In my honest civilian-user opinion (i've used a few of these sites in the past), it's not worth the time or hassle. if you're just trying to get laid, paying for it is a far less stressful endeavor, and the time you save trying to get women to pay attention to you on dating/hook-up sites can be better spent elsewhere
Got two terrible lays on Ashley Madison. Match.com guys were verbally condescending and/or abusive. (Snobs) and hit or miss in the lay department. Bar pick ups are fun, but again, hit or miss depending on when you go.
I didn't even put a picture up back in the day on CL, and I would get a hundred replies with selfies of guys with the exact stats I was looking for, (doing what I told them to do in the selfie) and I could go through my emails of hot men and select a few.
I did make them talk on the phone, etc, but I didn't charge for it, so I didn't have to worry about LE or anything. It was strictly hook up. There are lots of horny hot men, broke in need of some lovin out there lol.
I no longer do it because looking back, I'm VERY lucky I didn't get killed.lol Through screening nowadays, I don't mess with fate anymore.
I still drool over the memories of a guy on CL. Best lay of my entire life up to that point. (Now I obviously can't say that.) A total douchebag at heart, which was perfect for a hook up... but almost like a professional companion visit. It was like going to a 2 hour Incall with a real 10/10.
Anyway.
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