(This is EC/NOVA)
Yo WTF is going on with all these openly BBFS girls coming around lately? I had to cancel an appointment with one girl this week bc I read in her reviews about guys CIP'ing her nonstop, I went to search for a substitute, her reviews said the same shit, the Jgirl at MP I wanted to see obviously does BBFS bc it's MP, ANOTHER kgirl is advertised as special service and her reviews talk about greek and CIP, the one GFE girl I wanted to see was booked solid the rest of her stay. WTF are my options these days as a guy that just wants a GFE girl that doesn't BBFS every guy that walks in the door? Do I just start being way more selective and see way less girls? I mean yeah I would technically be saving money I suppose but I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT KGIRLS GODDAMIT. BTW, I should state in advance it's not so much the HIV risk or whatever, I know what the statistics are. And I don't really do DATY ever. The bbfs shit just skeeves me out, honestly. That's all. Thanks guys, your bro, SunnyI guess that it is the pressure of the market. The more disturbing is the MFM and some girls offering MMFM: Call me old school but that is just very nutty.
money grab . . . . see two or three guys during the same hour and each one pays the full one-hour price. An easy grand for one hour's work. Not to mention that a bareback MMFM session is a rare opportunity for each participant to catch three or four different STI's during the same session. Lol
I'm totally on board with FMF duos, but I never understood why guys wanted to bring their buddy along when fucking a woman. If a guy is just looking to rub his dick against another dick, leave the girl out of it and save your money, right? There are guys who will probably do it for free. Lol
I am all for MFM if the female is REALLY REALLY HOT but when I need to pop a viagra and Cialis to fuck a middle aged Korean woman who is 6 in look with another dick stirring at me, that is no fun.
BBFS until around 2018 was more or less offered under the table however North Koreans started to take over the CA scene and they offered BBFS openly to gain more market shares. Now most K girls feel they have to include that option to be competitive even outside the CA market. Money cause certain behaviors and BBFS explosion is not an exception.
The funny shit is when these bbfs guys talk about daty‘’ing a busy bbfs kgirl and say they were dining on HER juices. lol. Those aren’t HER juices., they’re HIS juices!
HAHA yep. Too funny. Same thought pops into my head every time I read a review and the guy is like “Entered her in mish, she was already wet...” like yeah ok bro 😂
I think you'll find that even your coveted "GFE" girls' profiles are filled with reviews where guys say the same thing. They confuse a professional woman who has prepared her pussy as being "wet" the same as a bbfs guy. It's sad really. Especially with the MP girls, you don't know when the last guy was there who was willing to fork over the 2.0 charge, so I think it's more likely you're getting at least an hour since she got cip'd.
I've had girls where we stopped using lube after the first 5 or ten minutes because she had taken over naturally. Now, that is nice.
lmfao you are making fun of other guys than saying dumb stuff like "stopped using lube after 5 minutes" haha
Well, the booker system is very efficient and most of these K-Girls are raw dogging more guys bareback than most active porn stars.
If you think about it, the # of raw dicks that these BBFS girls have is beyond imagination and grasp. That is why that over 90% of the BBFS girls are mentally screwed up.
Does raw dick make them crazier than covered dick? Lol
It is a different level! I have got closed to 4 or 5 GFE girls and three BBFS girls. Not a scientific study or enough sample to say that if that general blank statement that the GFE girls are indeed less crazier than BBFS girls is true but in my small sample, I noticed that the BBFS girls are definitely more bitter, broken and resentful of guys than the GFE girls. One of them told me once: "I hate doing it bare and I always think that I am going to die from STD". It fucked my mood up when she said that to me and I just did not want see her after that and I did not. They are human bro with different level of threshold of breaking point.!
To think of it, they are giving up everything than 99% of other girls won't.
They are human and have every right to be concerned about STDs from BBFS. I often wonder HOW they suddenly got to this place, pressured to do that??? Who told them PSE or else? I don't want to support that BBFS culture nor be exposed to that STD risk either, so GFE only for me
I don't encourage them to do BBFS or GFE or to be an escort! All these women choose their path of lives long before you and I met them! Unfortunately for them, who they are and where they are is a series of decisions that they made themselves on their own course of their life.
We are just a transient passenger in their life and sometimes we get off that bus stop.
so many Kgirls who want to come here that they are also being recruited on the "condition" that they offer BBFS. This is what a GFE girl I see told me about her new roommate last month. In other words, at least some of these girls who need money are only consenting to offer BBFS in order to get a place to work in the US.
