I posted DNS lists just Yesterday on the Minnesota board--->

There are at least 5 DNS lists and reasons for being on them can vary. SOMETIMES a guy gets put on one for NO good reason, or because a lady is vindictive. For some of the other reasons -- see my post below.


http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=92098&boardID=21&page=1

Re: This is unbeleivable someone would do this, WTF????

It does suck - but if your history is as you say, it should carry you through.  perhaps other providers that are more respected than this lady can get you expunged.  Trust me, a lady that takes action on what appears to be an innocent, albeit ill advised, comment is likely not well respected, possibly immature.

Before I knew better I made an ill advised comment in a review relative to body size, about a well respected & classy provider.  She didn't like it & let me know it in no uncertain terms that she was offended but kept it between us like the classy & beautiful lady she is.  That is the high class response - not TRASH a gentleman.  BTW, I learned my lesson & if she reads this will probably remember, so I'll say thanks for the lesson, lol. (NO I won't say who it was even in PM; I've got class (finally) as well.

Re: This is unbelievable someone would do this, WTF????

What I'd like to know is how are you dangerous?  Other than being guilty of saying something stupid at the wrong time(haven't we all done that at least once in our lives?)  It would seem that this is just to cause you a lot of problems.  I would say that if you have any providers that you are friendly with, perhaps you may be able to get one or several of them to possibly contact her and they may be able to persuade her to drop them.  Good luck.

If you have nothing be shameful about or to hide why use an alias?

You are better off coming right out saying who you are and the person that did it.

IMHO

This cryptic stuff makes you look dodgy

About 6 months ago a certain provider spread some false rumors about me.  If it weren't for several ladies letting me know that these untruths were being said about me, I wouldn't have known.  Both ladies said, "so & so is saying you short-changed her."  Thankfully, these two ladies believed me!  I have seen other ladies since so I guess I'm one of the lucky ones.

I've been to meet n greets as well... met ladies that thrilled me and some that didn't... that is life... play your cards right and you are not going to get blacklisted..

I remember being approached by a very popular provider at a meet n greet and I just smiled and walked away... yes, she was of the not my type variety as well... I just didn't TELL her, she got the message though - but you don't deserve what you describe...


bottom line is - no lady should wield so much influence or  'whatever' that you have to hide behind an alias

look at it this way - bark it out in your real name and you really aren't in any worse position... just  be sure that you know what you are talking about...

Why noone should respond to this...

In a friendly community like this our first reaction is to help a fellow "friend" and hobbiest.  How do we know this alleged reason for blacklisting given by the alias is true and he is not a predator looking for new victims?  Unfortunately there will always be a provider looking out for herself and unwittingly, or wittingly help a predator with her kindness. I say name the lady who DNSd for this crazy reason and let the community decide her reputation, otherwise it could be bullying.

If being unruly at a M&G is cause for being banned, Fuzzy and I would have been banned for life right after the Orlando M&G.  

This is a great forum to clear the air in a civilized manner.  Let's hear both sides.