I guess this is the $10,000 question.  But I have to confess that I don't like it when I hear that a provider is a "GFE" but she only offers covered french.  That's not a GFE.  Would a girlfriend require a cover for french?  Understand--I'm not talking about BBBJTC or BBBJCIM--but I think an essential foundation of GFE would include BBBJ.  I think that BBBJ and kissing are clearly required for a GFE--it's just disappointing that the terms get thrown around a lot and people end up being misled.