find at all.  Most girls aren't even going to bring up using drugs unless they already know you are ok with it, and if they do, all you have to do is say "hey I'm not into that" and they wont do it.

It would be sort of like if you were doing some short-term contract work for someone and before you started you asked if it was ok if you smoked a little weed, shot a little heroin, snorted a little coke, smoked some meth, and drank a few beers while you were working and your boss said no that's not ok.  

Happy hunting and good luck - there's plenty of girls out there that fit the bill for what you are looking for!

but the women I know in this business don't do drugs and never would. All you have to do is go to your local board and I'm sure there are plenty of nice providers to choose from.

As many of them have real life careers, they can ill afford to get messed up with drugs.  If you just want to spend time with them, be prepared to pay for their time.  Most are not going to have dinner or a drink, just so you can check them out, unless you pay.  Simple as that.

Couple things also come to mind.  Number one, what websites are looking at to find providers?  Number two, where are you?  It's kinda hard to help you out w/o some basic info like that.  BTW, any hobbyist worth his salt is going to do his own screening on providers he is interested in, it's called research.  From what little you said, I can't help but wonder how much you are doing.  If you aren't getting quality providers, it doesn't sound like your 'screening' is very thorough.  Not trying to insult you, just making an observation.

Swim

ok sorry i didnt respond for a while, my computer took a crap on me and i just got it working, im in san fransisco bay area, and ive looked on eros and on cityvibe, my problem is that i havent done this in about 4 years and all my favorite ladys appear to have moved on