what are the instructions on the ladies side to white list?

http://www.theeroticreview.com/info_policies/whiteListFAQ.asp#G

I'M A PROVIDER, HOW DO I SUBMIT A REFERRAL?
Go to Reviews and click "Search White List" Type either the user name or e-mail address and click "Submit." When the user's White List appears, click on the button that says "Submit referral." It's that easy.

i sent the info on to the lady that was asking!