It's what's stuffed inside the envelope!

Bwahahaha!!!

is it something else that turns you on?

Email banter?

Smell of a freshly showered man?

Other preparations?

What is it that really gets your going?

And to those who say "the envelope", I say "out of bounds" on this question.

Or would it?

I can only speak for myself.  It's not the envelope.  It is however, the following:

1. The excitement of looking forward to meeting a nice gentleman.
2. Hopefully having a connection.
3. I love a great kisser.
4. I love strong hands, forearms really turn me on.
5. Holding me tightly, me holding you gets me going.
6. Shall I go on further?
...
Infinity... I would love for him to cum back again so we can enjoy each other immensely.

Tara xoxo

& it's more of a turn-on for me to do things like:

Meet at the bar before going up to the room (maybe I'm not wearing any panties under my sexxxy skirt)

Or arrive wearing a coat to cover my garters and fishnets (& nothing else?)

Talking a walk on the beach (perhaps a dip ?) or swim in the pool

Celebrate the occasion with bubbly, strawberries, & a jacuzzi bath (scented hot oil massage is nice too I give as well as receive!)

Go out on the town for a nice dinner (go ahead, show me off!) dancing or just taking in the sights...

Another favorite of mine is to visit a strip club or two & get dances or just watch! There's just something very hott about those places (knowing I get the best part when we head back to the room)

I also like to have my own version of a strip club, in a private setting all I need is music and an audience of one...

What exxxcites me is the adventure and a willing, open-minded hedonistic pursuitist like myself

xxx
Jinni

PS. I like to cook & fish too - Not too keen on hunting (although I'm licensed to hunt lol but I'd love to catch a gator!)

So tell me then, if a man here meets what you say, you would not expect or want a "donation"? What would you say after you really "connected"? "Hey Fred, we really connected tonight", forget the "donation". "Come back several times a week for free".

The "envelope" topic has been discussed ad nauseum here, on other regional boards & in GD. The OP requested to list anything we ladies found as "turn-ons" and specifically requested "the envelope" not be part of this topic...but you can't help showing your poor taste and lack of civilized upbringing by insisting on "discussing" the envelope.

You might want professional help for your deep-seated anger at paying for companionship.

"The envelope may get me there, but it definitely won't bring me back." In other words, if I can't enjoy myself with you, I don't want your money.

Good luck with that,
Jinni
xxx

that the lady is telling the truth!!

A guy who is NOT responsive to Paris has to be legally dead.  lol

You want a memorable greeting??  Go see Paris.  

Enough said.

Not the envelope it is what's in side it.

The envelope may get me there, but the "fuck me suprise" is what really gets me going!  I always feel a buildup of sexual tension before every date.  I guess I must be a nynpho because I am always wet and aroused before I arrive.  The secret side of me just loves being a fuck toy at my date's command, the harder the better.  That is why I love what I do so much.  It is like opening a present.  Variety is the spice of life!

I do not like my dates to send pictures because ruins my anticipation of the unknown.  

Bad hygiene is a real turn-off.

You said it better than anyone could have.  I really do admire you for your responses, you kill them with kindness while I'd rather go for the jugular at the git go lmao!  Muah hottie!!!

There are so many facets of a man that turns me on.

- Ultimately, hygiene is paramount. I relish men who have paid close attention to the fine details and don't forget to make sure their boys are squeaky clean and well manicured.

- I prefer for a man to be dressed when I arrive. Perhaps I'm a visual creature, like a man.... I enjoy absorbing the moment and the art of undressing and seducing my man slowly.

- Maybe this sounds a little trite, but I also enjoy a man with some tact and intellect while conversing via email...or anytime for that matter. Again, just like a man, I enjoy spending time with a      gentleman that has a little something between the ears. Someone who can actually make complete and understandable sentences. (thankfully, I don't have many issues, with men, in this  category)

- I get turned on by a man that's not timid in the adventurous department. Whether it be using my little panties as a napkin at dinner, then watching me place a cold cocktail on my genital and him  licking my glass afterwards or teasing one another with our eyes....while my foots rubbing his crotch. If were lucky to have a balcony after we migrate from dinner to the room , there are so  many options....

- In addition, I REALLY adore a man who can share both the dominate and submissive sides of intimacy. He might start ravishing me, practically before the door is fully closed and I might shove  him on the bed and show him whats in store for him. Alternating roles....repeatedly. LOL

- I'm partial to a man who is responsive. There's nothing worse than attempting to satisfy a man who        
 lays there with no expression, like a "COLD DEAD FISH". If I have to check to make sure your chest is
 still moving up and down, there's a problem! It's much more enjoyable when both parties are mutually
 involved.

- Let's not forget an awesome kisser will kindle my fire in an instant!!!

Seriously, just the smallest things can have the largest effect on me....have fun with it and use your imagination.

Paris Bouvier

a lady who has mastered the art of seduction and knows how to treat a man like a king.  Just wish I could get to Orlando more often.

Hello, Ms. Bouvier.  After reading your responses on this thread, I had to go see your profile and your website.  I'm now very disappointed that I live three hours away!  Do you really have clients that just lie there?  I've seen your photos, and you're very beautiful.  I can't imagine anyone just lying there with YOU touching them.  If you like secretly talking dirty, I may have to make a road trip.  Your new fan, BulgeFLL

To answer your question, I HAVE had them lie there, with no expression and in complete silence, on a couple of occasions and it just boggled my mind! I seriously did have to keep checking their chest, especially when I'm performing one of my favorite activities......BBBJ! They must have lost all sensatation in their penis, that's all I can come up with. LOL

It's no secret, I love dirty talk......wanna get nasty with me?

Licking my lips....
Paris

Bravo....I love your reply Jinni. A true professional and a very inteligent lady. I work for a paycheck but I wouldn't do it if I didn't enjoy it.