Question about physical size (Not the normal debate)

Hello all. I originally posted this to the general discussion board before I found the regional for Florida. It is only slighted edited. I'd appreciate any feedback.

"Hello everyone, I am new to all this, and am so glad I found TER for its reliable information. My question is of great concern for me personally. I'm a big guy, by that, I mean I am medically classified as super morbidly obese, weighing right at 400 lbs. At only 5 feet 8 inches tall, I am sort of a Chris Farley type (without the drugs.) I am pursuing a gastric bypass, hopefully by this late summer or early fall. I would like to have a night or two of fun before surgery, just in case the unthinkable happens, you know?

I keep myself as clean as possible in the central Florida humidity, I'm not one of those people you might see on Maury who doesn't shower or never leaves the house. I dress decently, never wear sweatpants or things that emphasize my size in public. Just because you're big, you don't have to brag, we see already. Buy some clothes that fit.

My concern is this: I am wondering if providers would be somewhat discriminatory towards me due to my size? Not really getting into it, or not giving their full service. I know that mileage varies. I understand that. But I'm very open, honest and have a great sense of humor. Which most women say is a turn-on. I am respectful of providers and their services. Would ask nicely rather than demand any requests I may have. I'm sweet and would be a gentleman. I am certainly leaning towards a well reviewed provider who puts people at ease, has little to few restrictions, (only because I wish to try as much as possible,) one who loves to DFK, and one I know wouldn't rip me off.

Knowing that the majority of America is overweight, I'm certain that any provider who's been around has had her share of big guys. It just concerns me is all. Any input or comments (besides any obvious fat jokes) would be greatly appreciated. Especially feedback from a provider, again I'm in central Florida."

I posted this and it's gotten a good response, check out the replies and my comments. But finding the regional board I feel it may be more advantageous to post it here as well. Again, any feedback welcome, especially from providers.

Thanks,
Jimbomania

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