The time I get to spend with a lovely young lady. For one hour or longer,

I'm the focal point of her attention. The sensual aspect is the icing on the cake.

So often you the lady, trying to do her best, will ask what you like.  Personally, I like to know what the ladies like, what are their specialties, maybe what are their fantasies they would like to fulfill.  You don't go to a fancy resteraunt and pay to get a favorite you get anywhere.  I like to go to a resteraunt and ask for the specialty of the house.

Same for the ladies, instead of catering to a specific need, love learning what is your best or specialty.  Sometimes that gets really creative and out of the norm, which is really fun.

...the spice of life, and I've always had a tendency to look for the next adventure.  I also agree that I have a much better time exploring the preferences and specialties of the various ladies than I do simply looking for someone who fits to any particular favorites of my own (fact of the matter is that this approach has shown me a few new and novel favorites along the way).

As a function of age and preference, I also generally search for companions based more on the total experience than simply the acrobatics...and as someone who spends a lot of time on the road, being able to tap into at least the illusion of romance, without the drama usually associated, is a major plus.

I enjoy the freedom to cum and go myself. In the civility and expressions of most all the nibbling and kissing would make a man think this is or could be something of a serious nature. One might find strings that bind you to that individual. This is not the case as a provider. I can get all the hot steamy lip to lip makeout that get's my motor running and a man who wants to please me but wants to leave when he's had enough. This might be a man's world but for a mature women who loves her freedom and sex what could be better.

Kisses Haley

I really enjoy walking away from a meeting and thinking WOW that was great.  Of course there is the other end of the scale when I say wow what was I thinking.

instead of a peccadillo. Easier to spell.

Aside from the obvious sex part. The anticipation of meeting someone whom you really don't know what they look like. Then you get there and get the room number and when they open the door and you see them for the first time. The rush of that initial feeling as you discern the person in front of you. That is what makes my head spin. Sometimes you see someone so beautiful you can't believe you're about to have sex with this woman.

Part of the allure is the search itself......

The excitement, anticipation, nervousness.....will she be like I hoped, or not!

I read this earlier today and I had to go away and think about it.  After years in the swinger's scene and another 3 years in the P4P venue I can truely say...I like being with a beautiful, sexy woman who can make me believe that she would be there even if it weren't P4P.  That it is REAL.  The thought that I could have this woman simple makes the experience all the more exciting.  But this is a two edge sword.  WE have to remember it is fantasy from our perspective and a business from their's.  So come on ladies....Make me BELIEVE!