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wilco69 13 Reviews 1737 reads
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Val, you're losing your crediblity here. You are on the Porn Star board wondering if you're a porn star and now this?

When someone starts in on the dangers of this or that, I just move on to someone who practices good hygiene and who will do the things I insist on as far as GFE is concerned. I am fit, clean and D&D free, and even so I had one provider who was so scared of bodily fluids she tossed me the condom and wouldn't even take her clothes off until it was on. I laughed and walked out the door. I live for BBBJ's and DATY, as most of us do, so if you're not prepared to offer these services, we're not going to partake of your limited menu. It's not personal, it's just business.

Valeriechick1273 reads

I guess now is the time to finally ask this, it's been bothering me since I found out the rating system.  Anal sex (with a condom) is risky, but at least offers SOME protection.  BBBJ and DATY are totally dangerous practices!  Why would this be a plus?  Aren't you guys (and gals) worried about STD's?  True, most of them can be cured but herpes is EXTREMELY transmittable this way and is incurable.  Even HIV can be passed that way.  What gives?  I know this is a downer topic, but I've always wondered about this.
Valerie

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upncummin521495 reads

WIVES!!!!!! :-( You're right, there is a risk...but...in my mind it is less risky than picking up sleezy barflys.  Enter the GFE....A lady who can make us dumpy old geezers feel important, sexy, worthy of breathing some of the finite amount of oxygen left...the list goes on...and even if it is only for an hour or 2, the poor slob is getting something that is missing in his life.  On the other side of the coin, there are MANY ladies who enjoy sex (probably why I have never met a married provider! LOL) The better the lady is at providing the illusion of being a girlfriend, the more word gets around in the reviews, and the guy who wrote the review will also be a repeat client.  SO...I guess we are looking at a benefit to risk situation here.  For me the enjoyment I get spending time with a TRUE GFE keeps me from "sweating the other shit"
If all of the providers on earth practiced 100% "safe sex"...there would be a LOT of starving women, and there would also be a Sheep in every back yard...You only have to buy them once, you will get the same "safe sex", and they don't make you wear a condom! :-X

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wilco691738 reads

Val, you're losing your crediblity here. You are on the Porn Star board wondering if you're a porn star and now this?

When someone starts in on the dangers of this or that, I just move on to someone who practices good hygiene and who will do the things I insist on as far as GFE is concerned. I am fit, clean and D&D free, and even so I had one provider who was so scared of bodily fluids she tossed me the condom and wouldn't even take her clothes off until it was on. I laughed and walked out the door. I live for BBBJ's and DATY, as most of us do, so if you're not prepared to offer these services, we're not going to partake of your limited menu. It's not personal, it's just business.

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Valeriechick1204 reads

Different sets of participants, wilco.  In porn, there's mandatory testing..with regular guys there's just no way to tell.  I have been escorting for over  10 years now and most of the guys seem to actually APPRECIATE that I'm safe and they don't have to worry about whether they're taking a tasty little present home to their wives.  I actually LOVE what I do and if I was to catch something, I'd have to stop.  That'd suck, but not as bad as having something (or passing something) would be.  I don't think most guys require risky behavior to have a fulfilling experience.  I have A LOT of regulars sweetie.

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swimtrekr808 reads

Valerie, if I can't DATY, I will probably not see you.  If I can't get BBBJ, I probably won't see you, and if I can't get DFK, I probably won't see you.  But, if I can't get any of those things, I definitely WON'T see you ever.  

I do not expect BB intercourse, but very few guys, except the occasional asshole expect that.  Safety is of utmost importance, but then again, you have to decide if you want to really hobby.  Eliminating too many options for the guys will only keep your business at a minimum of guys.  I have no wish to see you, or me, catch anything undesirable, but if you are gonna stay in the hobby, and survive, you have to cater to what most guys want.

My two deal-breakers are no BBBJ, and no DFK.  If you won't do those, I won't see you.  Only exceptions are if I get super recs from guy, book you and then find out you don't do one or the other.  I won't back out, but won't be back.  The reason I say this, is because I have a date this week who I found out doesn't kiss at all.  I told the guy who recommended her that if he had told me that, I would not have made the date.

You have to do what is in your comfort zone, but remember that limiting certain things will cut down on potential clients.  BTW, I would have sent you this as a private email, but couldn't.

Take care,
Swim

-- Modified on 12/7/2008 9:05:14 PM

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MatureGFE1003 reads

any lady that won't kiss you is CRAZY!!!

xoxo,

Steph

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wilco691582 reads

Responsible people whether on or out of porn get tested. Your regulars accept your imposed limitations, and that's fine. As you get to understand the TER world you'll see that GFE is all about DATY, BBBJ's and DFKing, and the rest are left on the side of the road. Your Navy clientel in Pensacola typically can't be verified through a screening process, so your safety and their's is assured. That's OK for most, but not for most of us.

If you enjoy what you do, you'll never work a day in your life.

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upncummin521143 reads

But everything in that review seems to go against what you are preaching here!  It is a good review, and if I were to read it, and your profile, and use it as a decision maker to see you...it would steer me to do so.....so I ask...is this review NOT accurate??
The person who did the review, has done a lot of reviews...Did he just make this up???? :-X

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=124027

OOOPPSS  now there are 2...the NOV.2008 is what this question concerns.

-- Modified on 12/8/2008 8:36:59 AM

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Valeriechick1271 reads

But it also wasn't his first time seeing me either.  I list the rules as I follow them for first-time clients.  Since I've been in business here for over 4 years, I get to know my clients and their habits pretty well.  Things can change as far as rules go if I know for a fact that the gentleman in question isn't a risk.  Like the poster above that says he is tested regularly.  If he is willing to show that, well....I'll show mine and game on! (smiles)
Love to all

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