I agree with you that this has to be weighing heavily on these girls' minds, and in that case, how much fun do you really think they are having fucking the customers BB.
There are different price levels of salons in Seoul, and as might be expected, the most expensive ones get the DDG girls and these girls have no problem getting a place to work in the US when they "age-out" of salon work, and can hold the line at GFE service only. However, the less pretty girls that work in the lower-priced salons eventually age-out, too, but they are the ones who can come here only if they are willing to do the BBFS sessions. This is why many BBFS reviews state that the girl was "just going through the motions" and the rest of the service was below average. In other words, they don't want to be here doing BBFS, but they are desperate for money.
Hm, I just saw this. How did this slip by. LOL.
Does that mean that less than 90% of, what is it, 89% of GFE-only chicks are mentally screwed up? Aren't those girls sucking every guy's body fluids straight from his dick... and mouth?! And don't they, like, lick your asshole and stuff?
I'm just sayin.' I seriously doubt our girls' numbers are all that much higher (but higher) than for the general population. Even if they were, I've never seen even a correlation between reasonable-risk takers (racing, skiing, bbfs) and being mentally screwed up. It may be, but I haven't seen it.
I'm just grateful for prep.
"the one GFE girl I wanted to see was booked solid the rest of her stay." which I take to mean a) you checked and she is never indicated to have offered BB to anyone and b) a lot of people here are more interested in the GFE than the BBFS girls. That perhaps means more agencies might try filtering who they bring in.
But I must say, I've very seldom heard of any of the touring girls being book in advance for their remaining stay, unless you're talking about her leaving in a day or two.
Do you ever take into consideration that a GFE Kgirl might have a BF or goes out and parties to get down with a one night stand?
What about the special customer that sees her at 9am when she starts at 11?
Or a regular customer that just keeps laying down $100's until she says yes!
A lot of situations can come into play here.
So, does 'what you don't know won't hurt/bother you' or 'ignorance is bliss', come into play here, too?
All these factors in the Kgirl scene, that has all kind of risks?
They can't all be BBFS, I know in LA there are a lot of BBFS and a good amount of, advertised, GFE Kgirls to choose from.
Maybe try for the Kgirls first day back from time off and her first session.
By the way, do you participate in P2P slides without a cover?
What they do on their own time is none of my business and yes obviously most of them have BF's or husbands they go bare with.
I don't want another guys' cum dripping down her leg when she's seeing me that's all. Don't want to use another guys' cum as lube.
As a paying customer, am I being unreasonable in feeling that way? I don't think so.
of your business except your hour or whatever time you have.
You saw cum dripping down a Kgirls leg, fuck I'd walk on that^^!
So, as long as she wipes it off before you get through the door it's ok?
Like I said, 'ignorance is bliss'.
No, I'm not calling you ignorant.
It's just a saying that I believe applies.
No, not unreasonable at all, but neither are the girls.
You want what you want, and they want what they want.
And there has to be a meeting point.
You post a lot and a lot of your posts are useful, but this isn't one of them. Us non bbfs guys are just trying to reduce and mitigate the amount of sti risk and semen we are eating and coming into contact with.
Your post is just more of the why wear a seatbelt when there are people who die/are injured in accidents wearing seatbelts which even my 5 year old knows better than.
Do better.
Badger was not telling anyone to forget the issue but rather I think pointing out the general tone of Sunny's post was kind of binary -- how do I find safe providers than don't do BB. He just pointed out some of the problem with that approach.
I think Sunny cleared up his concern -- not really a never does BB but was really just a I don't want to see those that offer it to any paying customer. BTW, you did see that Sunny also distanced himself from the whole STI/STD aspect here so you might need to widen that no BBFS tent of your to allow additional views than yours.
My no-bbfs tent is wide which is why i included mitigating sti risk. maybe you expressed your thought backwards?
Can we finally get a grip on the concept of safER? Nobody who is fucking the highest volume p4p there is (kgirls) is stupid enough to think any part of it is actually safe. We are just trying to be safER, and trying to eat LESS male fluid etc...
where you understand the point I was making.
Thanks!
you see it like that.
I think people can get info out of any post or review.
You totally don't understand my post if you think "I'm an all BBFS Monger!
We're all trying to have reduced risks.
