Are you looking for a provider with experience?

I'm looking for a provider in the NYC area who is OK dealing with a first timer.

Check out my website: I have a section about "newbies." I will be visiting NYC this week and have a feisty friend with me as well.

Everyone has to start somewhere!

I guess so. Just looking for someone who is not at all picky on what type of person they are with.

Pretty much what I am looking for is an in-call with a provider that is in no way picky about who she sees.

All she can do is say no.  It is not like your asking out someone you know, that you have to see every day.  I have yet to be turned down.  But have had a few get close and then they stop answering the phone so time wasted.  You don't have to tell them it is your first time unless they ask.