I'm going to be in Miami next week, and it's been so incredibly difficult to make plans to meet anyone.

Seems so many ladies currently won't even entertain the thought of meeting if you cannot provide references (and someone suggested I should be fine sending my W2s to verify my identity even).  If you can't comply, well they're gone.  So many don't even respond to emails or texts and no reason is given.

I fully understand that I just have to live with this, and I'll make do, but I can't believe it's gotten to the point where the pool of clients can be winnowed so much and no exceptions made.

Screening has been part of the game as long as I've been playing.  W2s are obviously crazy, but references?  That's pretty much a bare minimum.  

I have never not known screening to not be a thing but everyone's different. It's just for safety ladies need to be comfortable enough knowing they aren't going to be attacked or worst..

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