I have my own way to Monger, I'm sure other guys do similar things too, but I'm pretty sure the only semen I come in contact with is mine.
And that's very limited, 'cause things do get wild^^!
I didn't say anything about seatbelts!
BTW, I wear mine all the time.
I never said I was for or against BBFS!
To simplify it, live and let live!
Mongers have the freedom to make their own choices and sometimes you make a choice with what you have to work with!
In what world is a GFE girl with a BF or husband the same as one openly rawdogging every customer? Nuance. It's not a hard concept to grasp.
mind the cum if it's not paid for?
As for grasping, it shouldn't matter what the guy's title is, BF, lover, one night stand!
When they cum inside, it's all the same, IMO!
Seriously? It's a question of much cum they're receiving inside of them. How could 1 or 2 "special" partners equal being openly BBFS?
I agree it's quantity and recency that's concerning to me. That's why when I see KGirls I shoot for the first appointment of the day so at least in my mind they're freshly showered and made up and likely haven't taken a cip load for a few hours. And I never phrase my request as asking for the first appointment; rather I ask for a nooner like I'm seeing them on my lunch hour. In Vegas that's never a busy time so it usually works. A related benefit: they rarely have a following appointment so time isn't rushed.
Is that a concern about STIs or is that really just about the number of guys that might have BB with her AND cum inside (CIP is not always on the table I don't think).
If the latter, do you think these girls stand on their head between sessions to be sure to it all in for the next guy? What do you think they are doing in the shower after the session when they generally kick the customer out and finish up alone?
I won't dispute the "gross, I don't need to be the last guy in the train" feeling there but really. I think this is more about a fear and imagination than the reality. Then again, I don't think I've actually experienced it so it's more a supposition on my part.
True, CIP is not always on the table. Even when it is, if you can believe reviews, at least half the guys doing it raw choose NOT to CIP, instead opting for her mouth, as a prominent example. Whether it's more than half isn't important, it's that it occurs frequently and it changes anybody's equation about how many loads of cum has she taken CIP.
I went down on a k-girl's pussy last night. Only because of all the hubbub here lately about BBFS, I thought about whether I was going to taste some salty cum. That lasted all of about a millisecond and I proceeded to licking her holes and clit. She was awesome. She's a Sweet Angels girl (review pending).
in her mouth, it's most often because the girl allows BB fucking but NOT CIP. I can't remember the last time I read a review where the guy said he could have CIP'd and didn't, but they will often use the misleading phrase, that, "I "chose" to finish in her mouth." That's bullshit, they "chose" it because they would get blocked if they unloaded inside after she told them not to. With that said, there are SOME guys who go flaccid after some strenuous fucking, and these guys end up CIM instead of CIP, even though CIP is on the table. You don't have to be completely hard to get your load sucked out by a Kgirl. A friend told me. Lol
You can't say that! It's utter BS. LMAO😂😂 Jesus, what is it with you guys talking like you can actually know what you're saying you know when you don't have anything to back it up? WTF! You don't know why they went non-CIP.
I, personally, me... I CIP less than half the time during BBFS when CIP is on the table (not incl. C-org girls for whatever reason; 9 out of 10 they're CIP'd). Even though I keep telling myself that giving away control over my O is not a good idea, I keep doing it. It almost happened again last night while I was getting a GREAT BJ and DT. She started tickling my nipples, which would have sent me over the edge except that I stopped her (she had a look like, "what'd I do wrong?") and went back to S-MISH for the finish.
First time talking to cdl, bro?
He has held a candle for each and every monger who's fucked a bbfs kgirl (even though he claims he hasn't knowingly fucked bbfs girls even though I remember his reviews for kga in the bay area which was fully and completely bbfs all the way back in 2018) and he's gonna tell you how other mongers think and what they do when they fuck a bbfs kgirl. Completely and totally not hearsay.
who have been in SoCal for years that used to be GFE and are now BBFS. I don't see them as a customer anymore, but we are still friends, socialize on the outside, and text whenever one or the other have something to ask about. I know what is going on because the Kgirls I know talk to me and tell me, and my post is what they told me. To answer your question, THIS is how I can actually know what is going on in Kgirl sessions. You've been here what, nearly 4 months now? Do you see the irony in a newbie telling me what I know and don't know? Lol
Don't worry, I don't ask them who their customers are or which ones CIM because they lost their erection. Lol
Right off the bat I wished my reply went into the hopper where I could get it deleted -- because I didn't/don't care enough to post it... your reply doesn't surprise me. This dude be so predictable.
