Hey I just had my first experience - details are not important except it was great ;]

but I totally FORGOT to ask her if it would be cool to review her here. I'm not going to post her info without her permission, but (feeling kinda awkward) how do I go about asking now??

Some time during our talk I asked her if she knew about TER but the conversation was interrupted by ... life lol and we never got there.

Should I just go ahead and call her and ask if I can post a review? Should I ask her to check out the site?? what's a classy way to do this?

I really tried to make it as elegant as I could for her. (I hosted ...) candles, really nice sheets, everything I would have done for a girlfriend.

Guess I'm having a little insecurity - hell I'm kinda shaking all over lol she did a great job!!

I just don't want to sound like the idiot I feel like...

Thanks in advance

I always posted reviews of everyone I saw. Only exception was if the girl asked me not to post a review. I would even still post a review if the provider didn't put in her best effort.

Of course, I can no longer post reviews since I became the moderator

Cheers,

Sly
Moderator

If the lady doesn't want a review posted she will tell you, or ask you not to post one.  I've seen a couple that did not like reviews posted.  In most cases, the ladies like the reviews as it gives other guys a "heads up" on what she is like, and items on the "menu".  Free advertising..but from the guys point of view!
If you had a bad experience, it's a way to let the guys know that too!
I DO ask if I can use them as a reference...that's just common coutesy!

Happy Hobbying!!!

Is she utr?  Does she have reviews already?  Did you really have the chance to talk about the process?

Some women may not want reviews; not because they are subpar, but because circumstances in their lives dictate a more discrete lifestyle.  Some may be slowly trying to phase themselves out and cater to a few special friends.  Some may not want the extra attention that may be focused on them by polyester wearing types.  Some may really love the idea of a new review.  

Write up a review and casually ask how she feels about reviews.  In this day and age with the increased scrutiny of the media, LE, SO's and others it really is best to ask.

Thanks and I appreciate your first question because she made comments about no pictures because she has 'plans for a future life' as she put it.

I did indeed ask and she thinks TER is cool. Now I just have to deal with that first review / first time reviewed issue.

Like so many good things in life, I'll just take my time ...

Thanks!