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rewmis 1899 reads
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ive been aound this activity or biz which ever one you choose to refer to it for many years.

the number of ladies/escorts that have made a financial future for themselves is very small percentage.if priorities and being able to budget your finances a ladycan be financially set in a very short time and that's with seeing only a small percentage of clients over a small period of time.

its so sad to hear and see just what this biz can and will do to lady.excort if her skills are not properly in tact.

I personally love to hear of a success story that has grown out of this profession.

ihateuga1097 reads

Before you start critiquing ladies financial savvy, some grammar and spelling might come in handy. Just a tought.  

Posted By: rewmis
ive been aound this activity or biz which ever one you choose to refer to it for many years.  
   
 the number of ladies/escorts that have made a financial future for themselves is very small percentage.if priorities and being able to budget your finances a ladycan be financially set in a very short time and that's with seeing only a small percentage of clients over a small period of time.  
   
 its so sad to hear and see just what this biz can and will do to lady.excort if her skills are not properly in tact.  
   
 I personally love to hear of a success story that has grown out of this profession.

rewmis1012 reads

please don't misunderstand my topic im judging the ladies in any maner.im just so proud to hear how a success story evolves I know there are ladies who have there goals in life and make them happen..i just want this side of the world to give all the ladies hope tomachieve there goals if the just put forth the right steps that's all im not judging anyone.

pleade don't take this in the wrong text..thank you.

ihateuga865 reads

I don't misunderstand. I just don't think someone who doesn't use proper grammar stands a very good chance of being taken seriously. All I'm saying. Thanks.  

Posted By: rewmis
please don't misunderstand my topic im judging the ladies in any maner.im just so proud to hear how a success story evolves I know there are ladies who have there goals in life and make them happen..i just want this side of the world to give all the ladies hope tomachieve there goals if the just put forth the right steps that's all im not judging anyone.  
   
 pleade don't take this in the wrong text..thank you.

The lack of proper capitalization, punctuation, text speak, and grammar tends to discredit what a poster has to say, at least to me. IMHO.

Swim

(not a uga lover either)

Just_thebadboy_n_me960 reads

Practice what you preach. ( Just a thoughts ). LOL

But because of the generally misogynistic tone of the boards, we tend to keep them to ourselves or share them in safer venues where we won't be shredded for being successful.  

While not every guy is a meanie, enough of the board regulars are that often it's simply not worth the hassle and aggravation for most ladies to do anything but put up ads, post pics or throw a *hopefully* benign comment out here and there (and even those tend to get twisted and warped by those with an ax to grind).  

Wish it weren't so, but it is what it is. ;-)

rewmis926 reads

I appreciate your thoughts.i have a couple of success stories myself by I too agree this is nat really the place to display your life history.thank you for your thoughts.

and once that is reached, they retire.

Others pay their way through school, whether it be for a BS or grad school. Once they enter the workforce, they retire.

Not too many ladies who have retired still visit TER. My guess is that you will not get any lady to tell her story.

As has already been said, you need to take a grammar/composition class or two.

rewmis1083 reads

I apologize for my spelling errors,i have one bad eye that suffered a mini stroke a few tears ago, so its very hard to type on a key board. but that's my problem not yours.

and yes ive met a few ladies that was nice enough to inform me how the biz set them up for there future I wasx just wondering if I could hear more from the ladies but I know that's a pretty personal nature and yes I respect there views

Ok I am going to bite, Success comes from a state of mind. That goes with Any biz, if you read the Secret I have it by my night stand, you will know the Law of Attraction, Thoughts are things, we can achieve anything we want just with our thoughts that is where the success and magic happens. I have been in the biz all of my life. I have achieved many things I never thought possible, some who know me well know that I had to start over. It happens you see there are many factors with a Lady's life. I opened my Pie Hole to some trusted friends and I am living my dream. I have learned much along the way and I am changing the way I do things. First keep my Yap shut...lol..My services are all about You, second set goals, plan and achieve. Greed is Never good in life I do not care who you are. I achieved many things and the Secret is once you lose everything can you do it again. I have, that is my Success. I beat the odds by being the person I grew to be. I am going to stay in the biz for the pure fact that I am a Healer, a Therapist and Damn good at what I do. That is the Ultimate freedom. I love and am very Grateful for my clients, my lady friends in the biz who have been there for me and I choose to learn more about every aspect of my Mission that I set out to do. I am in the biz for a reason, nothing is more satisfying to me than to see a gentleman or a couple have a new lease on life. I am proud to say I am Doctor approved I love people and that is that. I am going to learn and in the process right now I choose to do that, You see I am not a luxury, I am a necessity. This is my calling and in a strange way I know that. I have support to grow and for the Lady who dares there is Success. That is Her goal no matter how it is achieved. Happy Independence Day to all.

Posted By: rewmis
I apologize for my spelling errors,i have one bad eye that suffered a mini stroke a few tears ago, so its very hard to type on a key board. but that's my problem not yours.  
   
 and yes ive met a few ladies that was nice enough to inform me how the biz set them up for there future I wasx just wondering if I could hear more from the ladies but I know that's a pretty personal nature and yes I respect there views.  
   
