in southern Connecticut

If I could offer you help, I would; but I just don't know of any ladies in the southern CT area.  
Did you scan through the New England boards?  
Use the search feature to search for ladies in your area?  

I hope you find someone.  And don't let the trolls bother you.

thank you for the reply. The NE boards don't have a lot going, as NYC gets more of the attention. and, gievn this is the ISO site, a short inquiry did seem to be fair.