How ironic: this one went into the hopper. LOL!😭
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I've had this question for months: We can't talk about this in any rational way if we don't know what percentage of guys opt for the $200 BBFS EC upcharge out of how many guys total (i.e., how many bbfs/girl/day). I've noticed that on the West Coast, and even at some NYC agencies, it's a much more reasonable 100, which I think would tit the table and put GFE on the short end.
Bottom line, we don't know how many guys are bbfs'ing a girl on any day to know if it's mostly back to back, or every other, or just twice a day? I think it would make a difference to a lot of guys on the fence about it.
dense as you!
To be crude, so you get it, a creampie is a creampie is a creampie!
So, just so I understand this, you don't care if it's not paid for?
Badger, nobody is this stupid. Stop playing dumb.
stupid 'n' dumb, well according to some people on the boards when you start calling posters names you've lost the argument.
The only thing is, I'm not arguing, just giving my POV/opinion!
I'm just pointing out risks that, IMO, are being ignored.
The game is risky, so play it the best way for you.
And, BTW, your way isn't the end all for everyone.
I question the IQ of people who make this argument. Badger48, you seriously don't understand the difference in risk level between occasional CIP from a lover vs CIP from 10X unknown mongers per day who are CIP'ing every provider they see?
At this point, you're just arguing for the sake of arguing and pushing BBFS into this market.
Even uneducated mongers in third world countries have more sense than this.
OP, please keep up what you're doing. Quite a few of us here who're trying to let the providers know we're only supporting GFE only girls.
Or is it that you don't read the whole post or have selective memory on other posts?
Talk about not understanding risk level, I include all the men a girl might see!
You seem to think it's ok if the guy has a title, BF or special client!
I am a COVERED Monger! Said this many times!
I am neither for nor against BBFS!
I say let the individual person have the freedom to make their own choices!
One CIP or 10, IMO, it still ain't yours!
One diseased CIP is worse than 10 clean CIP's!
And come up with some new material, it's repetitive and tired!
Take it to the board for new guys, we've heard it all before!
How's your campaign going with you crying/sniveling to the Bookers?
It's gotta' be 70 or 80 % BBFS Kgirls on the sites!
I have my rotation and only check out maybe two new GFE Kgirls a month, so all the BBFS girls out there don't really affect me!
And like I said up top, in case you forgot or didn't read it, I go COVERED!
You have posted all this before, once is enough for me, but you just have to keep throwing it out there!
Why not take all that energy and watch/worry about your own ass!
If you are any kind of gentleman, PLEASE don't reply!
Thanks in advance for showing some class!
+1. The horse is already dead. Stop beating the poor animal.
Like with anything where you keep a proverbial iron curtain on for a while and then yank it off, things blow up.
Bbfs kgirls are the majority here in the bay nowadays for a while now..... and Nova orgs seemed to resist and prohibit open bb until recently. Even girls who were bb elsewhere were cfs in your area. Now you're experiencing a bbfs boom where the lid got blown off.
I don't think waiting out is changing anything. Bb is there to stay as it enables girls to make more money. You can try to limit yourself to cfs gals, however I suspect most in your area will see both cfs and bb girls. Just be prepared to get a zpack when shit hits the fan in the form of std.
I'll say this tho. I'll bet anything that there were girls you saw as cfs in nova who were getting pied by many customers in LA, Vegas or the bay just a few days back before they traveled to NoVa. It is what it is.
Good to see you posting.
The few GFE girls who are good looking and young with decent service are quite busy. Are they 100% CFS? Maybe not but odds are much much better. I play the odds at cards too. This bbfs shit is crazy. Like the other guy said they get more bbfs dick than porn stars. I hope the market wises up and we get more GFE gals.
Just the opposite in Vegas. The only 'pure' cfs KGirl I know is Leah [TER ID: 355319] and she always complains that she gets virtually no business while the bbfs girls are well-booked. Pretty sure she's in Tysons right now based on reviews.
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As to the other issues discussed, STIs are a risk of the hobby. I assume every lady I see does bbfs with someone and does cim. I assume that going in. I try to mitigate is by (1) doing early afternoon appointments where it's likely that no one has cream-pied her before me since she got made up and showered, and (2) making sure I don't have any sores on my cock. But I also know that there's a risk that her bf made a deposit that morning too and that I could leave needing antibiotics. When I weigh that risk with the benefits of service/convenience/age/beauty/cost I'm always willing to take the risk.
