Can i air out some frustration for a moment?...
I,ve been going to/posting on message board forums for years now...and theres something that really IRKS the crap out of me..and i believe it is this something that is causing so many problems now with so many people...so let me have a moment,ladies and gentlemen,to say whats on my mind.

Years ago,people exhibited common sense when they posted...they were discreet,and understood the concept of LESS IS MORE...but,over the years,i,ve watched TOO MUCH DETAIL being put in the public eye....not only is it stupid,its dangerous...i really dont understand it...do people think that the internet is not a big place where THOUSANDS of people can read and see things?Do they really feel so smug and secure that they feel its ok to post stuff that could either get themselves or someone else in hot water?...lets cover some common myths...

areas that are paid for member areas ANYONE can get a membership too,so dont think info of any kind is safe there..

just because you may be speaking in code,doesnt mean others dont know the same code...if you were smart enough to learn it,so was someone else out there,and code DOES NOT guarantee privacy of any kind.

I,m not agianst knowledge being shared....it just greatly disturbs me how people sometimes throw caution and good sense to the wind when they share it.Why not say a little in public and set up a anonomous email account to share more in private,if you feel the need to?All you need to say on a public forum is decribe the ladys personality,promptness,and if you were left happy....and if you want to share more,tell people to email you...AND LEAVE IT AT THAT.

I,m also very alarmed at the number of ladies posting here,there,and everywhere and using widely known and widespread internet terms that only mean a big spotlight will be pointed at them...why put yourself in such a bad light?Agian,say your name,your website or email address,and tell people to email you....and discuss things in private...the less said publicly,the better off you,ll be privately.

Yes,we as americans have free speech..and i will hinder no ones ability to exercise it...everybody has the right to say as they will willever they like,but how about the idea of getting things back to a level of decency,where there isnt so much heat and trouble...just an idea...phoenixxx

Gee what a surprise. A provider wants her potential clients to know less about the services she offers. Could this be the woman who was very very positively reviewed at CERTAIN moderated boards and very very poorly reviewed at CERTAIN OTHER unmoderated boards? Could it be that the desire to limit the exchange of information has ANYTHING to do with her desire for discretion, or maybe with her desire to MAKE MORE PROFIT and EXPEND LESS EFFORT and PROVIDER FEWER SERVICES?

Just a thought ...


-- Modified on 7/19/2002 4:05:33 PM

Sir,i do not know who you are,and if you knew who i was(because by the tone of voice you,re using with me i can tell that you dont)you wouldnt even BEGIN to imply anything even remotely negative...I,ve been in the industry for years,and i have a very solid reputation for being honest,straightforward,and very very fair....no one could ever say that i treated them less then unfairly..in fact,not only am i fair,but i try to make all who see me feel very at ease and leave later feeling that their money was well spent....from a business point of view,honesty makes you more money then dishonesty...because ripping someone off only ensures that the person sees you the one time and never agian,and worse,wil get online and tell of your dishonest and crass behavior...on the other hand,if you treat someone well,they return later for another vist and maybe speak well of you to others...

The post i put up was about using a little common sense when posting....sometimes people tend to forget certain things when they post...and wether it may be true or untrue,the  more graphic and detailed the information,the more negative attention is invited...am i saying to NOT share information?...no sir....information is vital...but my point is to understand the very sensitive nature of what you are posting..if you must insist on posting something about a lady,i would say get her permission first,or let her know where its posted,so she has a heads up...secondly,theres no need for graphic detail....just say you had a nice time,maybe post the persons email and website,and if decide you want to contribute to more detail,do so in private,not on a posting board..beit a members area or a public free area,its still a forum where lots of eyes can see.

Also,some ladies need to refrain from posting detailed ads about what they do...thats best done over email,person to person...
This is just my point of view...from the standpoint of "if you invite things,things WILL come,and if you,re not ready for ALL things to come,maybe its best to use wisdom and discretion with your invitation.Its easier to watch a small doorway then a large one.later