Florida

Polite way to ask about an hour of time really lasting an hoursad_smile
waitfl 5 Reviews 1793 reads
posted

I'm new to the hobby and have been let down on all but one occasion by being rushed out the door in the middle of a session just because I've finished my first cup of coffee.

I've had this experience twice now in south fla. both times I was enjoying myself and the woman's company when suddenly, whoops, your done with that cup of coffee, time to go. One time there was already a gentleman waiting for a scheduled appointment, despite having paid for an hour. She new that her "hour" session would be over in 30 minutes and scheduled someone!

Not trying to boast, but I can easily drink 2 or 3 cups in an hour and when I meet with a nice woman, that's what I am looking for . . .

Is there a polite and safe way to ask if an hour session will actually last a full hour?

I feel what happened to you is completely uncalled for and very unprofessional.

An hour is an hour...PERIOD!

If a gentleman decides to leave before his hour is up that is completely up to him. Without  sounding harsh... it sounds like ( to me at least)  that you should find quality ladies to spend time with so you don't have this problem in the future.

My best to you....


Sweet Kisses,
Sindie

every single provider uses the word "unrushed" in her ads - but SOMEBODY'S rushing, because (sadly) we hear stories like yours more than occasionally.  my suggestion, then, is to read the reviews.  message a few of the gents who've seen the lady(ies) you're interested in, to ask about attitude - and anything else you want to know.  you'll get a much more unbiased and straightforward answer this way!  if you do your homework, it won't take long to get an accurate picture of what spending time with that lady is REALLY like.

salesmanship aside, for safety reasons a lady is likely to tell you her fees are for time and companionship only, and she won't discuss coffee, tiddlywinks, or anything else that might take place in that time.


EDITED for grammar (it matters!)

-- Modified on 8/15/2012 11:17:14 AM

An hour is an hour in my eyes and even if a man can only cum once he's not done. It's the journey and there's plenty of time to enjoy the rest of the trip. Giving a gentlemen the best possible time should be what we all want to do, if for anything so he will see you again. I have a few gentlemen that can cum 2 or 3 times in an hour and I will be sure to squeeze it in. We may not have a whole lot of talk time but some men don't want that anyway.

Asking questions about service could ruin your chances of seeing some ladies. Read the reviews and they will tell you much. I know some men might help you out but many will be cautious with a newbie and what they say. Thank God for that !

Things should get better once you use the system. After your first cup you should say the second one cums very easy so she knows your not finished. This is the time to speak up

Kisses Haley

You one review is the only review that lady has, so I'm assuming you saw her TOFTT?  If you're not seein reviewed ladies, then these kinds of things will continue to happen to you.

Yeah, unfortunately I found myself Taking One for the team. Not many reviews on the girls in my area. But I'm learning! LOL



than others to prepare for their next appt. You could ask if your time
includes her time to get ready for the next time.

Good question. Should be a good discussion. I don't always have all the answers.

This is what you should humbly, softly and politely say before you donate.

"Umm... I wanted to ask you... I'm really into enjoying the full hour and I'd really like to be able to finish more than once.. so would it be cool if we could please spend the entire hour together and also if I could finish more than once?"

If they say that would be fine then move forward. If they say sorry sweetie one and done.
Then you say humbly, softly, and politely "I'd really hoped we could spend the full hour together and kind of thought that would be okay...I think I'm gonna leave. I'm sorry things didn't work out. I apologize.... and thank you."

Then leave.

If some guy asked me anything like that I would be out the door!!

so many wonderful independent ladies in Florida, with some research, you should be striking gold--not gold diggers.

I will ask rates and rules?  If they will not give them I thank them for there time and move on.  If they answer, the next question is do we get to use the full hour or is it 1 and done.  They know what that means and normally will answer honestly, if they have passed the rates and rules test.  If they look and sound good I will book the 1/2 and when I get there ask if we hit it off can I upgrade to the hour with a second shot.  If the answer is no then you know it up front and can plan accordingly.  If yes then let the rest of us know.

My Man Marty!

My earlier thread response was for the Backpage no reviews ladies. Any ladies with reviews obviously you would never ask upfront because the reviews leave enough questions answered and show they are established.

TOFTT is part of the thrill and usually if the lady is hot I will quickly ask "if I wanted to stay for a full hour and a half would it be cool if I gave you__ ?" Usually since you are there already and acting in a kind demeanor they will agree to your offer and it's on. Then I reiterate "so that would be for the full hour and a half?" Then once they agree again and then we settle up I look at the clock radio and say "now it's 00:00 so we have until 00:00.... cool" The vast majority of the time I never get shorted on time. Great technique.

If you take the time to do your homework, you should have a pretty accurate idea as to what to expect when you meet.  If she rushes you out in the manner you state, you should/must post a review to let everyone know.  As for pleading for more time, questionable as to whether it's worth the effort...

Register Now!