All anyone can do is what they think is the best way to Monger with the least number of risks.
Why worry, bitch, piss 'n' moan?
It doesn't help, 알아!
All that will happen is a $300 + experience will be wasted, IMO.
We gotta turn this trend around. Let your booker know that you want to only see gfe girls. Girls need to know that they will have enough customers if they remain non-BBFS. There are a few that are GFE only and I'm limiting myself to them.
Even uneducated people in third world countries cover up. Incredible that idiots in the US want to go BB with a working girl.
And to all those guys on this forum who love dipping their cocks and tongues in other men's cum, I'm not gonna respond to your 'data' or 'logic' about 'safety' and 'statistics'.
PSA: Play safe everyone
I generally have only tried to see GFE only as im afraid about the higher risk involved. With that said I have moved into seeing girls that are smoking hot and are confirmed BBFS ladies. I still usually wear a cover. Lately Ive been tempted where a girl is just P2P and rubbing it up and down and just pushes it in without asking. I finally just let it happen. not gonna lie it felt awesome. My question is that it seems a few gals are taking it upon themselves to slide you in BB. I feel once it goes in bare Im obligated to pay the upcharge whether I initiated it or not. What are your feelings on this? Ive now left 3 sessions spending more than I planned only because I didnt wanna assume she just did if for me because Im special LOL.... And I always hate getting taken by ROBs and dont want to be one. It seems this might be the new tactic to make more money.
That is something that should be agreed in advance. However, if they do that and you don't stop right there and say I didn't ask and am not interested in paying an up charge then you're on the hook. If they keep going after than then no need to pay any additional fees.
common sense reply, Jensen!
Just say no!
...he didn't ask for BBFS and will not pay the upcharge, he has to actually pull out and insist on a cover. If he keeps going, he risks being BL'ed, disclaimer or no disclaimer because the K-girl may complain to the booker that he didn't pay the upcharge despite getting BBFS.
I don't think he has to pull out. If he says right away that he's not paying the upcharge, and she keeps on going, she's giving it away. If she's not giving it away, and she's actually try to scam him, she's playing a dangerous game.
My personal perspective, IRL: I convinced a no-BB girl to give it to me for 100, but no CIP. When I was getting ready to cum, I told her she needed to get off. She stopped and asked for more money for CIP, which I declined. So, two more times she edged me like this, each time asking for more money. Finally she just went for broke with me saying one last time, I'm gonna cuuhhhh. LMAO. I saw her about another five times.
(While getting dressed, she asked me for the add'l upcharge again, and I asked her if she wanted repeat business or the onetime charge? She liked that.)
so that I don't misunderstand your terminology. You said, "My personal perspective, IRL:" . . . . That generally means "in real life" with a civvie girl, not a provider, and I'm confused why a civvie girl would ask for money for CIP, especially after you have already started fucking. What am I missing here?
OK, I hope this works: No, mongering is my IRL, but, obviously, it never occurred to me it was confusing. The "perspective" wording is just weird... "In my experience" would have been more direct.
In this case, I'm definitely with a hooker... a very good hooker. Every time she stopped pre-nut, she began by teasing me, pinching my nose, taunting me by repeating "yes, you want cum in my pussy," followed by a mock-devious laugh.
perfectly clear. I didn't think you were the kind of guy who would pay civvie girls for sex. Just wanted to be sure. Lol
damn thats hot! lol
OK, I hope this works: No, mongering is my IRL, but, obviously, it never occurred to me it was confusing. The "perspective" wording is just weird... "In my experience" would have been more direct.
In this case, I'm definitely with a hooker... a very good hooker. Every time she stopped pre-nut, she began by teasing me, pinching my nose, taunting me by repeating "yes, you want cum in my pussy," followed by a mock-devious laugh. She's the only one I've ever met who I know has a husband (and child, both in China).
This is weird. Not your reply, I enjoyed that. It's the last sentence in your quote... I know I said that about her family, but it doesn't appear in the original comment. TF, how'd that happen? LOL.
Yeah thats why I always bring extra money just in case. The last thing I need is to be black listed. Gotta start bringing my own extra large Skyn covers
I'm not exactly sure how he is suppose to easily do that with the girl sitting on top of him. On the other hand, disengaging would be very simple for the kgirl.
