have heard where some ladies will whitelist a guy and have never actually seen him. So I take them with a grain of salt!
I just stumbled upon a mans reviews where he has many reviews over many years but not one white list.
I don't expect every man to have white lists, I don't expect every woman to take the time to white list, but I cannot imagine why a man would have the amount of reviews this man had and no white lists?
Am I missing something about white lists?
Is there a reason a man would not want them?
I had to refresh my page thinking my browser was jammed.
At what point would you expect a guy should have a white list?
After 10 girls, 15, 25?
Guys do you ask for whitelist or is it something you feel a girl should just do
I am just thinking about my own policy regarding white listing and wondering have I whitelisted everybody that I have seen- and had an amazing time with, Honestly, I am not sure.
If we have met more than twice and you do not have a whitelist from me-please ask me.
I did have an assistant for a long time and really do not know how her and I handled whitelisting.
She did pretty much everything for me, but I am not sure if I would have told her to do it or more than likely I would have told her I would do it as deserved
Personally I like em myself but I'd never ask for one and to me they are as only good as recent listings.. Like old reviews, white listings from years ago become meaningless and if the lady has retired too... Overall though a gent with many reviews and many whitelists more than likely are still decent and safe gents!
They can be turned off from being viewed and some gents choose that option.. That's their choice...
They can be turned off from being viewed and some gents choose that option.. That's their choice...
You are a perfect example of how I might see somebody that does not have a long list of whitelists. HOW_WHY???? I personally love to read a good juicy review but I have to guess it is easy to write a good review but very hard to write a bad one and stay a gentleman.
A man could write something like the lady might need to get some updated pictures to reflect her current weight or he could say the lady let herself go and needs to drop 20 pounds, either will let other men know she might not be what they were hoping for but the first option is a lot nicer.
I dont know if this is weird but anytime somebody posts something and I want to get a view of them I always read their worst review and judge them by that. Your worst review shows you have the class you were wishing your date had shown you... nice job!
xo
referral from several of the ladies. I prefer to have a few current white lists each year.
. . . . that they seem to give a good impression of me as a safe, normal and friendly client for a future lady that I want to see.
When I started in this TER hobby several years back, I had no idea what Whitelists were. My first few came without me asking and without me even realizing that I was getting them.
They have proven to be very helpful over the years in screening with many ladies
I don't ask but am always appreciative of a whitelist and I do use the fact that I am whitelisted when I introduce myself to a lady I have yet to meet.
I was in the hobby and on TER for probably 10 years before I even knew what white listings were. Never asked, and frankly didn't care! Then, a provider told me that she would be happy to white list me. So I asked what it was, etc. other than that, I can't think of why someone wouldn't want them.
I just made sure yours was submitted from me!!! If a man is ever the definition of who deserves a White list it is you my love!!!!!!!!!
xo
I do not white list someone based on if they seen me or not.
I prefer to see someone many times before that is even requested of me.
Takes awhile to get on that list for me.
I've also removed people off my white list because they did something I felt was not honorable.
One site you cannot remove this and are required to always say yes I seen him, without really getting to know them.
Just my 2 cents...
have heard where some ladies will whitelist a guy and have never actually seen him. So I take them with a grain of salt!
Just so, Sarah. But when it's the one and only Elle Vegas, that's worth it's weight in gold!
Biggest prob with WL refs is when providers retire. Some guys don't want to draw attention to themselves so they won't ask for referrals, just as some providers don't want reviews.
LLAP,
Swim
I realized it was easy. I prefer to see a man more than once before white listing as well. Anyone can be lovely once, but can you keep it up. Honestly, I feel there should be a category for beyond whitelist. May knightlist? Some hobbiests go above and beyond just a good client.
I didn't know about Whitelisting for the first year or so in TER. Then I noticed some under my reviews and asked a provider who explained their use. Now I ask if I think of it. Normally after a session I'm soaking up the endorphins and Whitelisting is not on my mind. I can say that I have met with every lady that has Whitelisted me.
Best Regards
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Some of us (by that i mean me) *still* don't know what they are.
And I agree- once you see a great provider, you usually are focused on showing gratitude, being polite, etc. I'd feel a little odd treating it like an uber transaction.
It sucks when your favorite regular relocates or retires.
Best Regards
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Awe!! A White list is something a provider gives a Hobbyist as a note to other providers that he is safe to see, polite, etc...
Not sure what the exact protocol is- maybe somebody could answer for both of us!!!
Unfortunately, part of the enjoyment is a business transaction.
I guess for me, I check to see if a man has any whitelists to see if a provider took that moment to help him and or other providers so we can let down our guard maybe just a drop...
A white list definitely does not ensure the man will be polite to the next lady or even the lady who whitelists him, in the future- sad but true--- same as a lady can be amazing for one man and a slob for another.
This is definitely a very involved "hobby" with lots of ups and downs.
I don't remember exactly but I did get some whitelist's pretty quickly after starting this hobby. I would think any guy with 5+ reviews should have at least one.
Yes! I think that is a very fair ratio!
xo
Chick drama\provider jealousy.
THAT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I read your post, read it again and thought dear Lord, I wish I could say that has no merit, but yes, I have seen ladies get a little possessive over clients. I do not think in a million years I would have ever thought of that- absolutely ridiculous