I was wondering if anyone reveals to a provider they review on TER. Or if they even care

I will ask her if she wants me to.  If I'm not sure if she wants one, I will not ask.  I won't review a provider unless I know she is OK with me doing it.  Many gals do not want reviews, for one reason or another.  If she says no review, I will honor her request.

I'm with you, Swimmie-I always ask the lady if she wants a review because some don't for whatever reason and bag it with a negative response-

If they don't, then they haven't done any homework or don't care too much about reviews.  If they don't want me to write a review, it falls upon them to ask me.  And if they don't want one, I will certainly honor their request.  That, though, has rarely been the case

It's a review board , to help us weed out the BS. To hold back a review defeats the purpose of the board in the first place. The girls are in it for Cash Period,,  she is not your GF,,so you Honoring them, is just dishonoring the Hobby.  
 Why would she care,, does she smell of Smoke,,  poor Hygein, 2 hours late,, already has 476 reviews,, has a  pimp in the bathroom,, things others might benefit from knowing. Well, that's how I see it. Just helping out the Hobby...

sometimes wonder why hobbyists here don't just inform TER they had a date and let TER write the review.

Even if they post pics they are touched up so with that being said it's like the inflated reviews. Plus a lot of ladies can't do what you do and post accurate pics.

we all do the best we can. Good luck to All of you hobbyists.  

...she will have your TER handle and read all of your reviews prior to even scheduling the date. This is done for verification purposes to contact previous providers and verify contact information and to see if that is the type of person she will want to meet. So basically, it's a given that a review will be written based upon past reviews. History tends to repeat itself.  

I would certainly write the review to warn other hobbyists.  I would only withhold the review if I were asked by someone to do so, and, if there had been nothing really negative to report.  

will not write one.

As I'm fairly new to the world of reviews, I've recently come to see how important reviews may be to both parties. Somewhat accuracy for hobbyists on their future dates,and well it helps in many ways for providers from screening to creating a buzz for future a future inquiry. I've been captivated by scrolling through the forums and seeing what people write both here and on reviews. I'm excited to see what reviews I will get in the future, hopefully all great!! Bring it on!!

A very interesting thread! Here's a few off-the-wall scenarios that I have run into with regards to writing Reviews. Many are hilarious!

...but at least they give one of the handles. Typically it's the main one where they have many reviews/whitelists. You can gain a lot of information about them from that and know that they most likely will review.