Through all the years I have never experienced such a spineless person.
I had an appointment with a gentleman that was visiting from out of town. I still can not figure out how this even transpired, obviously it must have been when I was in the rest room. The appointment was supposed to be an hour long, the client was there for 25 minutes and his phone went off, he stated it was an emergency and had to leave.
We said our goodbyes and he said that he was sorry and would make it up to me... I thought that was a nice gesture. I went in the closet to grab my purse and it was GONE! If that wasn't enough... my bag that I carry my tablet in was gone too!!! I was mortified! Thankfully, I had put my personal phone in a drawer as I had just received a text from my daughter before I heard his knock on the door or I would have lost that too!
If anyone that knows my number gets a phone call or text do not answer it, I know longer have the phone. I have also taken additional precautions and have changed my email address to [email protected] and will be purchasing a new phone today. I am extremely saddened by this and have learned a valuable lesson, please learn from mine so this does not happen to you ladies.
To all my dear friends... please send an email my way so that I can have your contact information again if text was our main source of communication. I will also be building a new website... just to be safe.
When he took my tablet it was on auto sign in into my gmail account and I didn't have it password protected...I know...I know . So unfortunately I do not have any of his contact information at all. I am pretty sure he has done this in the past... he was slick as shit!
A description... About 5'11", around 175-190 lbs. He did have a scar over his left eye and a tattoo of a rose on his left upper arm. Wish I could give more information.
There are plenty of white knight cops out there who are willing to help you. PM me if you have questions about how to address them without getting into trouble yourself.
You should be more careful with your appointments due this is a personal situation theirs no reason why you didnt have his ID number last name and first "just in case" and your belongings where missing? So he shuffled through your things without you knowing! I guess you left out majority of the details! this happened to me when I started but i never keep my belongings with me in my room! He was no where near sneaky about robbing me because he pulled out a gun and pushed himself on top of me! He left after I told him I had nothing on me! Please be more careful! if you have to always have someone with you. like a girlfriend or hire an assistant! Im sorry this happened to you!
to say things like this, because you don't know how careful she really is!!!
Chastising her the way you just did was uncalled for and I find quit appalling... Also, so that you know, just because you hire an assistant, sadly, does not alleviate some of the problems that us girls can have.
The real ass in this situation was the jerk that stole from her and she doesn't need to be jumped on by anyone let alone someone who is posting under an alias..
im the same as as you i never ever bring my belongings in my room ,everything goes in my car locked up plus I travel with my furry dog ,mine is very smart ,and trained ,I had a guy once tell me he needed to use the bathroom after i had used it .i told him to stay put in the bed and not move ,because my doggy was on stand guard ,i dont care who the hobbyist is ,my safety comes 1st .and so does my dog not to try anything fishy .shes my asst and best friend .be safe charisma
Karma, while effective and reliable, takes time and patience. When / if I ever find out who this person is...."karma" will be a T-ball bat up his ass...his balls in a vise so he doesn't wiggle too much... while I make elongated slices along his joint with a razor blade...then sealing them up with liquid band-aid so he doesn't bleed out and I can keep going. Oops. Just gave away one of my tricks. Crap.
Karma, while effective and reliable, takes time and patience. When / if I ever find out who this person is...."karma" will be a T-ball bat up his ass...his balls in a vise so he doesn't wiggle too much... while I make elongated slices along his joint with a razor blade...then sealing them up with liquid band-aid so he doesn't bleed out and I can keep going. Oops. Just gave away one of my tricks. Crap.
Why would you not have everything password protected? Did you change your password on your email account so this person can not access it? I sure hope you did or every email anyone has ever sent you is now available to this person and is a person at risk here.
I just don't understand why someone with so many years into the business, someone whom I have spent time with, can put so many others at risk by not taking basic precautions.
Ladies, learn from Sindie here and learn how to take basic precautions and know something about the person you are going to see.
I think we all knew there would be some asshat, armchair quarterback who wants to attack someone after the fact....and point out how they think things should be done. And.....using an alias no less. Can't really expect anything other than that from a chickenshit, self-centered, insensitive, douche-nozzle jackwagon fucktard. Too bad you didn't have the stones to use your real handle.....so at least she knows who never to see again.
I can absolutely assure you, Mr. secretive "it's all about me" goat-fucker bastard.........you aren't nearly as protected as you think you are.....and even you, as perfect as you obviously believe yourself to be, makes the occasional mistake. Shocking to you.....I know.
Now that you've taken a swipe at someone who is already down and dealing with a lot........enjoy spending every remaining day of your pathetic empty life, knowing in your heart that you're a worthless piece of shit with no redeeming value in any aspect.
