"It’s better to have two great, dependable clients than 10 occasional customers."
"A great thing about doing couples: With a couple, you would go through the door and see a table covered with good wine, different types of cheese and fruits, like it’s a celebration of something. If it’s just a guy, you see a glass of water and an envelope on the shelf." Two very true statements. Just as many Men enjoy their ATF, We as providers do as well. It's truly heartbreaking when good old friends stop visiting. Most of the time this happens it is for health reasons. I still have not found a way to get around visiting at an elderly residence or hospice and I do not think I would blend in very well. Couples are great! And it has always been a celebration for every couple that I have had the pleasure of joining. The dates tend to fall on a Friday or Saturday. It is always an occasion for the lady to get dressed up just to be undressed by me. A celebration indeed. Bring on the bubbly!!! The only disagreement I had with this was her view on Family and Friends;
"on one side friendships with whores, on the other side, a family, and my future. So I make a choice."
It does not always have to be so cut and dry. There can be a place in my life for both family and friends, it is Judgmental people that I have no place for. Being a whore does not define a person. Once again thank you, XOX Elle V.
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A very dear friend of mine forwarded this article and suggested I provide it to any new ladies who seek my assistance upon entering into the profession. After reading it, I find it has some interesting points beneficial not only to new ladies but to everyone involved in the hobby.
Ladies and Gentlemen, what are your thoughts on some of the points in this article? I am curious to see your replies.
Your GFE Assistant ~
Sexy Toni
www.YourGFEAssistant.com
"It’s better to have two great, dependable clients than 10 occasional customers."
"A great thing about doing couples: With a couple, you would go through the door and see a table covered with good wine, different types of cheese and fruits, like it’s a celebration of something. If it’s just a guy, you see a glass of water and an envelope on the shelf."
Two very true statements. Just as many Men enjoy their ATF, We as providers do as well. It's truly heartbreaking when good old friends stop visiting. Most of the time this happens it is for health reasons. I still have not found a way to get around visiting at an elderly residence or hospice and I do not think I would blend in very well.
Couples are great! And it has always been a celebration for every couple that I have had the pleasure of joining. The dates tend to fall on a Friday or Saturday. It is always an occasion for the lady to get dressed up just to be undressed by me. A celebration indeed. Bring on the bubbly!!!
The only disagreement I had with this was her view on Family and Friends;
"on one side friendships with whores, on the other side, a family, and my future. So I make a choice."
It does not always have to be so cut and dry. There can be a place in my life for both family and friends, it is Judgmental people that I have no place for. Being a whore does not define a person.
Once again thank you,
XOX
Elle V.
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...not only on her point about choosing between "friendships with whores" vs "family" but also on her view on sex outside of work.
When I was young, I didn't really know how to enjoy sex. Now, I love sex, I love giving head (especially to someone I care about), and I don't have to put on an act like she did.
I enjoyed the article, because I can relate to most of the business and communication portion of it. But, the way she talked about sex, I just can't relate. Getting paid to have orgasms is the best part of my life.
I wonder if she will ever return to the biz when she is older and has her sex groove on... lol!!
Fascinating article, and the author's honesty and authenticity was impressive.
Some years ago, I decided I would never use the word "whore." I was watching "A Streetcar Named Desire," and there was a scene between with Blanch Dubois and Stanley Kowalski. As they argue, Stanley call her a "whore." She responds, "A whore...I've always thought that was an ugly term used by ugly people."
Brando at the peak of his powers. The movie is unforgettable.
American dream are very real. It is called the free enterprise system. Ever notice when you drive by an intersection with more than one gas station, all stations on the corner are within a cent of each other. People in business know they need to charge what they can get without appearing greedy.
What is hard to understand from my POV is the new girl, with one or no reviews, who wants to charge premium prices that the established ladies charge. It is not just about her appearance. The article states very clearly that it is about the environment or ambiance that exists. Sometimes we call this chemistry. Remember the part about the nice bottle of wine, snacks, etc. as compared to a lonely bottle of water in some guys hotel room.
I agree with Keystone's POV is the new girl, with one or no reviews, who wants to charge premium prices that the established ladies charge?? But to each her own. And I am thankful for all the lovely ladies here in Florida, so many lovelies to chose from, so little time, so little of a bank account!! And I am thankful to have the opportunities to make the acquaintances I have. I get a kick out of the writer's post-providing life and real world dating! Barely ever having a relationship in my 50 plus years, that article reaffirms I'll never know the concept of a long and loving a civie relationship! They are just too complicated!!!!
say thanks for a very interesting article. It was entertaining in many ways, from the start of her life in America. She did what most people (not born and raised here) do and that is take advantage of the many opportunities of free enterprise and starting their own business.
She was a very smart and savvy business woman as many successful TER ladies are; if they are serious about their business. She did followed a best practices of running a profitable business. She studied her clients and did what it took to attract (marketing) the best wealthy clients to her. She took care of herself (product) and always looked (advertising) her best for her clients. She performed to her clients satisfaction and did what it took to keep them satisfied (customer service), so they would be a repeat client.
I am sure there are many TER ladies that do this and other things to run their business and maybe learn somethings to improve their business.
FYI, A business owner's business will stop growing once they become complacent and stop learning to improve their business
Miss Toni, This was an excellent article. It certainly articulates what a provider can accomplish when she sets her mind on to it and treats it like a serious business. Thanks for taking the time to share and post it.
smiles, Chloe War
I enjoyed it, but kept thinking she's only saved $200,000.00, lives in NYC and sees a shrink. Can't survive long financially in that world.
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making amazing cash. However, having said that, she was also living in NYC and the lifestyle of someone making that kind of cash is pretty expensive and something she obviously got used to. ($100 breakfasts, over 6K a month in business expenses, plus her incall.) It's easy to see where her $ went. But she also bought her folks a home. Granted, it was in Russia, which is probably not too much $. And maybe she sent $ home to them.
I always giggle when I read here or in the media that the reason people work in the industry is because that's all they can do, or that they have no other options... blah blah. This story proves what many of us already know. 
I am a little new to posting in discussions, though I have been here too for a while. Toni, great article to share here.
It would be interesting to know if she returns when she is more excited about sex and as earlier posters mentioned, she is not set for life with $200k in savings at Manhattan cost of living coupled with expensive taste.
SoftlySarah, I wholeheartedly agree with you about the stereotypes about a provider having no other options in life ever-that she has no ability to move on later; often, with a college education, work experience as she prepared to transition or start up another business endeavor. Many of us deserve so much more admiration from society.
Personally, I am still trying to comprehend the unwillingness to perform oral on real life boyfriends and the thought about spoiling a man with such. Maybe that is just me. Though no one should have to do things they HATE sexually, but I wish her luck in getting over that and learn how wonderful it is!
~I edited twice due to a great (not) assist in 2 places in this post from Siri + it is the first time I was open here without censoring myself.
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It shows the glamor side of NYC... interesting