I have visited Checkmate (https://www.checkmatenyc.com/) several times and had lots of fun.  Check there website for couples only evenings.  They are located in midtown.  Good luck.

Checkmate can be good, they just did a series of updates inside. You MUST email them in advance to RSVP. You also have to send photos of you and your partner. They seem to be a little more aware of "pros" there so if you bring a lucky lady, get to know her first and that she is ok with all of the above.