So about a month or so ago I posted a warning about Sofi Samson. IN MY DEFENSE it was a VERY well justified warning. I dont want to ramble about all the crazy deatils but I just want to say that the person I/we had been dealing with WAS IN FACT NOT SOFI SAMSON!!!! It was an IMPOSTOR who was out to harm her! I have PROVEN this and talked to her myself and I CAN VOUCH for this information being TRUE!
I dont think I need to apologyze cause I only did what I wish EVERYONE else including Sofi would do if they found out someone in the hobby following LESS than safe practices, etc.
I hope you guys can help me spread the word and help clear this Sexy Bombsshell's good name!
....that you 2 pose for a pic, w/your "Legs Spread Open" kissing & making up!!!! I volunteer to be the photographer since I suggested this "Act of Verification".
Come on....you owe us!!! 
I hate to say I told you so but .....
It wouldn't hurt for you to "apologyze" as you say it. You made a big deal about this and I'm sure you've done some damage and hurt some feelings. Even if your heart was in the right place...you can't admit you made a mistake and make it up to the affected parties? Or is it that you are never wrong? You would get more respect by admitting you made a mistake.
Sofi isn't the only person you insulted, by the way.
Do the right thing.
do something manly like go watch football or something? I don't get it, if this post has NOTHING to do with you, you don't even know the story, you don't even know Sofi or what happened here, WHY THE HECK do you feel the need to jump in and start shit like a pussy little girl? Seriously? You may not be my biggest fan; you are certainly not one of my favorite people, but you dont see ME running around TER searching for your posts to go ahead and comment and instigate... That is SO girlie and SUCH a turn off honestly, not that the rest of you is much of a turn on but...
This is nothing new. A different version of the same old thing. The only thing she seems to enjoy more than collecting envelopes is outing people, causing problems, and constant drama. What she did on the provider's board to a hobbyist is totally inexcusable. That would be plastering personal info on the board, and asking for help to find him so she could get even for whatever he was supposed to have done(probably cancel a date)
Lady, if there are unsafe practices going on, the guys will get the word out. This was just a half hearted attempt to appear to be doing damage control for Sofi, after you did plenty of damage.
YES you should apologize. And hopefully she will come back with a public "Kiss My ASS". Sofi just happened to be the one in the sights of your "Drama Ray" this week!
Grow TF up! Leave others alone! And please do yourself a favor and use your next envelope to purchase spell check. That way while you are doing something stupid, at least you'll look a little less stupid doing it!
NOTE: Alias flipped by Admin
Sounds like someone needs a hug! I am pretty confidant that she is professional enough to not need anyone's suggestions on how she should spend her earnings on spellcheck. How would you feel if she suggested that you spend your $ on some therapy to deal with mis-placed anger? Both suggestions do nothing but ruffle feathers and waste everyone's time. It's the weekend, people, don't we all have better things to do? (Myself included)
I apologize for coming off so crabby, but my goodness, if you let it, negative energy will consume you! Your post makes you sound like you are a little jealous or envious of the OP, who is swallowing her words to openly apologize and right any wrong doing. That takes a backbone, and I commend her for even taking the time to care in the first place. Let's try to keep it positive, folks...if you have nothing kind and constructive to contribute, you're just purposely hurting people.
Don't forget, when you use an alias to vindictively harm someone else, don't be surprised when it comes back to bite ya in the ass. You may think no one knows who you are, but....you have no idea!
Hell hath no fury...
Yes, I am using an alias to protect myself from unnecessary judgment from malicious, vindictive and mean people with nothing better to do than to insult others. I am not hiding behind an alias so that I can stir sh*t up in an attempt to harm anyone's reputation.
she purposely put in the phrase..."I feel no need to apologize"! She did not do what she stated her intentions were (to make people aware of a provider practicing unsafe practices). What she did was to publically spread false info about Sofi, then got caught!
To her credit she did come out to publically wipe the egg off of her face. But she in NO WAY made, or attempted to make an apology for statements that were potentially very harmful to another provider!
Perhaps you didn't notice, but there are no positive replies to her post, and the other posters agreed that an apology was in order, along with this half hearted attempt to dig out of the compost pile (again)
Lastly, I'm not doing anything to harm her reputation. She has done a fine job of doing that by herself, on multiple discussion boards!
Oh, and as for my chosen alias, I just really thought it sounded cool. Don't worry she obviously still has a fan club(of which you must be this years president). This too shall pass! Probably much faster than the damage to Sofi will!
