When a gentleman gives a ter handle id I always send a private message trough the site.. However, some of u guys are just basic members and aren't willing to provide additional information... So how could u expect t see me? Heeeelo by the membership lol

Besides anyone can see the Ter handle how do I know you are who you saying you are....That's right I don't!!!
My safety is first so I'm sorry if you feel insulted but I'm not willing to take the risk!!!

And I can't stress enough that this is MY opinion...

But if someone isn't even willing to fork out for VIP membership, how serious would you think they take the hobby?

If a Hobbyist can't afford VIP...he probably can't afford you.

The other possibility is he is cheap.

Nuff said!

He can't even read the juicy details wtf I pay VIP I LOVE the erotic literature lol Smile 4 me!

I'm one of the few who will say that

I have been VIP for several years.  First 3 just to watch and learn.  Your rules are your rules I will always respect them but I have mine, so if we agree to disagree I will not be mad nor should you.  I never give my handle out but some have figured it out by my reviews if I see them on repeats.  A lot of members do not want the cc billing for fear of a trail and don't want to hassle with other ways to pay.  Just as you do We have lives outside of TER and the chance of getting caught does make you want not to take any chances.  I know you do not want to hear this but there are some that do not screen. So you just call till you find a match.  While the detail section does give the goods the brief description gives enough info to at least find out if it a worthwhile trip.

Hi, but I do quite well without the VIP, I could go through the trouble of purchasing it anonymously, the reason is a paper trail back to me. I have a hobby phone and try to protect myself from my SO. If I pay $$ or $$$$ to see a provider once a month, I get 15 days VIP after I write a review. I only have thirty some REVIEWS, that is a provider I have seen the first time only, or a review of a lady that I saw 2 or 3 years in the past. If I do it my way, I have to see my regular ATFs plus a new provider that I can review to get my VIP days. That adds up to a couple hundred dates, thus putting more JACK in YOUR pocket!! Please consider there are always more scenarios or exceptions. MUAH! Eom

doesn't want to give you the information you need to feel safe, don't take a chance. These guys just need to move on.

I agree with the previous poster in that if the guy is unwilling to fork over the $ for VIP, how serious do you think he really is about spending $$$ to see you. Besides, the cost is way less than one bad experience because he wasn't able to read the real reviews.