Joking around with my better half and mentioned the idea of a threesome and got a more positive reaction than I expected. Further discussion required but interested in any advice folks have on this and also looking for an NYC based provider to potentially join is.
The scenario we joked started with my wife blindfolded and tied up, the hotel room door opens and closes, a mystery stranger joins us, and the teasing begins.. (To be clear this will all be consensual and not a surprise for my wife!!) public responses appreciated as I don't have PM access.
My wife and I both have professional degrees and professional careers and we have learned that we love the company of a an equally professional provider occasionally. We started the same way you and your better half did, by joking around and asking "What if". I can only tell you what works for us. What works best for us, especially when we first started, was making sure my wife was totally comfortable with the provider and she never felt left out in any aspect, from the initial arrangement of the meeting throughout the entire course of the evening. We have set boundaries for what is allowed and what is not allowed. Finding a provider who has a lot of experience with couples and who will respect your boundaries. Most importantly is to make this an enhancement to your relationship and not a replacement.
My wife and I both have professional degrees and professional careers and we have learned that we love the company of a an equally professional provider occasionally. We started the same way you and your better half did, by joking around and asking "What if". I can only tell you what works for us. What works best for us, especially when we first started, was making sure my wife was totally comfortable with the provider and she never felt left out in any aspect, from the initial arrangement of the meeting throughout the entire course of the evening. We have set boundaries for what is allowed and what is not allowed. Finding a provider who has a lot of experience with couples and who will respect your boundaries. Most importantly is to make this an enhancement to your relationship and not a replacement.
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