Who was she trying to get information about? Please tell us all that you know.
anyone. Someone used her as a reference for EWS Orlando, so naturally we contacted her (or at least who we thought was her), she voucehd for him and asked to be invited herself. She sent in several "bizare" emails that were way to explicit and just set off the radars.. Seh then sent in information about a GENT that wanted to attend as her date, so we screened him and he turned out to be some kind of Pimp/Manager.. We got back to her asking for an explanation, she then tells us she is no longer affiliated with this guy (yet 2 days ago she was talking him up), then sent us a "different" dat's info, so we went ahead and screened him as well, turns out ITS THE SAME GUY hidding under a different name. So I finally called and confronted her about it... Why give out fake references? Why not just tell me that your pimp/manager/boyfriend/S.O>, whatever he is wants to come as your date? We would have accepted that as long as he follows the rules just like every other gentelman at the party... She snapped at us and wrote "Your party was beneath me and I was planning on attending ayways, I was just giving a reference to a friend cause HE wanted to go" THAT IS A FAKE REFERENCE IN MY BOOK, specially because we heard from other ladies saying that this same guy was always trying to see them and using all this fake info to book etc. I'm guessing the guy isnt dangerous but nobody wants to be decieved into seeing someone and later finding out it wasnt a real reference etc. After giving the "fake Sofi Samson" several opportunities to explain herself, (which she never did ofcourse) I decided it was in eveybody's best interest to release THE FACTS, just the facts of what had ahppened and let everyone decide for themselves. I NEVER POSTED ANY OF THEIR INFO, I posted that I had some 411 and PM me if you are itnerested, so I sent it out to whomever inquired. Recently I was contacted by Sofi's assistant and she's explained to me taht while Sofi was in Europe, her old "manager/assistant" took over her phone/email and was sendign a different girl out pretendign it was Sofi and getting in all kinds of mischief. Both herself and Sofi agreed that they would have done the same and that I eveen went as far as tryign to let her/hime xplain and that was much more they would have done themselves. I spoke to the ACTUAL Sofi so that I'd be 100% clear that the story was real, and now I am certain that the person who contacted us was NOT the real Sofi. That is why I wrote taht I was not apologyzing, because this was not my mistake, this was ME sharing the informationand FACTS that I had. The only true vitim here is Sofi (as all I lost was time and efforts screening and investigating) this guy has been messing with her reputation but Im sure it's a lesson learned for Sofi never to give someone else full control of your GFE Identity. I offered to go back on the FL & Provider board to rectify the information I had sent out to some.
Hope now you can understand what happened and why I did what I did. LIke I said earlier the REAL Sofi isn't upset at me, she is thankful that I understood and stepped up to help clear her good name
I love it when a guy uses a female oriented alias to sling mud at a provider, and then it gets flipped.
I can understand wanting to use an alias for personal reasons but to be vindictive and sling mud, fat comments, and shit like that at a provider?
Childish.
You have just earned yourself a spot on MY personal dns list for THIS post alone.
~Rae Monroe
Why do women gossip and act so catty to each other on here?
It amazes me that some women act above other's. When it all boils down everyone does the same thing. I don't post alot but I often see and hear about this kind of stuff between provider's.
stuff as usual. Sofi and I have talked about this, bothe herself an her assistant agree taht what I did was done in good intentions and this is merely my way of COMMUNICATING to the rest of TER that the 411 that I had was incorrect. I HAD NO WAY of knowing that the person that was POSING for Sofi, wasn't her. We contacted her via the telephone and emails posted in her ads. THAT person, WAS in fact giving out fake references, so I warned my fellow providers.
As far as outing a gent... I don't know what you are talking about but I'm pretty sure you know how to get ahold of me, so feel free to call or email me cause i have NO CLUE what you are talking about. Obviously you have some anger issues towards me, I can't help it if you dislike me, nor do I really care quite frankly. I HAVE NEVER OUTED ANYONE, if I have ever posted 411 on the provider board it is the STANDARD info/format that EVERY OTHER GIRL DOES, and it would ONLY be ragrding a dangerous/vicious client or provider, but HEY maybe you like to see guys taht beat you up and stiff you? LOL
And FINALLY as far as the spellcheck comment goes, I know I type TERRIBLY, do I really care? NOT! I speak 5 languages, I'm confident enough to let my typos slide. English is also NOT my first language, so I think ALL things considered; I'm doing pretty well.... But the MILLION dollar question, is WHY aren't you using your time more efficiently? really, if you have anything to say just come out and say it TO MY FACE.... You had your chance in FL didn't you? Stop being a hater darling, OH and mayb you should use YOUR envelopes for a FACELIFT, you need it!
your usual M.O. is when cornered, make personal attacks. Men who disagree with you are pussies who do not watch football. Women are just catty whores in need of a facelift! We all need to quit wasting our time, and do something constructive, yet here you are back on the attack!
