My SO and I have been trying for awhile now to find a couple friendly provider. Don't get me wrong, we have found a few and a couple that have been extremely nice but something always gets in the way. We are busy people so we are very spontaneous and know that just that could be a big factor. We are very honest and open but the ones that have shown interest never even follow up for a background check to prevent any concerns she would have. Any other couples out there feel the same way? Or are we doing something wrong?