What makes a provider "legendary", "unforgettable", "ATF"
I also confused by all this, is legendary old? Is unforgettable really so unforgettable? ATF is replaceable? I would love to know what all this means. And can girls automatically call themselves legends if your not dead? Dianna Ross is a legend, Johnny cash too???
Please help.

terms like those ("ATF", "must see", etc) mean...nothing.  if used by a gentleman, they likely represent his opinion, but his may not be the same as another man's.  when a lady uses those terms, they represent her opinion also - her opinion of herself.  take it for what it's worth.  self-esteem is a GOOD thing...I suppose.

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.... that it means anything.

And on the same note when a provider 'whitelists' a guy isnt that like her saying that guys is her atf, or fav client type of thing? What does that even mean? Lol what i am hearing you guys say is that its all a matter of opinion and preference....I love to love and be loved but I dont wanna 'play favorites' and offend anyone
I think there are so many unique people out there; that there are plenty qualities to appreciate in each one of us, you just have to choose to see them