Lately with all the BS going on with LE and such all the ladies here ask that you are:

Easily verified

Uncomplicated

Cooperative

if all three do not apply most will simply PASS.

Now there are those who are clueless to this, they just don't know. But they are cooperative and willing to be verified once you can explain to them how it all works.
I have no problem walking a rookie thru the process but if they are complicated and  uncooperative...they just are not worth my time.