Great question. She is definitely for real and is a fantastic provider with a full menu. One of the best performers you will ever meet. But, as you point out, she is weird and can be a bit flaky. What you experienced is not uncommon. I visit her occasionally and have never been disappointed. But, I'm using my alias because I don't want her to stop seeing me. If you finally meet her, it is worth the effort and she will be much more consistent and less weird at setting up appointments.