Boy, you really seem to get off on the name calling don't you. Does it make you feel more like a man to call someone names? But then you know that you will never run the risk of meeting him face to face so you are secure to hide behind your computer screen and hurl your insults about like the typical internet web bully.
You are the poster child for discussion board moderation.
I'm sure you're another one who thinks it's funny to put someone down when they're having a difficult time. Pull the wings off butterflies too? Kick puppies? Slap babies? My point was that his post was classless and unnecessary. If you don't like the language I choose to use....that's your problem not mine. Try to 'man up' just a bit.
Oh....and make NO mistake.......anyone who knows me will tell you that anything I say here......and I mean anything.......I have NO problem saying it directly to someone's face. So your uneducated point is moot.
I was not making reference to the original message. I was questioning your constant behavior of name calling and acting as the board bully.
And nothing that I have seen you recently contribute is any different. I do kind of feel sorry for you having to stoop to those levels to get attention. If you try to act like a grown up you might find...
You weren't making reference to the original message. Your words. You were questioning me. Also your words.
So you can't stay on topic and address the real issue that's being discussed. Obvious by your own words. If you have a problem with me....you're invited to start your own topic if you want to make it public....or PM me if you're not too cheap to actually be a member here. There really isn't any need for you, or the other asshat, to hijack an active on-point thread.
You aren't the first to question me, and won't be the last. I, of course, couldn't care in the least. I do what I do for a reason. Sometimes it's for real....and sometimes it's to poke the dumb animals with a stick and watch them jump. Congratulations. You get a 7 for your jumping performance.....but failure to 'stick the landing' cost you valuable points.
You may now return to watching the Lifetime network and working on your sensitivity training.....because you're clearly outmatched here.
.... and unfortunately we've all probably been robbed/raped before - I consider it rape when someone steals my money or other personal items because I certainly wouldn't be having consentual intimacy with that person if I knew he were a thief. I've had to learn the lesson a few times so I always tuck my valuables away in my bedroom and close the door.
Your story is a good one to remember when I start touring again this Fall.
Lots of warm hugs from your friends here on TER. I'm sure you must be as sad as you are angry. It's hard not to take it personally when someone targets you --- especially when you're a good person and only intend good things for the people you meet. Chin up!!!
if you can and warn them about this. Since your email can be accessed their info could be compromised. Hopefully they had a hobby email, but if they sent you work info for verification, it is not a good situation.
I'm so sorry and am glad you didn't get hurt. I guess like maybe many of us here thought that you only saw friends from TER, P411 and DateCheck . Your popularity is overwhelming and you haven't advertised anyplace else in years this is eye opening for me. I always thought things like that couldn't happen to the popular ladies who didn't take chances.
Did you get references for this man as that would be helpful in backtracking his info. Was he from P411 or DateCheck as they have records to do a follow up. Anything would be helpful to other and can't understand no name or any info. I doubt you do last minute dates and I never meet with a man without at least calling him by name.
LE is looking for the weakest link and hope it isn't you. I posted 2 years ago about Polk county taking ladies belongings and keeping such info available to anyone is not to smart. I hope this person just wanted your things and doesn't have bigger intentions with them. They are much more valuable in other ways.
Stay safe and know your regulars will keep you busy till you can regroup.
I am very sorry that have had to deal with this....It must suck to have to try to reconstruct that portion of your life. I ceratinly hope that this scumbag gets what he deserves from someone soon.
I have been trying to reach you but your new email address is not cooperating so I have sent you a PM instead. I hope you receive it.
Thanks and best of luck getting everything back in order again.
As I pm'd her 5 days ago expressing my concern and offering to help and I have yet to get a reply...Hopefully she will be able to eventually respond to you...
You were not hurt in the incident.. Money, tablets, purses can be replaced... A hassle I know and concerns about personal violations galore.. but you cannot be replaced... Thankfully you are fine.. Sorry for your losses.. David in Daytona Beach.
Sindie, I am so sorry!!! By way of introduction I'm the guy who always smells like a goat. I tried asking for your email address and some sefl appointed "board cop" tried to tell me I'm out of line for asking because I've never posted a review. No comment on my part.
Anyway, If you care to send me your email that would be great because the hotmail address bounced!! I'm trying to stay below the radar... just not yours!
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. So unfortunately I do not have any of his contact information at all. I am pretty sure he has done this in the past... he was slick as shit!
. I tried asking for your email address and some sefl appointed "board cop" tried to tell me I'm out of line for asking because I've never posted a review. No comment on my part.