No, nothing is wrong with you. That is a very sensitive area and needs to be treaty gently. Next time, a punch to the throat will get their attention...just kidding.

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Just needs to take off the gloves

delicate interior tissue and needs to be well lubed. I highly recommend coconut oil. But just keep in mind that coconut oil can't be used with latex condoms.

I got to work with Nina Hartley in a workshop last year!

FUCK WATER!!  Good shit!!!  Water based lube.... Love it!

Recently with a very nice provider who used it and it was great.

Thank you Jessica for this important lesson in etiquette.  Far more important than anything I learned from Emily Post. What do you recommend? Should your admirer arrive with a little KY?  I notice Amazon sells what they call "Edible Massage Oil' but I have often wondered what a provider might think about that.  

I've been using a silicone based sex lubricant recently for finger play on the labia and around and directly on the clit and it seems to be well received.  Anybody know the pros and cons of water based lubes vs silicone?  What do you ladies prefer and why?  Do you like finger play and what gets you the hottest?  Inquiring minds want to know so that we can please you