At her house, condo or house. Friendlier an cozier than a hotel.

Incall at a hotel.

Due to discretion concerns, I prefer outcall although I have yet to take advantage of a an incall session.

Safe location or nice hotel

Prefer private condo/house to hotels, but sometimes the private residences are too distracting. I don't mind the place being a little messy as long as it feels clean. If there's a little dog barking or running around it kills the mood.