You would have better served just shutting up, rather than go on yet another tirade, attacking everyone, and whining that you have once again been victimized! You are a real piece of work!
From what I see you missed one goal, but accomplished another. You convinced no one that you were right, but you DID show everyone your usual temper tantrums, and who and what you really are.
I am impressed however, with the 5 languages. I'm guessing they would be French, Russian, Asian, Greek, and Doubletalk.
By the way, Honey, I'll use my envelopes for a facelift, when you STOP using yours for cheesecake,candy, and milkshakes! The Michelin man has nothing on that spare tire of yours!
Have a nice Day!
seriusly how is THIS ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS?
Anf you are such a pussy you can't even come out from behinf your alias to say it.
Ok so YOU can attack me but I can't defend myself? How is that? I should have let it go but YOU get to say whatever TRASH comes out of your mouth and I need to sit back and just let you? I'm sorry but my post was INFORMATIVE... YOU CHOSE to turn in into a drama. The BIG difference between me and you (aside form the obvious) is that I am who I am, I'm proud of who I am and have many friends taht agree with that, Unlike YOU I dotn need to hide to speak my mind and be myself. We can't win em all darling, I'm well aware of it, Im sure I'm not everybody's cup of tea and I'M FINE WITH THAT, I'm ME take it or leave it. You wanna call me fat? GO AHEAD.... clearly YOUR opinion doesnt matter to me since you are not my friend, client, boyfriend, girlfriend, or anything of the sort. Gentelmen will choose to see whoemever they want and thats' that. I have worked hard for my reviews and my reputation, anyone that knows me knows that I'm loud and somewhat nuts at times, so why don't you worry about YOUR clients and cirlce of friends and leave me out of your shit. I thought you emailed me the other saying you didn't want any more drama yet here you are again startign up shit? What is your problem? the day I go on the board and ATTACK you personally then HELL Girl JUMP ALL OVER THAT, but why do you feel the need to come in and comment on somethign that is simply NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS? IF Sofi Samson herself has a good relationship wit hme and a clear understanding and acceptance of what and how it happened, what the HECK are you getting all your panties in a bunch for?
I'm gonna be MIA for a couple so I will most likely miss whatever absrud reply you come back with, but hey if you EVER wanna discuss this in person YOU KNOW WHERE/HOW TO FIND ME and we'lls ee if you're so LOUD in person
I am disgusted by this display all the way around.
im a lil confused.
i'm not trying to judge anyone's lifestyle decisions here but i dont think it's right for someone who is collecting envelopes to also be posting reviews.
i wouldnt mind having a girl like you in my corner. at least you know how to watch a girl's back.
I hope my post will put all this rest and bring the peace. Im going to keep it short and sweet. First, I appreciate Amber putting up this post, she didnt have to. The information that she received justified her original posting of caution. When she explained her side, I completely understood. When I explained my side, she completely understood as well. Her and I were able to speak and get everything cleared up. Thats all that should really matter. Just agree to disagree but please keep it civil and respectful. xoxo Sofi
Thanks Sofi. Understand that this didn't have anything to do with you, just one man (sic) being a jerk and losing site of his real place on the boards.
product of one of 3ladies... I guess lesson learned ..... These ladies have far more class and tact that I gave them credit for....
As far as Mr. Alias.... I thought you PUBLICLY apologyzed to me on TER months ago for your FALSE accusation....
I actually thought you had gotten over that past drama and even defended you recently.. not that you need my defense... Very dissapointed but not surprised... How's the evil one now?
I'm not going to further feed the drama but I'm certainly HAPPY the TRUTH came out. I hope you read SOFI'S POST which should SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT.... It was NOT my mistake nor my ill doing, it was someone else that HURT her and her and I have a clear understanding...
Thanx Admin, MOD and anyone else who supported me, this was just plain MEAN and I'm happy we can now communicate with our true colors...
-- Modified on 10/20/2009 7:05:17 PM
Somehow I think everybody's DNS list just grew one name longer. This is too rich.
NONE NOT in support. I don't think the DNS list is going to grow all that significantly!
I think I also made history as being the first alias flipped on the FL board!
So for those of you who enjoyed the show.....I'm really happy for you!
For the rest of you...take this as a lesson....
don't get on the mod's bad side...He NEVER forgets! 
whether Up believes it or not, I did not flip his alias.
Apparently Admin felt he went to far across the line, and his alias was flipped.
rc
because I enjoyed this immensely.