I have used little goofy gifts as ice breakers with ladies I'm seeing for the first time. I found cool little red silk string bikini undies that are folded in the shape of a rose. For about $12 they are available online. Not sure if I should link the ad, but I'm always looking for little things to make the session more memorable.

What do you use or don't you?

You know, that is a darned fine question (and not a bad suggestion either...or at least I don't think so...I'd need an opinion from the lovely ladies).  Most of my play time is on the road, so the ice breaker is often more a question of whether or not I can find my way to a shop before the appointment.

Nothing breaks the ice like a nice kiss and for me it won't stop till we say good-bye.

Kisses Haley

I gave the ladies little handcuff key chains.  I thought it was fun, cute and went with my username here.  

Not exactly what is pictured but close..

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Hi
most ladies ..if they have a website ..have a wish list...what they like...starting out small...
perfume..flowers ...wine..etc...most guys give gift cards from the mall..that the lady can pick out what she likes..like a 20.00 to 25.00 gift card..not a whole shopping spree!!! LOL...,hope that helps..oxoxs linda

If you go to the wish list and bring something from the list, that means you really took the time to research a gift.  The thought is really what counts and women love when you've done your homework.  Atleast this one does!

Since I take 2 gifts, I guess they could be considered ice-breakers, as I normally let her open them shortly after getting to her incall.  Have not had anyone be disappointed.  It does get us something to talk about to ease the awkwardness of first meeting especially.

For return visits, I try to get a different scent in the candles.  And they all love VS cards.

Swim

Ohhh yeah Haley Kiss me.


Thank you
2010 = 69

As I always say DFK is for both sets of lips

After speaking a few times and finally getting to our meeting, if he is coming to my incall I would offer refreshment such as a bottle of water, glass of wine, soft drink.  Just be a hostess, and begin a conversation based on our phone chats earlier.

Just treating him well and kindly is usually a great ice breaker.

Just walking up to a lady's home with a bottle of wine in your hand might draw some attention from any potential "nosey" neighbors. That's a situation where "smaller might be better".

Two ladies that I have seen at their personal condos both asked me to walk up with "something" in my hand/s to make it look like I was supposed to be there. That was a perfect opportunity to "smuggle" in a small gift!

I sometimes use a black laptop briefcase in which any number of gifts (like wine!) will easily fit in. "Hi, I'm here to work on your software" usually had us both laughing as I walked in the door!

Being discreet in "how" you bring a gift can go a long way.......

My favorite perfume. It really is the best "ice breaker" that I've ever gotten. I love wine, and candles, but lingerie is something I like getting for myself and certainly something that needs to be tried on first before purchased. Therefore I love getting perfume because it lasts so long and smells so damn good.

that tells the lady you can see past her beauty and actually notice she took the time to get ready for you and the date.

Don't know why I was drawn to these...but Godiva makes these Kabobs with Strawberries and Banana's, then drizzled with chocolate (dark, milk and white).  I love to bring a box of three (one of each flavor). Not only does Godiva say "elegance", but the combination of the strawberries and bananas give a light, fresh, sweet taste.  Godiva does a great job in their presentation, what with the gold foil box, the gift bag and "fluffy paper".  PLUS...there's nothing more erotic than seeing your lady simulate what lies ahead for you as she "nibbles" up and down the kabob!!!!

As far as carrying a bag into her hotel or apartment...I've taken an empty xerox box, put the gift bags inside, and nonchalantly walked right up to the door. Plus, it makes for quite a humorous moment at times as she wonders.."what's in the xerox box".

Sorry.....couldn't resist!!

WOW!!! just thinking about that wp , i would make you put them all over my body and eat them off one by one..and in spots you would like!!!! yummy...