Hello all, I am finally back from vacation and ready to play hard starting next week (Monday through next weekend). I need the weeked to recover from jet lag. Time away was muy bueno and I'm happy to be home. Drop me a line and let's get together. I will be answering all the e-mails I missed while I was gone over this weeked, so please be patient, I will get to your e-mail if you contacted me while I was gone.
Link to my TER profile and reviews here:
http://theeroticreview.com/link/link.asp?ID=26626
Giselle (and guys):
I'm curious about something...The profile says uncovered french, but every review references CBJ. Why does it seem that there are discrepancies in the profiles v. what the actual reviews say? I guess it just proves the point that one must do their "due diligence" before scheduling a session.
Also, I believe that "GFE" and "CBJ" are inherently contradictory. I've never had a girl friend who gave me a CBJ. A provider can do as she pleases, but it's one of my pet peeves when I see "GFE" but it's covered french.
Please don't misunderstand--I am not taking a shot at anybody and mean no disrespect whatsoever. I just think all concerned in this hobby would benefit from some clarity on these issues.
fishster
What a GREAT question fishter!
The first person that ever reviewed me created my profile. I have tried to update it and it never updates. My age is wrong and my donation is off, aa well as what fishster refers to in the services section. Just to let the guys who are questioning this know, I did not create that listing thereore until I can get it fixed I understand why it would cause confusion.
As far as my TER reviews go, I have no control over what the reviewers write. There are discrepancies in my reviews regarding the above mentioned things you speak of, yes I acknowledge that. All I will comment on what is contradictory to what you mentioned. I play safe and cannot control if a guy writes otherwise or writes something that did not take place. I do not discuss what is written in my reviews at it would not be in my best interest to announce what I do on my dates or what I don't do.
As far as the GFE term, I do not advertise myself as a GFE because simply, everyone's definition of a GFE is different and I like to pride myself on the fact that I take very good care of my clients and always strive to do my best to make them happy and pleased with our date. I do consider myself in the category of GFE in the sense that (from what I understand) gents that want a GFE date (for the most part) want to be on a date with a lady who makes them feel special, appreciated and respected and treated with kindness, professionalism and genuine interest on how they feel and how they want to be treated by a lady.
This reminds me of a regular gent that I have who is a total sweetheart and he stressed the fact that he wanted a GFE date. All I will reply to anyone that requests that of me is that they will be happy with our date and no complaints. He and I were joking about the whole GFE term and what it means to different people. So in jest the next time I saw him, I walked in and immediately asked to see his cell phone and asked him who he's been calling, why doesn't he include me in all his plans, why can't I be included in all his guy's nights out and why doesn't he just hold me and listen to what a bad day at the office I had. He looked rather puzzled and asked me if there was something wrong to which I replied, "Oh I'm just acting like I was your girlfriend". We both laughed about it and for him, his idea of a GFE is having a lady treat him very well on the date.
I agree with you, the GFE term can be confusing because of the many different views and opinions that gents have or what they expect from it. All I can offer is my utmost attention and respect for what my date expects to get out of our time together, but I do have my limiations on certain things, such as guys whose definition of a GFE consists of something that I will not do for safety reasons. You can e-mail me if you'd like, I do not want to post anything regarding certain things on a public forum, but hopefully you will see that my review ratings here on TER are consistent and if one guy thinks I am a GFE and another guy writes the same thing, keep in mind we had two totally different dates with different dynamics. I maintain that I have always practiced my same standard when dating anyone.
I am not bashing the whole GFE idea, I just know from my experience that different guys have diferent ideas as to what their deinition of a GFE is. I'd be happy to discuss this with you backchannel or via PM here on TER. Again, yes you are correct there are a few reviews here that say different things but let me assure you I have always practiced my same dating standards and cannot control if a guy writes a review and puts down something that did not happen that contradicts the majority of my reviews that say otherwise.
You say you've never had a g/f that gives you a CBJ, and I understand where you're coming from but being in a committed relationship and participating in a dating hoby (for me) has boundaries and separate rules for my level of piece of mind. I have had guys who will not book with me after reading my 30+ reviews here because they don't know what to expect and I will not answer questions about what I do on my dates with gents. I just ask that you or anyone else considering booking a date with me read the reviews, take the majority of what my reviews state and go with that. As I said, I will not advertise myself as a GFE anytime in the forseeable future because the term means many different things to diferent people. I would rather market myself as an upscale companion whose interest is in making my date happy without crossing my lines of safety standards for myself. I hope this makes sense.
Anyway, the GFE term has been discussed many times both here and on other forums and I find that the interpretations run from one end of the spectrum to the other. I would rather be known as a provider who has her client's best interests in mind according to my boundaries as I've stated above. To me, there is also a huge dynamic in expecting a GFE date because a real life girlfriend and a g/f for an hour or more will treat you differently. Especially when it comes to emotions. A reallife girlfriend loves you and would of course treat you differently than a new acquaintance that you are only with for an hour or more.
Hope I haven't confused you. Like I said, please feel free to PM me here or e-mail me at [email protected]
Respectfully, Giselle
Very honest post, Giselle. I tend to think that the reviewers do more harm than good when details of a date are embellished. It creates unrealistic expectations for guys that rely on the reviews as to how their session may go. I'm sure that it creates tension during the date when a guy, based on the reviews, is expecting different activities on a date than what the lady may provide. It puts both in an awkward situation.
For me, a CBJ is not a deal breaker, but for some, it is. If reviews were more honest, these types of situations would not happen as often.
Giselle, you should be a writer or a politician in real life. You definately shouldn't work for "Cliff Notes." LOL Very honest post. You are to be commended.
youforea and keystonekid, thank you for the kind words. I am a bit of a wordsmith, sometimes too much LOL.
Keystonekid, I am actually a part-time writer in real life but not in the political world. (Although I should proof read some of my typos before hitting the "post" button. I get going too fast and skip over the fumbling fingers.) Let's just say that my day job entails a lot of debate and arguing. LOL