enough to buy that BS. Well, maybe Sloc, but no one else.
I don't know why you keep coming after me when you get crushed every time. But like I said, its therapeutic to have a punching bag that pops back up with that stupid grin. I'm sure after a good rest, you will be back tomorrow with another SPOTY entry for the Kgirl board.
But I don't where to find the guy. Cockroaches hide in the cracks.
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Ivy, who recently left OC and I was fortunate enough to see before she left.
Her pictures do not attract me, but her looks scores are off the chart. Can I afford to miss her?
If they go to OC, they may not stay long.
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If you have someone in "ignore" they can't send you a PM. Guess what? Oops!!!
Why don't you stop all your BS'ing? Gay's okay with me, if that's why you're pretending to be a hobbyist. Just stop trying to convince us you're something you're not.
Holy molly, that Mufftime's wisdom on NPD... Now we know why a guy is so worked up about being ignored. It's the huge EGO, man. So, here's another list for the ego enjoyment.
Are you just a ventriloquist's dummy?
We're of course playing into the craving attention syndrome. So this is my last post here. Recall he bragged about invitation by a Kgirl to visit her parents. Sure, a Kgirl was looking to buy a Brooklyn bridge. LMAO I know he'll continue to stalk me. Notice I never replied any of his post. It reminded me of that sicko who shot Reagan. He kept calling Foster, and never understood what it meant to be IGNORED. Which part of NYAT don't these guys understand?
Of course Mr. NPD will enjoy the last word, because he has too much idle time on his hand, and he'll take any chance to grab attention!!
Wow, all that equine flatulence. Did you smell the bovine, canine & feline types also?
Another example of why you are completely clueless. Yes I went to Korea to meet the family of a girl I was dating. Why is that so unbelievable for you. Lohan recently married an attorney-friend of mine. Do you think he showed up for a session one day and suggest they get married right after the paid fuck? There was a courting period on the outside, which included meeting her family. What a dumb-ass you are. Every time you say something like this, you just make yourself look stupid. Just because YOU haven't been to the space station, do you believe NOBODY has? You're in the bottom two percent of the Kgirl food chain, so HELLO, there's a whole lot you don't know.
You need to lose the psycho-babble shit. Its yesterday's potato salad and is starting to smell. People stop reading your posts because you don't have anything new and original to say, you just parrot the same old shit. The definition of a moron is someone who keeps doing the same thing and expecting it to turn out differently.
Constructive Criticism, which you will ignore: You should be spending this time building credibility. You have yet to post ANYTHING that shows you are a real hobbyist. No reviews, no personal anecdotes, etc. The only things you know about any of the girls is what you read here and in reviews. No personal knowledge = lurker. People are not laughing with you, they're laughing AT you, so time to reinvent yourself as a credible hobbyist. Losing your alias was the only good thing you did so far. You should build on that.
Its always fun to play tit for tat with a clueless guy, but unless you step up your game a little and show you are not a complete moron, I'm going to lose interest pretty fast. Is it any wonder to you, no one wants to be associated with you except the idiot Sloc? There's a reason for that, and a little introspection will tell you why.
I found that the guy responded to yours a dozen times, but you never responded to him. My 10 yr old understands that when people don’t reply, they want to IGNORE him. If he kept pushing, they called that stalking. Wonder what we call such bizarre behavior on this board. Need to get Mufftime's advice for a good psycho lingo. Probably related to NPD...ADHD, OCD, PTSD, ABCD, DDD?
He's a smart guy and knows you can't fix stupid, and when comes to stupid, you're in a class by yourself.
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I find most Kgirls to be attractive, even if junior may disagree. If the girl shows some interest in me, then I will have a good time because I will try harder for her. It's hard for me to know which girl will be a good match. I haven't figured that one out yet, so I never know until I get there.
Since I am a nonchalant guy and most girls can tell I am a nice guy if I smile to them, I am very keen when a girl does not appear to like me within 5 minutes. Once I get over that hump, all that is left for me to do is to let thing grows organically. The more passionate she is, the more likely I will repeat (mind blown).
Although there are a handful of menu items or services I love, I don't really feel like missing anything if we simply enjoy our times together. She does not have to talk a lot, a few genuine smiles would do. She does not have to do a lot of things for me other than just be receptive.
I want to experience the spontaneity. I want to feel natural to be there. Luckily, many girls can make me forget this is a service. I have been in bait and switch situations and still leave feeling satisfied. I have not retreated from any battle with Knation yet. I would blame junior for less than average performance.
Repeat visits, for me, depends mostly upon how the chemistry seems to be between us. If she makes me feel good about the session and she can make it seem that she has enjoyed it as well, then a repeat visit may be in order. Reading the reviews of Cami, it sounds like if she isn't one who can, or chooses to, overcome a lack of chemistry with a client. So, if she feels it, great performance, if not, indifferent performance. Hence, a big disparity in performance scores with the low scores usually accompanied by remarks of her being mechanical or just going through the motions.
It's a close call, sometimes, whether it is looks or performance in reviews that makes me want to meet someone for the first time. However, performance in reviews weighs heavy. And, you don't always know what a person really looks like until you meet in person. Occasionally, photos didn't do it for me, but the reviews pushed me to make an appointment and I was blown away in the looks dept.
As for repeating? She has to be very attractive to me, though it is not always 100% physical attractiveness. It's the overall mix of performance and attitude that seduces. When I leave having had a great time and liking the person, then I want to see her again. It's something the comes, genuinely, from within or even conjured. Aside from all that, my repeats happen because I know that I already like someone (and maybe we both like each other), so why venture off when I know that I won't be disappointed.