For the last 2 days there has been a thread going that got continually worse, and it got to the point where a provider totally crossed the professional line!  She got herself in to a totally defensive position, and started spraying her venom, like any cornered pit viper would do!
Now, for the many who know me personally, my total disgust for my wife is NOT anything new.  However, to have a provider splatter a PERSONAL conversation from a PRIVATE phonecall on a public board, is WAY beyond comprehension!
This conversation took place over a year ago!Did she record it?  Even though all the rest of the story she got wrong....she did a good job remembering what was said.  
Every other lady I have ever met has been totally professional, and most providers will use your info for screening, then lose it.  Obviously there is a subculture of bottom feeders that records everything on a rolodex for later use.
So before making any calls to any provider, ask yourself if you think you can trust her with the info you are giving.  IF for some reason you have some interest in seeing the provider from that thread, after seeing what she is capable of, it's your own fault if this happens to you at some time!  I will close this by saying that this provider painted a VERY vivid, and accurate self portrait on that thread.  She showed her true self in technicolor!!!!  A REAL CLASS ACT!!!

I was fortunate enough to meet you last weekend. You're an absolute gentlemen and in no way should you have been treated in such a way. I'm sorry this has happened to you....:,(


Keep your head "UP"
Danielle

Well: As my irish mum would say it wouldn't be a great st paddy's day without a good fight and a few bloody noses:

reminder St Joes day is thursday: have a drink to the pollacks and italians;

and lets ALL BE CAREFUL OUT THERE; as be thankful we live in the USA as freedom isn't FREE!!!!!!

This is very good and very useful information.  I have had my opinions about this provider and her white knight for over a year.  They are even discussed on other boards. At the time, we handled it all backchannel, but true colors were certainly in full bloom.

Although I am sad that this was brought out so publicly, I think the realization of who we are dealing with far outweighs the negativity generated here.

Up, you and I have had our differences, but I totally agree with everything you, Mel and Jimmy are saying.  Thanks for being the voices of the board.  This all needed to be brought out.

...is the operative word here. This board and this hobby are not a lonely hearts club. The women here are in business, and we are their customers. Professional goes both ways, and keeping some distance is part of the equation. I don't really want to know my provider's personal life, and I'm sure they really don't care about mine.

Being professional and keeping a professional distance is the best way to avoid these uncomfortable moments.

It seems as though everything that was said to, or about this lady was either a "lie", or "someone did not comprehend" what they were replying to!
Did you people partake in a statewide, St. Patrick's day conspiracy here?  Did she not have the health and welfare of the poor guy on his death bed as her primary concern?  She said she was "nice" to him! (while demanding her cash)
You people should be ashamed, picking on someone who has never done anything to promote any ill will toward anyone!!!!!

OK class.....today's lesson on sarcasm is over!  Your papers are due next week at this time!

….w/the wicked witch from the hills, but was lucky, I think.  She stated sending me unsolicited schmoozing pm’s, so like a dumbshit newbie that I was, I started answering, big mistake.   She likes to contact top 10 posters when she comes into your market. On her announced tour to Orlando after the Xmas holidays about 14 she months ago I had to cancel a date scheduled w/her due to a business meeting out of town that came up. I emailed her “8 days” before the date to apologize & cancel, maybe next time she came through. Evidently I was the third in Orlando who had contacted her to cancel, with those guys canceling ahead of me. Well, did she scream bloody murder & the sky came crashing down. I received pm’s from her boyfriend, & then she blasted the entire city of Orlando on the board, the thread was taken down, then one of her nimrod Tampa minions & her boyfriend started blasting away, threatening to “OUT” us for contacting her more than 1 week ahead to cancel, ….that thread was taken down to.

This provider does seem  have a reckless vengeful pattern boys, so watch out for her,  her boyfriend & minions who have contacted & threaten to “out you” to others in the past…..lots of hot providers to chose from (that are true model material btw) out there & drama free…
Be careful out there.

So yea, what up said, word to the wise, pay attention.

... at one time I thought I may enjoy this provider & she did contact me as you say when Atlanta was on her calendar.  After that thread, which I avoided since I had no dog in the hunt,(not that that ALWAYS stops me, lol) any desire of that kind is gone.

Thank-you for this thread and message.




RJ

I for one will definitely remember to post this and the other thread to remind anyone in Atlanta about this provider unprofessional behavior if she ever decides to tour Atlanta.

I got as large a taste as to who she really is as I would like to. As many providers will attest, TER members have long memories. This memory will not fade for a long, long time.