 

Here, including myself, financial management has been a self-taught process. While growing up I was encouraged to just save my allowance and any money earned from part-time jobs in high school, with no opportunity to actually manage it. So I never learned, and ended up in a lot of debt in my early 20s. Eventually I taught myself a little about finance and am still learning all the time. My success is more experiential than material. I paid cash for my advanced education, I've traveled the world, and I've bought two houses. I pay my taxes, and have paid off my debt. I am still having fun learning about all the ways I can earn passive income.

It's interesting that some of the mean men here that EC was referring to belittle women here as wasteful spendthrifts and stupid with their money. But I posit that most of us weren't really taught much about personal finance, and it wasn't a required course in school. Such a shame. So the success stories you do hear are very exciting.  

And no worries- I understand your posts. :) There are many reasons people may not post perfectly. Sometimes people forget that.

Just_thebadboy_n_me1060 reads

And that is why ever provider should thank the clients for making their financial life a little easier. Because if it was not for the clients then the providers would just be financially strapped.

You can bet if it were not for us you have no outlet when a client seeks our services you are making an investment in our future. I can tell you it is worth it when the Lady upholds herself in the best light. Knowledge is power, Perserveriance is strength and the Will to succeed is the greatest. Do not belittle us I am Grateful every day when my Mission to make healthy males is called upon

Posted By: Just_thebadboy_n_me
And that is why ever provider should thank the clients for making their financial life a little easier. Because if it was not for the clients then the providers would just be financially strapped.
-- Modified on 7/4/2013 9:28:57 PM

thats like saying "If Starbucks had no customers, they'd be bankrupt."

We aren't doing any favors for these ladies. We're customers. They're providers. It's business.

Just_thebadboy_n_me971 reads

In order for a business to thrive you need customers  

Posted By: beach6216
thats like saying "If Starbucks had no customers, they'd be bankrupt."  
   
 We aren't doing any favors for these ladies. We're customers. They're providers. It's business.

Just_thebadboy_n_me838 reads

Yes that's exactly what I'm saying. And if you put a little thought into what was said you would have never hit the send button.

Because what you said still makes zero sense.  "Without us providers would be financially strapped"?  Really?  Wow.  Never thought of that.  Without customers a business would be financially strapped.  We are not doing them any favors as you say.  We are doing business with a provider we enjoy.  Just as I do business with a restaurant who's food I enjoy.  And they do thank me for my business.

You make it sound like they owe us something besides good service.

We thank our clients everyday that is why I have a summer special my way of thanking my clients. If you and Beach whoever he is is made any reference to my last post shame on you what I write helps other Ladies when I say things about knowledge that is not for you men. Now this is for you. You work hard for your money and when I say you are making an investment you are you see some of us take that money and build our lives with it Now does it make sense? Would you like to see your hard earned money go into the trash? Oh and by the way we Earn every cent we make we put up with a lot from pigs who don't get it. Like cancellations, harassing texts, lewd phone calls and my all time favorite The No Show!!! Oh yes this is a business a little different but a business the only difference between me and you is the product we sell that is it. So I hope this Clarifies things for you and keep spanking it baby hey its free right? Don't call me you might not show anyway lol

Just_thebadboy_n_me914 reads

If you read my original post I was referring to the comments about the ladies and their success stories, and how they owe a lot of that to clients. I read a post that a provider had the nerve to say if a client can't afford to do this then they shouldn't. And she went on to bash another provider for giving discounts, bottom line clients chose to pay for over priced providers and they think that they are better than other providers. And clients have to put up with bull also no call no show, rip offs and up selling its not just one way remember that. If I did decide if I wanted to meet you I would show up and show out.

Keep telling yourself that...maybe it'll build the confidence needed to post without and alias, Fukstick...;-

Just_thebadboy_n_me1047 reads

Yeah keep telling yourself that. You need me own that way. Another stupid post, that's what I'm talking about providers thinking that they can be successful without clients. Or maybe you can get a real job I'm sure you can get a great reference. And as for my alias goes, wait Heather is your real name not.

This is a prime example of how stupid people can really be you have shown your true colors Bad Boy let me start by saying Sucess can achieved in Any job refer to my first post oh wait I guess that is stupid too. Get a real job? This is one. Many of us also have other pursuits but you are too busy bashing Ladies to even consider that aren't you? Why are you here? Just from your lack of manners I can see why if you do not respect our Profession get out of here Respect is a two way street you expect it from us and we expect it from you. Please take your crazy elsewhere we are all stocked up here. You have shown to be a Bad Client also a potential Danger we do not want you stay away from us.

Posted By: Just_thebadboy_n_me
Yeah keep telling yourself that. You need me own that way. Another stupid post, that's what I'm talking about providers thinking that they can be successful without clients. Or maybe you can get a real job I'm sure you can get a great reference. And as for my alias goes, wait Heather is your real name not.

This profession has been around since mammals have. Doubt there will ever be a shortage of clients. And if by chance there were someday, we'd just find other professions.  

Don't worry, I do thank my wonderful friends. ;)

rewmis934 reads

I have enjoyed reading each and every  thing that every one had to say and I have to say its been a pleasure reading every sentence.
I just hope that we can all find more topics that bring out the best in all of us.

thanks again to everyone.

have a very safe and happy 4th of july

Me along with many other ladies if we came into this industry with a better understanding of the money we were making we definitely would make better choices unfortunately that's not the case.  

Kyla

A great gift for providers, gents, might be a book by Suze Orman! Lol!

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