I have to echo what the other ladies said...this would be a perfect introductory message!

It's always great to get a heads up that Im going to be used as a reference, only so that Im on the look out for when a lady contacts me.  But Im reference friendly, so even without the warning, I will be happy to provide reference.

Any additional info you would like to give is nice, but I would say, keeping it to the point like you have here, and then sharing more information once you hear back would be fine as well.

Very courteous of you

My first contact usually includes the following:

-Hi
- Date, time & location
- Brief note that I've visited their website and am familiar with rates
- P411 info
- References (I include the ref email address and TER profile for easy verification of my references.)

Do you want a brief description of an individual, hobbies, etc?  Any other info?

As to references, I always email my refs to both make sure they don't mind if I use them, AND to give them a heads-up who they might be hearing from.  Do you ladies WANT heads-up?



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Makes things so much faster and easier. Also let's the lady know you are hones, sincere and really wanting to meet me. I would think any lady receiving this info would be more than happy.

Kisses Haley

I wish everyone would do this.... It makes verification go so much faster..

Kindest regards,
Ms Kara

Screening is the hardest most time consuming & annoying .Love it when we have a well prepared winner.

at what information you provide.

As far as references, I feel it is important to give the lady you are wishing a reference from a heads up.  I know I appreciate it.  It is also important to follow up and make sure the lady did give a reference.  Alot of times ladies state they are reference friendly but really don't check them. I feel this will give you the opportunity to know if the lady really truly does what she says and takes her safety seriously just like you do.

Please do tell me your interest as you never know what you may have in common. This will allow for an even better conversation.

On another note, if you wish a certain outfit I appreciate you also letting me know as well.

Thanks again and I hope more gentleman learn from you!!!

Makenzie

As to references, I always email my refs to both make sure they don't mind if I use them, AND to give them a heads-up who they might be hearing from.  Do you ladies WANT heads-up?


OMG

I wish the men that give references would always contact me first like you say you do.

....Just perfect!
I will bypass emails who don't have that info in the initial email. Priority goes to those who contact me with the proper email etiquette. Screening with TER handle or other board handles then checking white list/references as well. I am always happy to be a reference for those nice gentleman out there and always send them an email after our visit; letting them know they can use me as a reference in the future. As far as description etc of hobbyist...not necessary. However do like to have requests on stockings or an outfit they would prefer. Thanks for posting this info. Maybe it will help other gents out there as well! Hugs JoJo