If a single hobbyist is warned away from this woman because of her words yesterday, at least some good will have come from it.

Shit!! You mean those flattering IM's I was getting were just a ploy? Amazing. Here I thought I was so funny and wise. Didn't she say so? You betcha.

rapidly devolved into something that caused a lot of guys to stop dead in their tracks.  We've shared some good pm's and had a few laughs.  I've gotta say I had an "oh shit" momment when your personal matters that you felt were conveyed in confidence were made public.  If it's any consolation, these recent events have been a wake-up call to me (and I'm sure many others).  If we ever have an opporunity to meet in person, I'm buying the first round!

I guess like some of you who read the Boards the ladies who participate get my attention...especially when a group of you endorse them in some way.

We as hobbyists can only do so much research. TER is a wonderful resource but has its limits. I have been extremely fortunate with my choices so far.... or at least I think so. no outs,threats,etc.

Thank you guys for getting this out about this provider.

up... sorry you had this get out but it has helped a lot of us avoid a potentially bad situation.

I had my doubts earlier also...now it is crystal clear and I too can not stay far enough away.

I'm a true believer in mutual pleasure and only allow pure, erotic pleasure in my presence.....

-- Modified on 3/18/2009 4:31:47 PM

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!!!

I guess no boundaries either!

These recent threads actually scare me. I think I will stick with the one lady I have seen and trust unless she recommends someone else to me.

and this type of behavior is totally off the charts.

as you said - The realization of who we are dealing with far outweighs the negativity generated...'  funny thing, the guys kept it fairly professional, humorous and eye opening - Bella weighed in with some very good info - and the truly 'negative' stuff came from the source, eh?

I think she should be provider of the week.....after all she screwed Melboring and they weren't even in the same city

guys stressful times.  Glad your brightness is shining through.  I can almost hear you purring.  Ummmmm.

we both give him mutual pleasure at the same time.... oh how yummy that would be....

You can purr and I will moan, what noise will he make????

-*A train wreck and me late to arrive, with no popcorn to munch while watching. Damned shame.*-

But seriously, this thing is just sad all the way around. I had a wonderful experience, only to have it tarnished far after the fact, for no good reason. In my opinion at the time, it didn't merit my posting about it. It is unfortunate that such a pleasant memory was tainted by other subsequent events. Luckily for me, it was a learning experience with very little repercussion. For that, I'm thankful. It seems as if everyone else wasn't as lucky.

It is sad that folks were treated unkindly. It doesn't need to happen. To paraphrase Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along and have sex?" Keeping things professional really does contribute to keeping it fun, and doesn't interefere with it being friendly and warm. The ladies act like ladies, the gentlemen like gentlemen. We do our stuff, then keep our assorted envelopes, memories and egos correct and in the right places.

Furthermore, it is sad that what should have been dealt with quietly, even maturely, had to spill out here for all to see. It could have been a very minor derailment off on a side track, but ended up a full-fledged train wreck in the middle of Grand Central Station.

As someone else mentioned, let's at least learn from it. Both providers and hobbyists have lessons that they can walk away with if they are open to them. Traits and actions like trust, discretion, reputation, fairness, compromise and communication are all over the place, ready to be studied. May this serve as a reminder to keep us all acting as we should.

-*shakes head wistfully, before shrugging it off and going in search of that missing popcorn*-

I'm sorry ut maybe I missed it, but can you give a link to the thread or tell me who you are talking about?  Thanks.

I'm still looking forward to the next time you make me purr...

We'd definitely need a room away from everyone with the volume of noise that would be produced...

It is presently on page 2, but will soon be pushed further back.

I contacted her to offer her some advice for an upcoming S Florida tour. I took out MY time to write to her with lots of suggestions, etc. Discussions turned to us meeting. I made the mistake of not checking her rates and when I finally balked and told her that she was a bit above my maximum rates, she went ballistic on me! Ranting, all caps, calling me "cheap", "I guess you don't want qaulity", etc, etc. I stayed a gentleman at all times and even months later wrote to her to again apologize for the misunderstanding over her rates, it was all MY fault, etc. Her response? More ranting like an ex-wife over a custody battle! I have never recieved a more rude and truly nasty set of PM/emails EVER in my life!

She even quoted some of my posts where I may have cyber-flirted with other nice ladies here who's rates are the same as hers! It was like I had a stalker! Very creepy......

I am always a true gentleman to any ladies that I meet and treated her with respect and all I got back from her was utter nastiness......