SECRET praise is bogus IMHO.

PUBLIC postings of favorites not only reinforces
& inspires the performance of the providers mentioned,
I believe it is BENEFICIAL to the ladies who are NOT mentioned as well,
it gives the ladies NOT mentioned something to think about & work on.

ALSO, not ALL ladies WANT to be known for the same specialties.
WE are all different, we all excel at something or we wouldn't be here.

there's a LOT of YMMV in playland, and I doubt ladies want their YMMV favors to be outed to the general board.

So, for example, if a lady's profile says CIM, but spits, and you happen to catch her on a thirsty day and she doesn't spit, I wouldn't post her name to a guy looking for the "best NQNS".

Likewise, if you happen to connect with a girl and she runs a one-hour session into a two-hour at no cost, that's the type of thing that shoudl stay between the two of you.  Otherwise, every chiseler is going to be pounding on her for an exteneded session OTC.

But back to your point, yes, I agree that it's in the best interest of the board to post information rather than PM only.  I'm personally guilty of both approaches.

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Some ladies don't want it out that they do certain things. Once it's public knowledge, then the minimum benchmark has been set and every guy will expect that going into an appointment. If it is handled back channel, then it is stated, just not publicly.

Also, you're is the contraction for you are.

I'm not talking about myself, but some ladies wish not to be mentioned on this board.

The consensus ive been seeing thru other venues is this place is vile, mean spirited and a lot ( not all) of the men and women are rude and disrespectful. Not to mention the alias albeit man or woman can be rather distasteful and I'm sure most of the ladies rather not be mentioned by said people. Don't take  this wrong, for every bad member there are two good members. But that one bad member can ruin the entire board. You've seen it in the past few weeks.

Also there are gentlemen here who also believe that kissing and not telling is best. Yes this is a review board and kissing and telling is the soul purpose of this board.  Other than a review written or a pm given.

I know for me I won't comment on some posts now after an older provider in south Florida Pm'd. Me and threatened  me because I posted on her Thread, really? YUP physically threatened via PM. (how childish)
Pm me if you are interested on who the culprit is.
Or the way older Orlando lady who hijacks my threads , so in return I will just remove them, rather than have her scold me like she's my grandmother.

I can only say from my view  that in the future many members , i included won't be posting on the board as much as in the past in light of the past hoopla and changes.  

It's pretty shameful that some adults can't act like adults and have to spoil things for others.


Well there it is, MY opinion.

Ok now I'm prepared to be attacked via alias and elders

XOX

...as far as the ladies are concerned, I feel there are other issues to consider.  

If a gentleman publicly asks for a brunette or a spinner or another special request, I am hesitant to publicly post a reply because if I name one or two ladies that I know fit the bill and I would personally recommend, other ladies who fit the bill may get upset or feel slighted that I did not mention their name. Perhaps the gentlemen feel this same way.  

I personally do not mind offering suggestions. That is what this board is all about.  However, as a lady offering the suggestion, I prefer to keep my communications to PM/email. If you think this is wrong or there is another way to handle it, let me know.

Toni

I think some are afraid of LE monitoring the boards and don't want to risk the remote possibility of being charged as an "accessory to the fact" or "aiding and abetting". Other than that, I agree with you and can't see any other good reason why some guys are afraid of "naming names".

Great replies so far....and I will agree that a degree of common sense needs to apply when making suggestions.  If a ladies services are a YMMV situation, then NO, dont mention some things...do that via PM...but for general types of questions, I say go ahead and give your suggestion.

And yes, this will bring up yet ANOTHER issue that was recently dealt with....."if someone isnt mentioned, will they feel slighted by it?"  There are enough people out there to make everyone happy....for the ladies, yes, this is a business.....but for the guys, variety is the spice of life.  Personally, I get tired of seeing the same names always recommended for certain areas of the state....like someone asking "who is a not miss" in S FL?  Yes, we have some wonderful ladies who post here based in S FL, but there are 100's of others.....put some names out there.  If some ladies dont want their names mentioned on a board, I recommend they stay UTR and request such from their clients.....again, this is my thought.

I'm doing my best to adapt to the change here.....and keeping SOME things on the board is a good thing.

Cheers