Seems like the guy asking is west coast and I know experiences and behaviors can differ between here in DMV and there. That said, I've never seen any K-Girl in over 10 years that ever acted that way. I suspect this is just another case of BPS spreading his hatred of the K-Girl scene, but here's hs chance to prove that incorrect.
Which K-GIrls have you ever seen that acted in such petty ways, stayed around with the agencies and got someone BLed for it. Moreover, given the suggestion they would act in such a way, why have they not simply started blackmailing the non BB clients with that threat of blacklisting from the agency by claiming BB was given even though it was not requested in scheduling?
Have any of you west coast guys ever had something like that happen, either the initiation of BB when you didn't plan on it and said you won't pay the fee but the girl kept going only to then complain about no fee or tried to blackmail you, the covered client, into paying a fee for something you never asked of or got?
Thats weird since Ive never had a kgirl slip it in bare without asking and then expected an upcharge after. The ones that do usually ask you first. The non upcharge ones just slip it in without asking lol.
I think the way ca-kdolls addresses it is pretty clear. The girls are all GFE unless their ad says there is a PSE "OPTION." An option implies an upcharge. That doesn't mean that there are NOT GFE girls selectively allowing BBFS, but in my own experience, those that are under the radar do not generally offer CIP, even if offered an upcharge. The absence of CIP does not help from an STI perspective, but it sure can assuage the concerns of those customers who want DATY as part of their experience.
Other sites often say girls are GFE/PSE. For most DATY afficionados, this provides little incentive, and is a worthless gesture. Any girl will let you wear a cover if you want to. They don't need to reassure of that fact. If a girl openly advertises BBFS, you have to assume it's all the way to CIP, and assess your risk accordingly, whether it's concerns about STI's or just the gross-out factor.
Some guys will lick a girl’s pussy and get germs and believe it’s ok as long as she is certified GFE. Or if the girl isn’t pure GFE, the guy may get a little more from the previous guy(s) on his tongue.
Sperm has more protein (DNA). Spit has a little DNA but lots of germs. Of course when it’s all mixed around the pussy hole, it’s just a good old fashion party.
During the dark ages when a knight wanted to keep other knights’ dicks out of his prize dame, he would place a chastity belt on her before leaving on a trip. Perhaps bookers can promise the prize GFE KGirl wear a chastity belt for a slight up charge. Ha Ha!
I’ve always said (in my reviews) I think GFE Kgirls are hotter looking and more skilled. I’ve also said I would pay more for GFE and even pay more if she didn’t rim asses. If I keep adding requirements, the fee will go up and up and up. But in the end it’s still just an illusion. These girls obviously perform for money. You just have to sort it out in your head, and if you need complete safety in sex, get a handjob or stick your covered dick in a glory hole for a BJ. No kissing. No DATY.
Of course, then it’s no fun. It’s better to let the little head have a little fun once in awhile. Cipro seems to work for most pussy germs. Viruses? Hell, if you’re reading this post you survived a viral pandemic which boxed over 1% of the population. Have a little fun!.
Haha yeah I am surprised at all the CIP hysteria when most GFE girls are eating buttholes all day and taking CIM all day. There's a reason most sessions in my market start with a shower and mouthwash lol
search filter for rimming / gives-no from the drop downs and include ONLY the girls who do not offer rimming. This way, you are not tongue-kissing a girl that tastes like shit. Unfortunately, mouthwash often wears off before shit. Lol
That will eliminate most Korgs in my area. It seems to be one thing guys like best
Thinking along the same lines lmao... just the second paragraph:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/re--of-partners-34800?page=1
If you read Rhee reviews and websites you will know what level of service they offer. Also it is not a new thing I have had it since 1993 and by white ladies as well as Asian if you treat them right like a lady the menu expands . You can also opt to use a condom anytime you choose. On Redbook there was a line for whether a lady provided bbfs or not.
You know what, though? I am SO very glad that the guessing is almost completely removed from the game now. Relying on my wits -- which proved very successful, similar to your experience -- got tiring for a me where bbfs was really all I was looking for. And the way they would lock down on the STD talk, while sometimes valid, sometimes was over the top lecturing. Whether agency or BB or CL or whatever, it was a challenge I didn't look forward to. But when they said yes, that was a great feeling.