So I just had a text conversation with a member from another site, that I've had a few issues with in the past, and don't use "Senior Status" from their as a valid form of verification, since it's basically just a bunch of dudes trash talking girls - and even when the few aren't trash talking, there's still no actual way for girls to check them out and let others know they're okay. When I told him this, and that I would need 3 (literally, only three) provider references, he laughed and said "No Thanks". I never understand why this is such an issue. It takes all of a few minutes to send the name and phone number to girls you've seen in the past. By refusing this you're either 1, lazy and just inconsiderate, or 2., you know or think that nobody will have anything nice to say about you. Why do guys think that we'll just see them without verification and making sure they're okay? I don't know about anyone else but my safety trumps any dollar amount you may throw at me. At the end of the day this is my business and my only means of income currently, so yes I hate to turn away potential business, but if you flat out refuse verification, that's not putting you in very good light. So Gents, please, for future reference, respect a lady's verification process and understand that it's nothing against you, or that we aren't trying to be discreet or trying to be difficult - we're doing our jobs and making sure we stay safe while doing it.