For some reason, I have been unable to arrange an MFM session, and it seems that the problem isn't in finding a provider who is willing and able, but, instead, finding another hobbyist who will actually go thru with it. I know of several providers in my area who will participate; they know me and my style, and would feel comfortable with me.  What I am hoping for is to find another hobbyist who shares my desire for this, and who may, if requested by a provider, first have an individual session with that provider, in order to establish a comfort level.

I am also interested in a provider who could arrange this, but I have some specific criteria in mind that the provider must have.  I've tried arranging this through providers, but they generally seem unwilling to actually bring it up with other clients.

However, I prefer for me and this other hobbyist to be able to select the provider.  I would rather approach providers and see if they would be willing to participate, than have the providers contact me.  (I am posting under an alias because I see some providers on a regular basis who would be willing, but who I do not want to have an MFM with, and I'd rather not get into the whole thing with them.  But as I said, I am open to a provider who could arrange this.,,it's just not my preference.

PS - I am strictly hetero - .not seeking a bi experience.

I am Chicago based, but am willing to travel.